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gaylord
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Dear All,
Does anyone know the technique of how to approach/toast these white girls in London?
I have been in this country for 7 months now and I have not laid my hands on any.
Most of them i tried to chat up in bus stops are always snobbish.
Please guys assist me on the best method. I need answers.
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1forall (m)
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Seeing its your first post I'll attempt to answer your question as straight-forward as possible You don't chat up girls at bus-stops man, its gross!  where u think say u dey  lucky theyre only snubbing you  You can chat 'em up from proper meeting places like work, eating places, bars and the like, and you'll need to work on your lines mate - those cheap lines you imported from Lagos def wont work where u are now With your tacky username, my guess is they don't even understand wha youre saying, and I can almost bet its lame anyway. You may need to socialise more so you can understand the culture well enough first, its important u do else you'd just be wasting time making a fool of yourself 
And why the desperation for white girls sef? Papers?  |
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English1 (f)
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IF you are talking to them with the sole intention of 'laying your hands on them' I don't blame them for snubbing you.
English people don't talk to strangers on the street. As the last poster said, you need to talk to people when you meet them more naturally, at a bar or club, at college, at work etc. And then just talk to them in a friendly way. There's nothing worse than some man coming up to you with a cheesy chat-up line.
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IBB Fan (m)
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@gaylord your name implies that you're not just gay, but the lord of the gay crew. so why would a straight girl want you to lay your hands on her?  |
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anabell (f)
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maybe u think u are still in nigeria{chatin up a girl in d bus stop }i bet u are one of those irritant that see a girl strolin home and u start sayin seeeeeeeeeeee from afar.I think u better take 1forall advice and stick to it. |
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IBDat (m)
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The general consensus here is right - don't chat up a girl at the bus stop - especially if you're catching bus yourself.
Approach them at social or work place, meet them through a mutual friend - I'm not going to lie you but dress sense and ascent are also a factor.
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One
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Go to the clubs mate - especially those outside London. White girls are there (including those of easy virtue  ) looking for people to buy them a drink. You don't even need a great chat up line for that. A smile alone often does the trick. Forget the road and bus stops. Go to the clubs, pubs, galleries, library. |
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don jazzie (m)
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@gaylord your name implies that you're not just gay, but the lord of the gay crew. so why would a straight girl want you to lay your hands on her? answers his question  but guyman u dey error badaly.try update they girls would be comin and u won't have to bus stop em |
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Tmoni (m)
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the LORD supreme of GAYS,
u need ALFRED H.S to come into your life,
to go with the consensus, the bus stop is most def. not the place to sting a lassie,
out of curiousity, what were your words? that can give us an idea of hw much we have to work on the lyrics,
get flexible and reduce the per hr jobs you do--lol
dnt worry, it happened to almost all the fresh guys from 9j
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fashfisher (m)
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first get a life
second get a life! again
then you will know what to do and how to do it
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alabiyemmy (m)
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you can chat up a girl at the bus stop - depends what you say and how much a charmer you are. English people on the other hand like it when u approach them with a friendly mien, don't take to all that crap about british people are snubbish bla bla bla - depends on the approach, the statements you made, the effect on her but if u say things like how now, u don close work, na bus u dey wait for, na shoe you wear - or things like - your hair fine o - or things like - u get cigarrete make i smoke or even if you say words like - u fine well well o, then be sure you are asking for a slint look.
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ikamefa (f)
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 interesting! subscribing |
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New (m)
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you can chat girls up anywhere busstops, tube, tube stations, opticians, snooker hall etc. just don't appear brash and use either an english accent or none. Some girls don't understand Africans (attitude and accent) until they get to know you.
'Nice top you've got on' or 'what beautiful eyes you have' is a start (with a smile). Always works for me.
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davidylan (m)
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this is ridiculous. Can someone let me know if white girls have golden bodies?
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New (m)
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Thats what the man wants. Its his choice if he wants a particular race to mix with.
