Making Love Before One's Wedding

i beleive from d little knowledge i have oo i beleive itz kind of weird wht u just havw to do is open your eyes well before making advances but somepple alwayz says do u want me to marry a basket that i i will now get to know after marriage which will be very late,i don't think so u just have to behave maturely and talk sensible with her and she will be the one to tell u she is not a virgin and she will be sorry she did but saying u want to text first its weird and god will find it hard to forgive u lets all try our best to eradicate adulteries and co and keep fate in god and make our country great again whtz your own views

  what's all this talk about baskets and public toilets?

where did u guys throw the dignity and pride of a woman?

sex before marriage shld be a personal decision so i wont make any comments on that.

but dignity is one word we shldnt toy with

some nigerian men should be schooled about the words they use when referring to women and sex. quit using all these disgusting choice of words to describe sex or whatever. haba! if a woman wants to have sex before marriage or whatever, then it is her business, you don't have to resort to name calling - basket? public toliet? c'mon now, do those sound right? afterall, it goes both ways. men choose to have sex before marriage as much even if not more than women. what's the big deal? quit the double standard, please, its sooooo tired!

@pattiano. thank u o. some guys are just ignorant and stupid! mind boggling!

 
i think he just has problems communicating with the right words. not that he wants to marry a child. well, i would hope not!

no, the word "girl" can be used for a 30 year old.

Haven't you heard of a "girls night out"?

He said 'i'll like to get married an under age girl'.

under age girl - this is a child.

women sell their own body for money - so stop talking about men respecting women and being dignified with women - when women stop selling their body for money, then come back to me I will be the first to respect women -

All of you here will definitely jump to sex before your wedding night - so stop being hypocritical.

 What is the purpose of sex? Why did God create it? 1. If it was for just for the fun of it, then it won’t be wrong to have it with anybody. you will agree with me that it is more than just for the fun of it. (2) if it is for procreation, then you have only have it with your husband for the purpose of creating babies. (3) Lastly, if it is to bring closeness and cordiality between two parties then you can chose to have it with anyone you intend to have a close relationship with which will make it ok with anybody even the so called prostitutes. You will agree with me the kind of closeness that can be developed through sex is meant for the married, Husband and wife. Have you ever wondered why some people find it difficult to leave relationships in which they get beaten blue-black every time? It is simply because their soul is tied to that relationship. That is what sex does. I am sure you will not like to tie your soul to a wrong person.
Final word- Premarital sex lands people where they don't like. It rids a relationship of trust. If I can sleep with you before marriage just because I am your friend and i believe I love you, then anybody can sleep with you as long as they give you the kind of attention that I gave you. A better looking guy, more comfortable, and more caring guy will do the magic. Also fore the guy, he can sleep with any girl that he feels comfortable with and all these continue after wedding.

Please would all the ladies in the house, be kind enough to ask this guy how many of his sisters or female relatives, have sold their bodies for money? A quick response would be highly appreciated.

Thank you.

its bad luck

Sexual immorality is a worldwide disease right now. Practice this exercise as you go out each day, try to guess the number of virgins you met each day both male and female, nowadays some kids start having sex from age 14!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! or 13 (if u consider the 26 yr-old "girl" in New Zealand having sex with a 13 yr-old boy)

If women sell their body for money then by all means you're one of the buyers!
Some guys talk as if they dnt know that their co guys also do sleep with big women for money. what's the name for that one?? is it not for money too.
 Abeg say some women! because some of us here are very innocent.  if u think you're decent, am decent as well.

ask him for me dear.

It is an empty and meaningless prayer. It only has any meaning to the deluded and weak members of the human race.

It was written by man for man to control. taking a dump in the morning also has a meaning for many of use 

I agree with u all d way Roadblock.  It erodes the issue of trust between a husband and wife.  I will be getting married this coming fall, and my beloved and I have both agreed, that despite our strong attraction and physical desires, we want our marriage bed to be undefiled when we come together as one after marriage.  Yes we are both older and have been in a relationship before this one, but since being together, at this point, we will be each other's last - and are saving ourselves to give to each other AFTER being wed.  We cannot do anything about the past except repent, learn and turn away from those things - which means to come back to priniciples of our faith together.  So 5 - 10 + years from now, my husband will not have to look back and wonder "if another man pays her attention and she is put out with me - will she lay with him?"  And i will have that same trust in him.  THAT is a large basis of building a life together.  IMHO

Actually it's quite risky, especially nowadays when women have rights to say no to their husbands. What if you marry a frigid woman? What if he has a small member? What if you both are simply not sexually compatible?

I will test the product before purchasing, thank you very much. I'm sure Adam didn't go to a church before he and Eve started hooking up.


And there are some african cultures where you're expected to have sex before getting married.


This whole marriage before sex is jewish/european culture being forced down on us.


While I do agree it may have its good points, I don't just swallow everything the man/woman on the pulpit tells me.