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brick (m)
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What Will You Do If Your Girl Catches You Watching A Ponography
here is a story i was told:
i know a friend who was a music director in his fellowship. he recounted one of his experiences to me. with his reputation in his church, he was still so much involved in watching ponography . each time he would do this, he would shut the door of his room.
one day as he was in the heat of watching one of this movies, he forgot to shut the door behind him. his fiancee came in and caught him and he was shocked.
if u were the guy what would u do? and the ladies, what will do in that situation if u caught your man with such kind of "holy reputation" in such act? this is a man who made an agreement with her for only marital sex.
please i like to know your response.
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IAH (f)
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This story sounds much like what I've heard before. Could it possibly be the same 'music director' and fiancee that I know?  |
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brick (m)
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This story sounds much like what I've heard before. Could it possibly be the same 'music director' and fiancee that I know? i don't really know. but do u know of any person that went through this? what did the person really do? |
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Seun (m)
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I have insisted before that it is not harmful. A lot of men engage in it from time to time and in fact those who are sworn to premarital celibacy are likely to waste more time on it. It is a waste of time and nothing more, so I would expect a smart girl to choose something more important to quarrel over.
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aqua (m)
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Well if i was the guy i will tell my fiancee this "oya come over let me try some of this moves on you now now."
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aqua (m)
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oya off light hehehe!  |
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layi (m)
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...she resemble guinea pig?
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brick (m)
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I have insisted before that it is not harmful. A lot of men engage in it from time to time and in fact those who are sworn to premarital celibacy are likely to waste more time on it. It is a waste of time and nothing more, so I would expect a smart girl to choose something more important to quarrel over.
seun i want to get u right. are u encouraging ponography? if yes, on what basis? |
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Idekeson (m)
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If the girl doesn't mind, then it's all well and good since they're going to keep the incident in-house. But the guy must understand the resentment he will face if it gets out to his religious folks that he enjoys porn. It is one of those things that society, rightly or wrongly holds our church people to a higher standard.
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truthhurts (f)
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watz there i would seat with him and watch with him there is no point hugging and fondling yourself when d real thing is right by ur side   |
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Seun (m)
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I am not encouraging pornography. I am just saying that it is not worth fighting over.
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icingbaby (f)
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i wouldn't do anything it just a porn is not like he is having sex with an other girl, that is not a big deal matter of fact i will join him and we both can watch it together and he's not just my boyfriend he's my fiancee.
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ABIMBOLA77 (f)
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init!! |
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mckaycee (m)
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There is nothing wrong in watching a porno. If I catch my girl watching one, I will happily join her and if she catches me, all fine and good. Let's just know one thing, "NOTHING IS NONSENSE IN THIS WORLD".
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lauryn (f)
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if i were to be the woman, I would gladly watch the porno with him and if he wants some action,,,,,,,,,,,then I'ld show and give it to him. Rather than him with some other woman
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pete (m)
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well the facts of this case as it appears by the first post is that, they're both christians, at the least born agains.So, if thats the case, thats evil communication and the bible says, it corrupts good manners.In this case, the good manners it will or would corrupt is that, they guy may end up sleeping with her before marriage.Granted, a large percentage of campus engagement do have some kind of sexual interractions and thesame reasons they don't eventually culmunate in marriage.What should she do about it...ONE: be understanding and talk with the brother on how to stop it, NOT join him...because that would lead to premarital sex,thats if they care.
NOW, if they're like not born again for real as some brothers and sisters are, then they both could watch it every night and do the DO big time....that act as posited by Seun is not EVIL..depending on your religious conviction.It would hurt your soulish realm other than that, its fun and safe, I mean with moderation.
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lauryn (f)
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well the facts of this case as it appears by the first post is that, they're both christians, at the least born agains.So, if thats the case, thats evil communication and the bible says, it corrupts good manners.In this case, the good manners it will or would corrupt is that, they guy may end up sleeping with her before marriage.Granted, a large percentage of campus engagement do have some kind of sexual interractions and thesame reasons they don't eventually culmunate in marriage.What should she do about it...ONE: be understanding and talk with the brother on how to stop it, NOT join him...because that would lead to premarital sex,thats if they care.
NOW, if they're like not born again for real as some brothers and sisters are, then they both could watch it every night and do the DO big time.that act as posited by Seun is not EVIL..depending on your religious conviction.It would hurt your soulish realm other than that, its fun and safe, I mean with moderation.
i hear ya pete, but there could be some freaky christians u know |
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Marathon
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is not a bad thing for my girl to catch me watching porn if she like she can even join me or leave me to enjoy my movie.  |
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papermoon (f)
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CATCHES boyfriend watching porn??
I SUGGEST YOU JOIN IN THE FUN....
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Ama (f)
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CATCHES boyfriend watching porn??
I SUGGEST YOU JOIN IN THE FUN....
I couldn't agree more! And who know's girl might change her mind about premarital sex . |
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truthhurts (f)
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everyone has got a bad habit that might be his  don't mind me i love giving excuses |
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vicky85 (f)
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finding my guy watching that kind of film is not a big deal,i will try and excuse him then later we will talk over it.
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JosBoy4Lif (m)
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Whats so bad about watching blue films? Just don't become a habitual viewer of such things
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vicky85 (f)
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can someone beleive that i watch that pornographic film yesterday and i don't know am watching it until my friend entered and said "Haa, vicky what are you watching".so if i caught my guy watching that kind of film is just by mistake.
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JosBoy4Lif (m)
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How did you not know you was watching blue film You no get eye for sight? |
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Busta (f)
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your gurl catches u watching porn, SO? ask her to come join u or guys practice what u watching, u know |
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Dalby (m)
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Girl catches boyfriend watching porn! That word catches is judging the person already and making it sound like a bad thing. The problem here is religious and in this case christianity / belief. What defiles a man is not what goes into the man but what comes out of the man. Man, know thyself and be true to thyself!!!
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Chay (f)
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She shouldn't judge him, after all we are all humans and prone to sin, for the fact that he's a church leader doesn't make him superhuman. She agreed to marry him and marriage is for better or worse. I think she should try talk to him about it and pray together regarding it (thats if he's willing) and if not then take a hike. She should also remember that the grass is always greener on the other side. Wish her all the best!!! 
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