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Gwazah (m)
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Dear people in the house
my uncle want me to join police force, why i did not intend . he insisted saying there is job security in it. but i m not just siting i am computer communication and information storage in my company should i leave this job and go for police?
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kempo (m)
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Please let us condem evil here in this forum and that is the only way the affected person will turn a new leaf.
Both Guys and ladies are involved in this but LADIED are the most affected. Infact Basket or public toilet is an understatement to what they do.
Waking round the street of PH,Lagos annd other places will reveal that.
Prostitution is now the raigning business for ladies and after every thing she will go and try fooling an innocent guy that she is a vigin.m HABA lets call a spsde a spade.
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bantos (m)
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 why are we guys crucifying the ladies when we are worse as per the issue on ground let everybody look inward and make this world a better place 
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lalaskee
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do u buy a car without a Test drive??
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belabela (m)
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Has anybody ever asked himself/herself how humans are different from animals in terms of sex. Sex is meant to be sacred and infact it is sacred as far as its authour is concerned.
There is nothing to justify that premarital sex is good. The problem is that most people have lost their conscience and as such their sense of value. I have never heard something more disgusting than people are having sex just to TEST certain parameters - compactibility, wholeness, etc. If anyone is in his/her right state of mind one should know that sex can never bring out such discoveries ( only the wise would understand).
As for me I believe a girl should be maintain her virginity untill marriage. A man also should not be involved in sex untill marriage ( you know virginity is a wrong word to describe a man who has't had sex before.
I know so many guys who never had sex including me so it's only lack of understanding and dignity to publicly say I have sex freely and things like that.
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ayomifull (f)
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Biblically and spiritually and religiously it is a sin to have sex outside marriage, but humanly, fleshlyly (if there's anything like that) it is quite hard. I tried it then but as hard as i tried five years into my relatioship i fell for it and that was before i was married and then we did it over and over and over again until we got married, we married after four years after we ate the forbidden fruit you can imagine how many times it happened. I will advise the unmarried to try as much as possible to avoid it because it is a sin but where you find it hard to do try to at least keep it to just one person when you are at a point that you have all the assurance that all things being equal this is your husband. I am not encouraging premarital sex o, i only said if you can not avoid it. Sincerely i had to beg for God's forgiveness because everyone saw me then as a child of God who would not do that. It is possible if you mean to and believe me the guy will not ever leave you for not agreeing to let him have sex with you before you are married, he will cherish you for it. My sister did that in London the guy bull shit her and left and you know what? he came back after few months and today they are married and he is actually very proud of her and he can trust her with his life. So ladies its so so so good and will make your husband proud of you when he eventually gets there on your wedding night.
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Whitehorse
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Hi All,
I believe its wrong to have sex before marriage. It destroys the trust that should exist in marriage. Statistics prove that people that cohabit (and have sex) before marriage have more failed marriages than those that don't. It cuts across religoius/ethnic divides.
I just celebrated my 1 year wedding anniversary this month. I and my wife did'nt sleep together before our marriage, and our love life keeps getting better and better. It does'nt mean we make love everyday, but when we do, its very good.
The most essential thing is trust, and deep inside you, you can't trust someone you have slept with. If you can do it, someone else can. Its as simple as that.
Just my two pence.
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kenosky (m)
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Reverend, may the DEVIL welcome u into his bosom when the time comes because u v sold your soul already!!!!
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finekid (m)
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What a prayer!
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Ralvy (m)
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May God Purnish every 1 that is against this dude . . .
For God sake, how many of us can keep to such a thing . .
I look at life from a very different perspective . .
My Man, Carry on en get this Suckers
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chioya (f)
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guys sorry to say oh but if anyone thinks its wrong d person should allow spider web grow there.You MUST TASTE IT IS NOT BAD
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blueeye18 (f)
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The bible says sex made for husband and wife not boyfriend and girlfriend
If u can wait till your wedding day is thing for joy before GOD and u ,because devil have rule this generation with sex
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Lexyl (m)
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Premarital sex, Is it good or not? try it once.
