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Z4M4eva (f)
Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« on: January 14, 2006, 01:48 PM »

Steps: 

1.   Take pride in your appearance. Realize you only have one chance to make a good first impression. 
 
2.   Appeal to all her senses through your sensuous voice, fragrance, clothing and appearance. 
 
3.   Give her a reason to think about you. Wear a masculine fragrance that haunts her memory, tasteful clothes that she yearns to touch, a smile that she can't get out of her mind. 
 
4.   Flirt with her by sending silent signals of your interest through subtle body language. 
 
5.   Treat her like she's the center of your world. Focus your full attention on her and block out distractions. 
 
6.   Listen intently to what she has to say, and respond with respect for her opinions. 
 
7.   Ask about her interests, her work and her hobbies. Pay attention to the details. 
 
8.   Be honest and sincere. Keep your promises. Call if you say you're going to call. Show up at the time you say you're going to arrive. Don't make idle promises that you have no intention of keeping. 
 
9.   Let her know you're different from other men. Emphasize your originality through your personality, intelligence and behavior. Don't pretend you're anyone other than yourself. 
 
10.   Refrain from boasting, particularly about your past triumphs with other women. 
 
11.   Leave a little something to the imagination. Don't bare all or tell all immediately. An air of mystery can be provocative and appealing to a woman. 

Tips: 
 
Your appearance and body language may catch her attention, but it takes personality and charm to sustain a woman's interest. 

Talk about her too

Don't just talk about yourself. Make sure you ask her questions and let her know that you want to get to know her better.
 
christyne (f)
Re: How To Attract A Lady
« #1 on: January 14, 2006, 04:29 PM »

You go girl  Wink but .......u sure say u no be lesbian o? Lips sealed
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: How To Attract A Lady
« #2 on: January 14, 2006, 04:32 PM »

Thnx

No o! I am not a lesbian...I got a fiance(guy)

But rele how does the thread and lesbianism go together? As a matter of fact I got this from a forwarded message in my mail box. Smiley
nana (f)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #3 on: January 14, 2006, 09:21 PM »

Nice Job,Zainy.Keep it Up! Wink
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #4 on: January 14, 2006, 10:32 PM »

Aww...thnx Nana Smiley
mizkay (f)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #5 on: January 14, 2006, 10:59 PM »

Z4M4eva - from today henceforth (translation: from now till the time wey fowls them bi fight) - I appoint you to the self-sufficient/very efficient post of OFFICIAL Nairaland BOYZ2MEN-HAVE-UR-GIRL-AND-KEEP-HER COUNCILLOR.!!! you have spoken well, sister of mine!
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #6 on: January 14, 2006, 11:01 PM »

Thanks Mizkay...haha you funny Cheesy
mizkay (f)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #7 on: January 15, 2006, 01:15 AM »

Quote from: Z4M4eva on January 14, 2006, 11:01 PM
Thanks Mizkay...haha you funny Cheesy

my sista....funnyness really important to everybody life oooo!!! let's just say I've taken a leaf out of the book of 'sense of humour' - unlike some people them here.......hehehe
hot-angel (f)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #8 on: January 15, 2006, 02:25 AM »

AMAZING!
mizkay (f)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #9 on: January 15, 2006, 03:33 AM »

WONDAMENT!!!!!!
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #10 on: January 15, 2006, 03:31 PM »

 Smiley Smiley Smiley
otokx (m)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #11 on: January 15, 2006, 04:06 PM »

una don come o
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #12 on: January 15, 2006, 04:08 PM »

Quote from: otokx on January 15, 2006, 04:06 PM
una don come o

Otokx what do you think 'bout the topic? you got any suggestions....anything you can contribute at all? Smiley
otokx (m)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #13 on: January 15, 2006, 04:34 PM »

when u talk of masculine fragrances? could you suggest some brands?
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #14 on: January 15, 2006, 04:42 PM »

Well Fragrances like :

Eternity - Very Classic,Sexy,Masculine,Arousing and ohh so charming,guaranteed to make the girls go gaga Tongue

Gucci - Always does the magic...ever so sexy and refreshing!

