He Does Not Love Her Anymore. He Said:

What to do to save it? A relationship that is as good as down the drain?? Are you a magician or something? Try turning back the hand of the clock lol

you said, he said and i quote "the girl is nothing to him anymore and that if he continues with the relationship, he'll never love her" . . and you want to save it, lol you're the funniest one today

Ok first of all, what caused the sudden change of feelings? If its something the girl has done, then it might only might be reversed. But if your friend really said it the way you expressed here then the best advice you can give your friend is to let the damsel walk

between why is he still holding unto her, when he for sure knows he's just wasting his time and hers?? He knows its literally over,and he's still there wastin her energy and love?? Seems your friend is selfish too

He should try and break it dowm to her as softly as possible, its always painful and devastating, more for the party that didn't see it coming, but at the end of the day its the only solution and the sooner he did it and got it over with, the better for them

The longer it took, the more pains he'll be endangering her to, and its not cool!!!!!!

@ Muyenskin

Like i said, you're the funniest today lol

How can you want Nairaland users to help you when we're not in your friend's shoes

If you think the girl did something, then sit him down and have a friend-to-friend chat to him, find out what exactly the problem is, then come back for advice and possible solutions

Why do you need us to speculate what the girl might have done when we don't live with them, or you're up for a "guessing game"

You have to know a sickness to cure it, likewise we have to know what's down, we're not magicians Go find out!!!!!!!!!

well i think its obvious that the relationship has no basis again which is love .then i think there is nothing u or any nairalanders can do about it.the guy has made up his mind.i think the matter should rest like that.

Darling, you got me all wrong.

I said we're not the friend of yours who's having problems in his relationship so we can't possibly know the cause of changed feelings. Ooh lawd . .  i meant that you shhould ask your friend (the one that doesn't love his girlfriend anymore) what the matter is, why he doesn't think he could love her anymore.

When you come back with the specific reasons, then we can help you sort out what exactly should or could be done

And dearie. if not that you just want to find faults, read my two first posts and see what i adviced you to do, you left the advice and jumped into some untrue conclussions, why would i say i wasn't your friend?