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ufobabe (f)
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THIS guestion is personal.
2 two persons who cannot cope without it knows better 4 theirsevles.
sex outside marriage is not LOVE, it is infatuation, which breeds SIN,
sex before marriage is not a one night stand, the regrets live with u 4ever.
think about it, if u can cope fine and if u can't go 4 it but be very careful
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Elgaxton (m)
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Hmmmm Omoge what do you think? should we test before marriage   |
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omoge (f)
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NO NO NO, don't! I'm on the side of those who wait till after wedding. El, u land for here? |
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Saipro (m)
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What are we resorting to on these pages? Someone tell me how to earn a million bucks in a month without shedding every drop of blood, sweat in my body nor losing the last ounce in my reserves. Anyone?
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dremoney (m)
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I love Nairaland.,ha!( laughs) people n blieves, abeg,i no fit shout. i do watever pleases me wit my body n gt myself responsible 4 whatever afterwards, i dnt need no stupid ass negro to tell me if sex is right before wedding or not  |
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Mosetra (f)
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Trust in marriage? And who says that trust in marriage is the only thing that sustains it? I did it with my husband before he even gave me an engagement ring (four months after). he married me because he saw in me his soulmate not because i have had or not had sex before. and it gets even better each time we make love. Decency is not in whether or not we make love before marriage. it is in so many other ways. is it only your sexual status that makes a woman a good wife? what about character? what about culinary skills? what about knowing what it takes to be a good wife and homemaker? The Bible is against it. I am a Christian, i know that. But i won't be hypocritical. By the way, why do Nigerians make it sound like sex is the only sin that can get one into hell? We commit a million and one sins everyday: slander, lies, stealing, etc, etc. There are people who married as virgins but are now worse than street whores.
Please guys: u don't have to resort to calling women derogatory names. If you have ever visited a public toilet before or poured some of your treasures in a basket, then i think you are more irresponsible than the 1 u call public toilet or basket. if you didn't desecrate the toilet, it'd still be good for someone else to visit and have relief
My verdict:
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Beverly (f)
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You guys are not cultured.
If a girl sells her body for sex, is it not because she has buyers like worldman and Co? and in the real sence of it, the one patronising is the highest offender because without a buyer, there won't be sellers, hence, a stop to that repulsive act.
watch what you say . its either you have a sister out there, but compulsorily "Mother" at least who deserve a respect.
be cultured ok.
Beverely
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olawale03 (m)
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i think sex before marriage should be optional because every marriage has its own foundation so it depends on the people involve
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bennymore (m)
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I believe God made all things honourably and purposefully. The basic purpose of sex goes beyond enjoyment alone, it has a destiny attachment on it, so when you know you are not ready to be attached to a lady till death do us part, why engage her in sex. it is costly to have sex before marriage.
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flowerrose (f)
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is not adviceable please.
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Bigjay (m)
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Enough of all these sex before marriage palava. Men are naturally polygamous, so whether we are waiting for our wedding with our fiancee or not, it doesn't stop us from doing it else where while we wait. The show even continues after marriage sef so what's the problem?
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nossycheek (f)
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hmmmm. Men men men. boys boys boys. They will never grow up. Some of their sisters are worst than whores and yet they desire virgins after several bouts of sex. Well go to the maternity ward and get them or at best, marry your mother!
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kemd
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you have to taste what you wants buy. tasting is good sometime and also very bad. taste HIV
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crazykid (m)
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Considering the high rate of immorality on earth today sex before marriage has become very legal everyone does it; if you begin to ask girls when and how they lost their virginity you would end up flogging most of them with canes.
I personally won’t support anyone discussion that encourages sex before marriage. I strongly believe that if you really love someone, you should wait until you’re married before having sex; believe me it’s much better that way.
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lucida_ng (m)
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Interesting topic!!!
Well as for me, i don't believe it is a bad idea for couples to make love before marriage,
It helps both of you better understand your sexual compatibility, or whether you have to call it off before you both make the greatest mistakes of your life.
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