Kissed By My Boyfriend's Best Friend

Just leave it as I've put it.

@ Dupebaby!!

I feel so sorry for you being caught up in the middle, i did say in my post earlier, that in as much as secrets should not be kept in a relationship, somethings are better left unsaid

But there's no point in saying i told you so, because the deed is already done, its all going to be your word against his which is a difficult place to be without proof, just live and hope that the truth will come out, it always has a way of doing so you know.

I just hope your relationship with your boyfriend hasn't been washed down the drain before it happens, even if it has, do not blame yourself because you did what you felt was right to save your ass, and if your boyfriend chose to take his friend's side over yours, then that might be some food for thought for you
why on earth would he think you just made the story up? if he doesn't give you more credit than that,hmmmm

'exchange'??
aru

@seun impersonator.

As in the girl already told her boyfriend who does not believe her, read the blog,

You did the best thing by telling your boyfriend because you don't know what the other guy's plan is.

Similar thing happened to me, told my boyfriend, he found it hard to believe me, and then I told his sister and the whole thing became international news. The friend turned the whole story around that I seduced him.

We broke up because the pressure was too much and boyfriend said we should leave everything to God. We got back together three years later after everything had settled down.

I only discovered recently that my boyfriend cut off contact with his friend due to what happened.

Although his best friend is not saying what he did, he has been going round telling everyone (his mum, my boyfriend's mum, families, friends, etc) to beg my boyfriend to forgive him.

We bebes should be careful about some emotional feeling at  times, if not why should you kiss your guys friend.

  Forget the whole thing, don't even tell your man. Just pray that it doesnt happen again and that your man's friend don't tell him.

You sure as hell should have slapped the living daylights out of the bastard! 

Guys who have no self-control give us a very bad image. If you had slapped him, that would have sent a message. But by not doing anything, you have given the bloke a green light.

Make sure you tell your boyfriend so he knows the Judas he has as a friend, before something more serious happens! 

Just saying, what if after slapping the guy and he returned the slap with thunder and lightening, tory will get K-leg from that point on. . . I am about sick and tired of people
making it seem that is a NO NO for a guy to hit a woman, but its okay for the woman to
hit whenever she pleases.

@poster

I really have to worry about this guy you call your boyfriend, just as somethings are
better left unsaid, some are better not initiated at all.  Your boyfriend is most certainly
not showing any signs of wisdom by asking another guy who is not related to you or
him (risky even) to take you out to the movies. 

Also, I have to ask: what was it that you were thinking to have even taken him up on
the offer?  The movie can't wait? Are you the kind that must have their way every time
and will nag until someone gives in?

For your boyfriend to outrightly doubt you and believe his best friend instead is very suspicious . I suspect him and I suspect the r/lship

First, the best friend you said! Guys have a tendency of staying very close to their best friends, at times closer than their girlfriends We have a tendency of discussing almost anything with our best friends, including how and when we had sex with you

So for him to express doubts almost immediately you told him, from a guy's perspective, I think you just survived a set-up from your boyfriend
The guy was probably aware of the plot   There are two possibilities why this could happen. I do not know your guy's nature, how long you two have dated or the state of your relationship with him. It's either your guy still loves you and wanted to put you to test with his own best friend because he doesn't trust you or he is tired of you and then wanted to share you with his best friend before dumping you!
Or even a third option, his best friend had always secretly lusted after you and wanted to play a fast one on the D day. And your boyfriend is far too dump to figure that out!!!

Anyway, you have to be very careful now with both your boyfriend and his best friend I don't understand why your boyfriend would not go to the movies with you. Even at that, why he would carelessly leave you to the care of his own best friend and then disbelieving your story afterwards, knowing what we men can be capable of

Babe if you were my sister, I would tell you to watch your back! Decide whether you would continue with someone who doesn't trust you believe you nor care about you

Any of my suggestions would definitely be the answer. Only you can figure it out.
Best of luck

@Poster

Q:

What were your motives/reasons for wanting/insisting to go to the movies?
What were your actions/reactions when you were at the movie?

My View:
I bet there was an action of yours that prompted a reaction.

Q:

why stress on the fact that he's ur boyfriend's best friend? He kissed you and you are asking if u're to tell or not?

My View:

If you feel cool/okay by it, don't tell.
If you feel guilty or he's guilty then choose to tell. And tell him his BEST FRIEND kissed you.

Conclusion:
I know you wouldn't reply any post here because something tells me you're also guilty. You haven't answer all posts.

Good Day.

Its good u told him. Just know that if he truly loves u, he will definately have a rethink and believe u and if he doesnt and the whole thing is causing serious problem, remind him that u told him simply because u blve nothin should be kept back in a relationship particularly issues like this. If he doesnt still agree wit u, den know that u have a luvless and trustless ???relationship which is not d best.

And besides, u av not told us how d kiss happened to really justify yourself. Sorry ooooo, but d picture is not too clear aight.  

i believe u did d right thing in telling your boyfriend.

if he does not believe u,thats his problem and cross to carry because d same friend will try it again wit another girlfriend.

And de (boyfriend n Best F) r not worth d it

That makes no sense.  If your girlfriend is a bitch, then your best friend is a dirty dog too!

na GOD go bend ur nick ashawo like u, he was suppose to even mess u i pity ur boyfreind, i think he force ur mouth open to kiss you prostitute if i get i sister like you i go disown her after  u don't enjoy ur self come here come dey misjarn GOD punish u ashawo like you hotel girl.