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dupebaby (f)
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My Boyfriend's Bestfriend Kiss Me
Well I don't know where to begin, but yesterday, I asked my boyfriend to go to the movies with me, he said he was too tried to go, since his best friend was with him, I asked him, he said yes.
When we got to the movies, everything was going on fine until when the movies was about to finish and he kissed me. I was to slap the hell out of him, but then I didn't.
Now what I'm asking you guys is this: should I tell my boyfriend or not?
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maree7 (f)
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u should tell him soo he doesn't later find out , n that might cause a quarrell, tell him so that u can keep the trust btwn u two. because if the same situation happened to ur boyfrend you would want him to tell u.  |
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fe_mi (m)
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u need to tell ur boyfriend about this so that stuff like this wont break ur relationship but again u need to handle the case very carefully because the guy in question is ur boyfriend bestfriend
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bluenubian (f)
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u should have slapped him then  , who gave him the impression that u wanted him to kiss you as per your boyfriend. i can only speak for myself, i sure wont tell him, i jus pray the whole thing gets buried and never comes up |
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naijacutee (f)
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Did you kiss him back?
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arianne (f)
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Did you kiss him back?
Good Question. i would av slapped d dude silly! this is another proof of the fact that guys think with their testosterone. i think u shuld tell ur guy because if the word comes out, its going to be on u. - u wanted the movie - u wanted his company (the friend) - u got a kiss and did nothing bout it (did u express ur disgust)? its a man's world and its always the womans fault! remember?  |
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cute-ass (f)
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Dear even though you didn't slap him, you sure should have yelled the living dead out of him . And if you still havent done that, i suggest you do. He should get your stand that you're not into his stiupid little games, your not doing anything about it might give him the wrong signal  If i were you, NO i wouldn't tell my boyfriend about it, i'll give the guy the chance to prove it was a mistake, if the act repeats itself, then i'll be doing some telling. Maybe he wanted to find out if you were interested (yes ooh, guys can be such cowards and betrayers), and you proved you weren't. Hopefully, he'll rest his case. I believe in ni-secrets relationship, but somethings are better left unsaid, i don't think it has gotten to the point of it being dangerous, and if your guy should find out, well he was the one that kissed you, you didn't kiss him back and you were only trying to spare their relationshiå which will definitely not be the same if you told |
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IBB Fan (m)
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@blue so you won't talk?  i'm beginning to have a re-think on that your boyfriend that broke up with you last year. @dupe you never said what kind of kiss it was and how many seconds it lasted. it might have been an affectionate kiss of appreciation for taking him along to the movies. still, good thing you didn't slap him. and your boyfriend? who knows whether they planned it. honestly, i see no reason why your boyfriend should lay back while his"best" friend goes with you since he was tired. all he needed to do was hold you down and postpone seeing the movie. is there still anything like a best friend sef? i'm too damn sure that movie will still be showing at the cinemas for another 2 weeks. i think it's a set-up. so tell your bobo before you become the table tennis egg. |
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olusola200
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WHAT KIND OF KISS , I NEED TO KNOW before PASSING COMMENT OR ADVICE
HOW, WHEN, MOOD HOW LONG AND THE LOOK IN HIS EYES
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Hotnspicy (f)
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i think it would be best to tell him.Cause if the "Bestfriend" tells I'm thing could get really ugly.
Anyway what sort of bestfriend is that.