Armani - Very fresh and masculine

Emporio Armani - Mysterious...and oh so sexy!

And there are lots n lots of others Smiley

otokx (m)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #15 on: January 15, 2006, 05:19 PM »

i hope they are available in port harcourt.
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #16 on: January 15, 2006, 05:26 PM »

Sure they'll be Wink
snazzydawn (f)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #17 on: January 15, 2006, 05:39 PM »

zeeee,is that how M got you? Grin
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #18 on: January 15, 2006, 05:56 PM »

Maybe Cheesy
virozuru (f)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #19 on: January 25, 2006, 06:40 PM »

*
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #20 on: January 25, 2006, 10:21 PM »

Thnx Viro Smiley
djcrucifix (m)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #21 on: January 26, 2006, 06:30 PM »

i totally agree with z4m4Eva.she hit all the main points right on the head, i give you my fullest respect.
         
Ashbaby (f)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #22 on: January 26, 2006, 06:37 PM »

You bet! That's a good post! I'm humored and impressed! Smiley
otokx (m)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #23 on: January 26, 2006, 06:55 PM »

@viro; how did you come by that conclusion?
Ashbaby (f)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #24 on: January 26, 2006, 06:58 PM »

It's true. Look at how many guys give mediochrity and hope that they will get a lady to die for....how can that even work?
c0dec (m)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #25 on: January 26, 2006, 08:32 PM »

Steps: 

1.   Take pride in your appearance. Realize you only have one chance to make a good first impression. 
      ok
2.   Appeal to all her senses through your sensuous voice, fragrance, clothing and appearance. 
      what?  Huh no be by force oh
3.   Give her a reason to think about you. Wear a masculine fragrance that haunts her memory, tasteful clothes that she yearns to touch, a smile that she can't get out of her mind. 
      yarns! utter BS
4.   Flirt with her by sending silent signals of your interest through subtle body language. 
      fo sheezy Wink
5.   Treat her like she's the center of your world. Focus your full attention on her and block out distractions. 
      do this and you're doomed.
6.   Listen intently to what she has to say, and respond with respect for her opinions. 
      do the opposite
7.   Ask about her interests, her work and her hobbies. Pay attention to the details. 
      thats on the first date only
8.   Be honest and sincere. Keep your promises. Call if you say you're going to call. Show up at the time you say you're going to arrive. Don't make idle promises that you have no intention of keeping. 
      u shouldn't even make promises in the first place
9.   Let her know you're different from other men. Emphasize your originality through your personality, intelligence and behavior. Don't pretend you're anyone other than yourself. 
      ok
10.   Refrain from boasting, particularly about your past triumphs with other women. 
        it's alright to boast if u mix it with some humor (cocky & funny)
11.   Leave a little something to the imagination. Don't bare all or tell all immediately. An air of mystery can be provocative and appealing to a woman. 
        100% agreed.
Tips: 
 
Your appearance and body language may catch her attention, but it takes personality and charm to sustain a woman's interest. 
 
ballababy
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #26 on: January 26, 2006, 09:25 PM »

nice one!!!but takes only few guys to do this,most of them really don't know this,i guess u should start counselling!!!!hahaha!!! really that was a nice tip a guy who does that has got killed his girlfriend because she would keep comin 4 him Wink
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #27 on: January 26, 2006, 10:02 PM »

Thnx Djcrucifix, Ashbaby, and Ballababy...thanx Y'all, much love Smiley
smartsoft (m)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #28 on: January 26, 2006, 10:50 PM »

Thanks  Z4m, that was a nice topic or post, humm hehehhehe i don get am now now.. i dey look for girl ooo so i go keep this in mind..
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #29 on: January 26, 2006, 10:51 PM »

L.O.L thanx so much Smartsoft...much love Smiley
fusionX (m)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #30 on: January 26, 2006, 10:54 PM »

Ladies... How to attract a Guy
- Show up at his door step Naked........ Wink Wink
smartsoft (m)
Re: Guys: How To Attract A Lady
« #31 on: January 27, 2006, 04:19 AM »

I'm sure you got elder sister or Younger, they will help yah or people in the room, make we wait someone like Z4m she will help
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