Is It Alright For A Married Woman Give Assistance To Her Brothers

Well i think its OK to help your family, but do not over-do it. I mean, don't do it at the expense of your own household and their hapiness. I know some women who would want to help their brothers even when they know their household-expenses cannot affort it.

They think its their husband's loss but at the end of the day it hurts all parties involved. Atimes it results to hidden enemity between the in-laws (the husband and the brohers of the lady, more unlucky situations will now draw the lady's mum into the mess)

Something that could have been prevented if the lady was being a wife and mother first


To some extent, yes she does. Its not only on paper you guys agree to be "one", its for a living. When huge decisions are to be made, they should both be in agreement, even though its the lady's salary.
Aren't they supposed to be taking care of the family together?
Shouldn't they be more of a couple than single individually minded?
Would the lady appreciate it if the guy shipped half of his earnings to his birth family.

If its a chicken-change to buy bisciuts and chocolates, thats a differnt one but
When you're married, in my opinion your immediate family becomes your first priority and planning spot

Dear, you're right.

In my opinion the guy should also put it on the table to be discussed as a family decision.

But in a case where both parties that are the head of the family do things without the other person's knowlegde or consent, then the lady should be my guest

Doing it in form of a sneak (which some women do) is what i'm against!!!