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gbeborun (m)
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everything starts from a simple kiss, next you will find yourself together with his bestmate on the same bed and when you are done you'll come out to tell the world about it silently seeking some moral justification. my dear you wont get it from us, he kissed and all you wanted to do was slap him but u decided against it when u remembered how good it felt abi? next time no ask us. just carry on with your evil deeds. if one i knw yor boyfriend would have old him myself
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JuneJemini (m)
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What do you mean by "HE JUST KISSED YOU?" Did you respond? Did you like it? Did you resist or refuse him? Did he force himself on you because if you didnt like or invite him and he did it without your concent then its a case of assault? If you can't answer these and more other questions relating this incident, then you are as guilty as the case sounds and i don't think that any reasonable man/guy should give a helping hand to such a sister who would perpetrate such an act of infidelity in relationship and still ask "SHOULD I TELL MY BOYFRIEND" these are the same people who would go to our backs and say ALL MEN ARE THE SAME "CHEATS, WICKED AND ANIMALS". Abeg make una talk beta thing make we deliberate upon, I'M OUT,
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dollyp1cute (f)
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@dupebaby Obviously you have not told the whole story here. I want to believe it was not a kiss on the cheek otherwise it would not be on this thread. So if i was on the lips how come you left your lips/mouth available next to his mouth for him to be tempted to and ultimately kiss it . And why did you hesistate to slap him or maybe you secretly enjoyed it  If you had given him a dirty slap that will make him see stars, jupiter, saturn, mars , then your story will have been more credible with your boyfriend. As it is you know guys are crazily jealous, I am afraid if and when you tell your boyfriend he might be wondering like I am the mathematical equation that brought your lips to the proximity of his friends mouth. |
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bluenubian (f)
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@blue so you won't talk? i'm beginning to have a re-think on that your boyfriend that broke up with you last year. whachu sayin? u saying it was ma fault? . . . hmm well maybe in a way |
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kellorah (f)
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i'D rather tell him before his so-called best friend does |
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maree7 (f)
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@ kellorah
i agree with u
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IBB Fan (m)
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@blue baby, tell me something i don't fcuking know!!  you know i don't trust your Agbaneje ass! you might have gone as far as jerking his best friend off in the back seat in that parking lot, down town. |
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joefit4gur (m)
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Hehe, First, I'D like to tell you what the definition of a kiss is, According to Oxford Dictionary, it says a KISS is to touch or press with the lips slightly pursed, and then often to part them and to emit a smacking sound, in an expression of affection, love, greeting, reverence, etc.: Thats funny but I think the true definition of a kiss is, An upper preparation for a lower action that will go on in high acceleration and speed that oftens leads to the formation of , Well, So if ya get da meaning up there, Itz time to take a break and tell the DAMN best friend to go lick his ass or there might be danger lurking around in the corner, WATCH OUT LAYDEE. |
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dupebaby (f)
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well for people that want 2 know, i told my boyfriend about, guess what, the guy doesn't believe me, he said his bestfriend can't do such a stupid thing like that, now I'm stuck in the middle, my boyfriend said he trust his bestFriend with his whole life, so now what, how can i get him 2 trust me, , i just want his bestfriend 2 pay for what he did,  |
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bluenubian (f)
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well for people that want 2 know, i told my boyfriend about, guess what, the guy doesn't believe me, he said his bestfriend can't do such a stupid thing like that, now I'm stuck in the middle, my boyfriend said he trust his bestFriend with his whole life, so now what, how can i get him 2 trust me, , i just want his bestfriend 2 pay for what he did, sorry to say buh i told u so. . . . sad, sorry bout your plight, buh remember that karma prevails! @blue baby, tell me something i don't fcuking know!! you know i don't trust your Agbaneje ass! you might have gone as far as jerking his best friend off in the back seat in that parking lot, down town. that is so wrong  , thats one thing i wouldn't do is mess with my boyfriend's friends or what not, i don't even believe in getting close to your spouse's friend, my friends were my friends and his friends were his, and we jus met briefly on occasions |
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kellorah (f)
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if ure his girl and he really is serious about u, i don't see why he should pick his so-called best friend over u.
don't worry, wot goes around comes around
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Radiant (f)
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Don't tell your boyfriend! This is what will actually shatter your relationship. Does he tell you everything he does at your back? If his friend decides to tell him, your boyfriend wouldn't know if it's true because he wasn't there anyways. Duhhh! Girl, don't sweat this matter too much plz. Just move on with your boyfriend and consider what happened HISTORY!  |
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kellorah (f)
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radiant, d deal's been done and it's not lookin good @ d moment. she told him
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Radiant (f)
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radiant, d deal's been done and it's not lookin good @ d moment. she told him
Ooops! I didn't read everything before I posted She told him? Ohhh my daiz!!! See what I'm saying. Oh well, good luck, babe. Y'all permit me to say, GIRLS, WAKE UP!!! |
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kellorah (f)
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if u tell him, problem. if u don't, problem |
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bluenubian (f)
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Y'all permit me to say, GIRLS, WAKE UP!!!
i know right! |
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SeunImpersonator (m)
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he kissed u or he attempted to kiss you? takes two to kiss - did you in any way take his neck and look him in his eyes and say - to hell with my boyfriend, while he caresses you to the tune of the movies soundtrack?
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kellorah (f)
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@ ^^^ according to her first post, it didn't happen like that
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SeunImpersonator (m)
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we can never know d truth.
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Radiant (f)
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he kissed u or he attempted to kiss you? takes two to kiss - did you in any way take his neck and look him in his eyes and say - to hell with my boyfriend, while he caresses you to the tune of the movies soundtrack?
Like the details matter now??? |
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SeunImpersonator (m)
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@Rado - na wetin u dey yearn?
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