Nigerian Girls In The US. Are Lonely

@ Vronnie


African American girls cannot cook.  Cooking is second nature and they aren't groomed for that.



 I don't like the way nigerian girls compse themselves and I believe the same is true for other boys too.  Carribeans are alternatives as well.  Most nigerians girls are sarcastic and that devalues them.  I am not surprised that they are lonely.

I'm going to have to agree.
I'v witnessed 1st-hand how bloated in the head some naija girls get here
all in the name of being a "Diva" a.k.a Queen B!tch.

Now there's nothing wrong with a little yanga, but these girls clearly cannot understand that there is a limit.
They try to transcend themselves to a whole 'nother level and then end up
coming across as crass, draining, judgemental and completely unapproachable.

Oyinbo at least dey listen to reason, but una?
that's exactly why I like my white/hispanic/asian girls.

If there are dificulty for the sex in US i think they have alternative, can't they try guys in there country or must it be from US?

in my opinion i think naija girls over there still carry this i 2 big 4 their head, funny enough naija guys 2 no ever they slak, dey wan get green card and d rest. wetin u think? as for me am willing and wanting to date one, especially those in TEXAS

My sister don't mind them.
They run along chasing white girls and would do things for them that they'll never do for black girls.
These Naija men would scrub floor,cook,buy flowers,clean,even walk dogs and bathe them.
But when they're with nigerian girls,they would demand heaven and earth.

Some even go ahead and marry some and by the time they are hit with divorce papers,alimony and child support and end up living in a studio apartment,they'll remember that a Naija woman is a good woman.
I've seen many of them that I've described above.
And our women are left picking up their sorry backsides.

@nwando
So for your mind now, you've earned browny points.

@jezzy
Sad to say, but most of you have a very superficial view of "true game". The problem most of you have is you expect everyman to be a "Will Smith" or a "Denzel Washington".
And because of that, anyone that hasn't been on television that approaches you automatically gets given crappy attitude, even when they're just been naturally nice.

And we DO know what we're talking about. We are speaking from experience.
This one day when leaving a store, I held the door open (after I passed) for two naija girls that were walking behind me (I know they were naija) and they just walked through
without even a single acknowledgement or "thank you", like they were entitled to it. Well forgive my parents for teaching me good manners but some of you need to get your
heads out of your "you know where".

PS: Now you're probably a nice person, so you don't have to take this personal. We were simply summarizing what we've seen with the more b!tchy naija girls here; which is sadly a majority because I DO love my girls from home.

Don't mind some of these efulefu men that'll go home and dangle a few dollars in front of some village girl and she'll melt not knowing he's a pizza delivery man by day and grave digger by night.

You can run out now and marry any oyibo that suits you.
who are you threatening?
You can even go marry a Jamaican single mother of 7,no be your choice ?

Well, I was in Houston Early this year and my cousin introduced me to one Naija girl in UH. She invited me to their house, she stays with her twin sis Ada and Ngozi. Man! the apartment was a pig sty, they don't cook-they order their food or eat out, they don't do any cleaning. It was disgusting in there. All they do is socialize and party. To rub salt on injury the saw me as one JJC, you know what I mean. They are full of themselves so tell me why a man like me should date someone like that?

Hope no decent Naija girl ends up with a man with low self esteem.

Like I said,we can keep running circles around one another or we can stop,pay attention and see the best in one another.

Chidnosky,You met a couple of dirty chicks and u are already thinking that most are like that?


2Buff,just settle for Oyibo since you are yet to meet a Naija woman that isn't a bitch.I doubt u'll see one anytime soon.


As for the guy that thinks Naija girls are cheaper than the girls on Flavor of love show,I have nothing to say to you.It takes a cheap person to know a cheap person.

No dey act like frog dey jump from place to place. You just dey avoid answer the thing when I ask you.
I asked you a simple question and you dey bring self esteem enter.
Who talk anything about self esteem?
I said what do you have against a man who works 2 jobs to make a living?

I am a guy and sometimes all you Niger boys think you can approach a Niger babe with a very cocky attitude, so when they diss you, your next move will be running to a fat white girl with skinny white friends that will tell her to keep you cause you are the only one available for her. Then she ends up getting pregnant and the child support starts. I know some Nigerian girls are very silly and at the same time very caring when you get to know them. I know most of you get excited when you see a Nigerian girl who you think is beautiful and because you are Nigerian too, then u think u can get her to be yours. Advice, all you have to do is to shut up about Nigeria, treat her like you would treat a black American or any body else with respect… don’t speak broken English to her just because you know she is Nigerian, don’t ask her about queens college or is she ibo or Yoruba. Keep it simple and talk to her about things you know is relevant to getting her in bed.
I have three girlfriends, sincerely speaking… 2 is Nigerian, and one is Black American. I like the American because we have role-playing in the relationship. But she is a bitch like always. The other 2 Nigerians are very caring, they support me as always, they give me love on everything I do, but the only thing is that they hardly come out to play…  because they are always grounded by their good parents, which brings me back to the “Nigerian girls in the US are lonely”. No they are not, they just really can’t mess with you because of their parents. So they stay home, watch tv, go to school until a man is being arranged as their husband… just kidding, lol.

I'm not lonely,  . my parents trust me to do well where i am. I didn't come here to be another guy's playmate   . Most of us just don't have the time to play around. You play around and your GPA suffer, then you are off from scholarship. the man go vamoose 

Yes, we shine our eyes well well. after class am in my apt. I don't go anywhere unless to go shop, or just drive around sight seeing. say it again that that's lonesome  I don't care. I just shine my eyes 

About Nigerian Girls being lonely in the US, is really bad for us to go accross this shore and start forming civilisation on ourselves, that,s very poor of our mentality, we have to remember that we will come back home some day, that the so called foreign taste of varieties ends there in the US. We must be wise to appreciate our
selves anywhere, everywhere, anytime and all the time.

the major problem with naija guys and ladies out there is that they get too artificial thus they can not relate. Since everyone knows where they are coming from they would rather hang out with peeps who don't know the real naija levels, the chicks are especially guilty of this.  you need to go to Unilag and hear the chicks speak (most have not even been to the airports and such chicks stay in mushin environs), also check corporate naija the chicks speaks grammar pass whites, so what do u expect when dey go out there, some guys are also guilty (fake guys please), so when the fake naija boy meets a forming naija naija babe how do u expect them to work out,