Nigerian Girls In The U.S. Are Lonely

I am not a supporter of wild generalizations, so I will add to the "Girls in Yankee are not lonely" chorus.

I remember when my sisters and I were younger and my father told us that he only wanted us to date (and eventually marry) Naija  men.
We looked at him, looked at each other and started laughing. Partly cause we lived in an area that had about .0001% Naija males. (Not to mention that we were already dating non-naijas, although he didn't know it).  He said "I am serious o. And if I have to, I will go to Naija myself and bring men for you to marry." LOL
Although my father doesn't take it as seriously as some, I think this might be the case for some Naija females (and their parents). I think there's stronger pressure on the females to keep within their culture and race than for males.

Personally speaking, the only problem I've come across with the very few Naija males I've interacted with is those that think they can get away with mistreating a fellow naija or african babe because it is the "African thing" to allow your man to mistreat you. (Gawd forbid bad thing!). Of course, they will not try the same nonsense with other Chicas/women from other races or cultures.
Naturally, no one wants to be forced to accept mistreatment, especially if you grow up in Yankee where you don't have to keep quiet or accept it when your guy's mistreating you.  So these guys will scream that "you're doing shakara" or "letting being in Yankee go to your head". This happened to a friend of mine and I'll say it's the closest I've come to any bad behavior from a Naija guy. Besides this, though, I've never had any bad experiences with Naija males in the past. But again, there's no reason to be lonely in the U.S. (unless you choose to be). I mean even if you're an ugly duckling, you will still find someone   (na joke I dey joke o).

its ok. will u be my friend now

lol. your a joker. unknown thats my id. i give you two mins before i remove it.

@omogenaija

you're using my own rule against me huh. u gurlz pay attention when i don't want u to. 

which name?

lol. na wa for una. I can see a beautiful friendship here already

thanks diddy. hope your on later. i'm bout to watch a yoruba movie so i cant chat.

omogen u like yoruba movies anyhow have fun

 Ask them to come naija and choose correct guy.

i'm a nigerian girl in US and i'm not lonely. yall need to get your facts right and not make assumptions based on 2/3 lonely girlz you've seen and how do you even know they r lonely?
We don't have to date nigerian guys or even marry them. We got options. lots of options!!!

im nigerian nd i live in tha US nd i aint lonely. so wutchu talkin bout

well sah nigerian guys over here in the u.s , at least the ones i knw, are such big heads!!! for real they really suck, so maybe thats the problem. and another thing, not all nigerian girls are lonely , ushould have said, some, not "nigerian girls".

in what way,explain

must man always be a lady's source of joy? me i don't have a man here and i thank God coz even if i do , i won't have anytime for him as at now.  and am not lonely. it is when you don't have God, a job, school assignment, projects, exams or better things to do that you get lonely.

can someone help me tell mubowa that isaac is online please? wud love to talk to her. dammy are u there?

girlllllllllllllllls come on this is not oprah we have to be truthful the guys hereb suck big time and they are all broke lookin for who to suck the shit out of and they all think they re all that they brag about what they have and not have oh poor desperate women i live in the us but my bf is in nigeria and i dont have a problem with that nigerian guys all have baggage