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Z4M4eva (f)
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Steps:
1. Take pride in your appearance. Realize you only have one chance to make a good first impression. 2. Appeal to all her senses through your sensuous voice, fragrance, clothing and appearance. 3. Give her a reason to think about you. Wear a masculine fragrance that haunts her memory, tasteful clothes that she yearns to touch, a smile that she can't get out of her mind. 4. Flirt with her by sending silent signals of your interest through subtle body language. 5. Treat her like she's the center of your world. Focus your full attention on her and block out distractions. 6. Listen intently to what she has to say, and respond with respect for her opinions. 7. Ask about her interests, her work and her hobbies. Pay attention to the details. 8. Be honest and sincere. Keep your promises. Call if you say you're going to call. Show up at the time you say you're going to arrive. Don't make idle promises that you have no intention of keeping. 9. Let her know you're different from other men. Emphasize your originality through your personality, intelligence and behavior. Don't pretend you're anyone other than yourself. 10. Refrain from boasting, particularly about your past triumphs with other women. 11. Leave a little something to the imagination. Don't bare all or tell all immediately. An air of mystery can be provocative and appealing to a woman.
Tips: Your appearance and body language may catch her attention, but it takes personality and charm to sustain a woman's interest.
Talk about her too
Don't just talk about yourself. Make sure you ask her questions and let her know that you want to get to know her better.
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christyne (f)
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You go girl  but .......u sure say u no be lesbian o? 
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Z4M4eva (f)
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Thnx No o! I am not a lesbian...I got a fiance(guy) But rele how does the thread and lesbianism go together? As a matter of fact I got this from a forwarded message in my mail box. 
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nana (f)
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Nice Job,Zainy.Keep it Up! 
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Z4M4eva (f)
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Aww...thnx Nana 
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mizkay (f)
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Z4M4eva - from today henceforth (translation: from now till the time wey fowls them bi fight) - I appoint you to the self-sufficient/very efficient post of OFFICIAL Nairaland BOYZ2MEN-HAVE-UR-GIRL-AND-KEEP-HER COUNCILLOR.!!! you have spoken well, sister of mine!
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Z4M4eva (f)
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Thanks Mizkay...haha you funny 
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mizkay (f)
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Thanks Mizkay...haha you funny  my sista....funnyness really important to everybody life oooo!!! let's just say I've taken a leaf out of the book of 'sense of humour' - unlike some people them here.......hehehe
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mizkay (f)
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WONDAMENT!!!!!!
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Z4M4eva (f)
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una don come o
Otokx what do you think 'bout the topic? you got any suggestions....anything you can contribute at all? 
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otokx (m)
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when u talk of masculine fragrances? could you suggest some brands?
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Z4M4eva (f)
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Well Fragrances like : Eternity - Very Classic,Sexy,Masculine,Arousing and ohh so charming,guaranteed to make the girls go gaga  Gucci - Always does the magic...ever so sexy and refreshing! Armani - Very fresh and masculine Emporio Armani - Mysterious...and oh so sexy! And there are lots n lots of others 
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otokx (m)
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i hope they are available in port harcourt.
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Z4M4eva (f)
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Sure they'll be 
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snazzydawn (f)
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zeeee,is that how M got you? 
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Z4M4eva (f)
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Maybe 
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Z4M4eva (f)
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Thnx Viro 
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djcrucifix (m)
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i totally agree with z4m4Eva.she hit all the main points right on the head, i give you my fullest respect.
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Ashbaby (f)
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You bet! That's a good post! I'm humored and impressed! 
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otokx (m)
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@viro; how did you come by that conclusion?
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Ashbaby (f)
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It's true. Look at how many guys give mediochrity and hope that they will get a lady to die for....how can that even work?
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c0dec (m)
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Steps: 1. Take pride in your appearance. Realize you only have one chance to make a good first impression. ok2. Appeal to all her senses through your sensuous voice, fragrance, clothing and appearance. what? no be by force oh3. Give her a reason to think about you. Wear a masculine fragrance that haunts her memory, tasteful clothes that she yearns to touch, a smile that she can't get out of her mind. yarns! utter BS4. Flirt with her by sending silent signals of your interest through subtle body language. fo sheezy  5. Treat her like she's the center of your world. Focus your full attention on her and block out distractions. do this and you're doomed.6. Listen intently to what she has to say, and respond with respect for her opinions. do the opposite7. Ask about her interests, her work and her hobbies. Pay attention to the details. thats on the first date only8. Be honest and sincere. Keep your promises. Call if you say you're going to call. Show up at the time you say you're going to arrive. Don't make idle promises that you have no intention of keeping. u shouldn't even make promises in the first place9. Let her know you're different from other men. Emphasize your originality through your personality, intelligence and behavior. Don't pretend you're anyone other than yourself. ok10. Refrain from boasting, particularly about your past triumphs with other women. it's alright to boast if u mix it with some humor (cocky & funny)11. Leave a little something to the imagination. Don't bare all or tell all immediately. An air of mystery can be provocative and appealing to a woman. 100% agreed.Tips: Your appearance and body language may catch her attention, but it takes personality and charm to sustain a woman's interest.
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ballababy
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nice one!!!but takes only few guys to do this,most of them really don't know this,i guess u should start counselling!!!!hahaha!!! really that was a nice tip a guy who does that has got killed his girlfriend because she would keep comin 4 him 
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Z4M4eva (f)
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Thnx Djcrucifix, Ashbaby, and Ballababy...thanx Y'all, much love 
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smartsoft (m)
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Thanks Z4m, that was a nice topic or post, humm hehehhehe i don get am now now.. i dey look for girl ooo so i go keep this in mind..
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Z4M4eva (f)
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L.O.L thanx so much Smartsoft...much love 
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fusionX (m)
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Ladies... How to attract a Guy - Show up at his door step Naked........ 
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smartsoft (m)
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I'm sure you got elder sister or Younger, they will help yah or people in the room, make we wait someone like Z4m she will help
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