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worldman (m)
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o boy u think u are in ajegunle or oshodi london is a very different place from nigeria,u think does girls over there in london are like those [AKARA] or those market girls in nigeria
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Mr sachs (m)
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guy u b wetin i dey call MENTUS(mental disorientation about ladies) sorry to say. all u ve to do is contact me on stewart_cozgrove@accountant.com. i do not brag i work in the island and i would say i ve met a lot of ladies n actually gave them the physical thing within 48 hrs. so live on faith bro. so i will introduced u to my powerful but secret website. wussies can contact me too. guys lets stop being wussy to the ladies. |
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rof-lmao
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SMH @ some of ya'll. alabiyemmy is the truth! You can approach any girl any where. It's all about the setting and most importantly your game. You need to measure up your game and set out where it matches best. If your game is whack then it'll be hard making an impression on a girl you see at the bus stop or a public place for that matter. In that case you're best to follow other suggestions - clubs and bars. These places exist for the sole purpose of your intentions. Everyone know what time it is and you got a wide range to choose from  - If one fronts, be easy and move to another. It's that simple! However, if your game is ultra-whack you need a desperate solution: Forget London all together. Your Green Zone will have to be outside London. Over there black folks are rare commodity. White broads will approach you. All you gotta do maintain, play it cool and do ya thang! However, with a faggot ass screen name like that I do not believe you fit in any of the above categories. It's fair to presume you have no game at all. Solution: forget girls. They are not meant for you. I would've said you try brothels but I honestly don't think you deserve those ones. Either become a Priest or be contented with what your hand has to offer! Peace. |
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naijacutee (f)
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Like English1 said earlier, if all you want from girls (whatever the race) is to 'lay your hands on them', then I'm sorry for you. Just don't play with fire or you'll get burnt.
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One
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Try your luck outside London or some of the predominantly white areas of London. Go to club or pub there. Dress well. Put some cash in your pocket. Wear a nice perfume. No much talking. Just buy a drink and chill. Sit at the bar and smile. It works like magic.
Wetin u mean sef, u no sabi toast woman again?
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Red_Lips (f)
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Seeing its your first post I'll attempt to answer your question as straight-forward as possible
You don't chat up girls at bus-stops man, its gross! where u think say u dey lucky theyre only snubbing you
You can chat 'em up from proper meeting places like work, eating places, bars and the like, and you'll need to work on your lines mate - those cheap lines you imported from Lagos def wont work where u are now
With your tacky username, my guess is they don't even understand wha youre saying, and I can almost bet its lame anyway. You may need to socialise more so you can understand the culture well enough first, its important u do else you'd just be wasting time making a fool of yourself Rofl I like you, jare. |
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user86666 (m)
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now rof-lmao, that was hilarious
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akara (m)
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i hope the guy is not really gay o. He still has a lot to learn if he can call himself gaylord.
Just be yourself but avoid the bus stops or you might end up with the wrong sorts.
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user86666 (m)
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oops. . . my bad
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kellorah (f)
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''technique'?  |
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alabiyemmy (m)
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Dress well. Put some cash in your pocket. Wear a nice perfume. No much talking. Just buy a drink and chill. Sit at the bar and smile. It works like magic.
Nice one - will try it out tonight - Friday - does it work for our dear Nigerian sisters? |
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busygirl (f)
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Heee heee! You want to marry oyinbo. . . . Let me drop you one hint. . .You must know how to tell lies very well. . .Like you come from a rich family, The President is your father and so on. I didn't tell you o. GOOD LUCK SHA! Nairalanders will never cease to amuse me!
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samsilo (m)
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Attitude , confidence,your language(speech),the way you dress .
All these matter more than the place ,I have chatted with many white girls on the street, bus stops ,shops etc and I think being relaxed and not seeming to play for something made them feel relaxed about me too.
Also I will agree that white girls outside London are more relaxed ,in fact keen to date black guys .
It may be your dream to date white girls but you need to relax, it will help you to achieve your dream. And no need to lie.
No be naija be this!
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choongtin (f)
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hmmmmn cnt stop laughing y all talk like white girls are some special creatures or something, man the way u approach a girl is the way u approach a girl the only thing you need to do is make sure you look good and also your accent has got to be sound except you r going to chat up one of those trampish white girls that dnt have boy friends then it doesnt matter, good luck
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fatliar (m)
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guy am not getting is it that u couldnt lay your hand on gay ?was why u decided 2 change 2 girls. well today is friday another opportunity 2hook up with a white chick best of luck
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kellorah (f)
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guy am not getting is it that u couldnt lay your hand on gay ?was why u decided 2 change 2 girls. lmfao so true though, 'gaylord' well today is friday another opportunity 2hook up with a white chick best of luck
typical!! |
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fatliar (m)
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so true though, 'gaylord'hmmmmmmmm
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