Three Girls At My Neck

how can i choose between three girls,
they are all beautiful and nice. 
plzzzzzzzzzzz help

1: she been dey cock food for me 4 school and respect my friends
2: she like me and give me advise but she is alway busy.
3: she like me and i like her but deferent faith and she give me her time when i am around but
she hardly call me on phone i always do the calling.

My dear, the english man will call it "a list of priority"

Make one,

Who do you really love most out of the three, you cannot love two people the same you know?
what is it you need/want most in a girl, which of them bears those quality(ies)
which of the girl do you see standing out the length of time?
Which of them do you see making a better wife?

Dearie, take your time and think things through. Maybe take some space from them so your judgement don't get clouded, then spend some time with all three equally to see who has that "little extra" you want in a woman Cos they all sound like three different people.

Do not let someone else make the decision for you Cos your priority and likes might not be somone else's and you'll rather live regretting and building up your own mistakes and choices than someone else's.

You should take your decision in good time, and gently let the rest two go so they don't get their hopes high and be rejected in a bad time , When you've taken your decisions, live and stand by it. Nothing and nobody is perfect, and you couldn't have married all three or . . ?

And maybe, just maybe you're yet to come across your soulmate , one step at a time hun!!

you make up your own mind my guy, you are the man in the relationship, Just pray ot God to show you which want be your wife abeg. Na praya o

Its not strange but such things happen. I had a dilemma like this once, 2 guys in love with me very nice etc and guess what? i ended up with none of them.They were both wrong for me. These three women may all be wrong for you depending on your priorities. What is it you really want in a relationship? is it food, then stick with the cook, good adviser, etc. Give it time its not a biggy,  time would tell at least thats what worked for me. In due time they would show themselves. But please, don't have any intimate relationship with any of them o!!! it will complicate things. Someone will be hurt at the end of the day. Just be straight so you can reason with your head and not your BALLS even if you have slept with any of them before, stop now its not too late.

i guess you're a lucky guy

@bebe2007

darling u deserve a hug for this your post
Excellent.

which one is soooooooooo badddddddd behind closed down?   

then ama decide 

@BEBE2007
  IT DOES NOT MEANS THAT I AM SLEEPING WIT THEM OKAY,

HOPE YOU GET MY DEAR.

MY DEAR IS JUST THAT I GAVE EACH OF THEM MY TIME. I CARE 4 THEM.

OR IS IT A CRIME TO CARE FOR SOME ONE. THING ABOUT IT BABY.

@luxoire
is it a crime to call some one that want to help u baby?

well it depend on how u view it.

well is nothing my dear. just view it as normal word okay

@nurex
hmmm only 'smooth talkers' dey call babes BABY so freely ohh!, because their are used to it now, when them go dey toss 3 girls at once, no de want mistake dia names, na so them go dey call all of them and everyone else 'baby'

sha, maybe me and u view it differently, but remember im a babe, your a guy, im at d recieving end, so i know d kind of people that usually call me baby, when they don't even know ME, sha maybe your an exception ([size=8pt]yeah right!  )

@bebe
im only saying it as i see it, abi u no feel me?

its true its your call but going by the list of qualities you gave of your girls i think you should choose No 1.

@Gemini II

bros you  no go understand,
if you just think of the good time you with one of them, men you will always feel like being with her 4eva. but guy i don't want to hurt any one of them.

how i wish i can split my self into three, that will be perfect. don't u thing.

@nurex, trhnk u, eyahh sorry oh, no worry sha, me when open forum here, say i need una help/opinion, nobody no offer me help, hahaha, i just laugh say i go full through somehow, u'll be alright hun, just go with what your heart decides and if your heart aint deciding nothin' then stay away from all of them (because u aint a playa), otherwise if they find out,, they might feel played and hurt -even though that was not your intention

@nurexg and @luxoire,

How are you guys? sorry i left just like that yesterday. Na work because am.  Have you picked someone now?


@ Nurexg, u said one cooks, the other gives advise, the third i wouldnt consider if i were you because of the difference in religion or how you check am?

As for the cook, it depends o! if na food go bring happiness to you then go ahead but i prefer the one that gives advise find out why she is very busy,  is it work or anorther guy? if its work then its no problem. She is hard working she wouldnt be a liability on you. Besides you too will be busy working so that would be a perfect match. It seems she is the sensible one amongst them i guess. Na so i c am o!

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@luxoire
i guess u most be a nice person, plz could you give me your ID?