Nigerian Girls In The US. Are Lonely

You don't know what u talking about, so 

what do you want from me was the question one asked me (second day after I met her)! that question took me way back to naija cux that's where I heard it last! I think any lady that meets a guy from the same country and instantly start thinking if it will lead to "I DO" instead of trying or getting to really know the guy is wearing a lonely mask already! personally, I'll love to be with a Nigerian girl both as girlfriend and wife but the problem I have with them (those that I've come in contact with) is they always want to know what they'll gain from the relationship regardless the fact that you two just met! maybe the once I've met are just too anxious to settle down so instead of being with an unserious guy (so they say) they'll preffer to be alone and lonely!

This is such fun!

Well yeah i know a couple of single nigerian mums but thats only because they made the choice. Alot of my girlfriends are going steady with their guys yeah and a couple are already married. Am going steady too and he's nigerian. So whats the whole lonliness thingy about.

Truth be told, my neigbour once said she was so lonely, she'd do anything for a man.................. but she's jamecian

awwhh! donlova ...............  wish i was in the US.

lmao

@Kokscity You mouth sweet. May be one of these days when i pass through NA, I will arrange for u and see how u really perform but i have got sisters here on Nairaland that can match u thrust for thrust and toy for toy.

Women in UK are generally lonely folks because their tradition doesnt allow them to blend and gist and gossip like we do. When last did the babe next door come for something (you have iru or iyo?) or give u the latest gist on who the the dude opposite u is poking?

No cousin to crash with them, no aunty to call. Man, I love my relatives and 1001 cousins in naija.

@Deji

North America is the $hit. Filled with Freaks from all over the olube. Plus there is something sexy about having another accent scream your name while in motion. I am an Equal Oppurtunity Giver......I do not discriminate. A Coochie, Is a Coochie Is a Coochie. Same $Hit different Toilet!

Ratio of females where i live is 1 Black Man to atleast 4 multi-national woman. And i should choose Naija for sentimental reasons? Na bro!

I typically date only french speaking African men from other West-African countries.  I love Nigerian men, but from my experience, they have often been too pushy, too demanding, and wanting me to be more domestic than I am.  Also, i think many of them have convinced themselves that we Naija girls are truly lonely, hence we will settle for any useless behavior they potray.  Not so - there is lots for everyone to chose from in the United States.  No need to settle. 

Can you believe, I was introduced to this Delta guy three weeks ago through a colleague.  The guy and i spoke over the phone.  For the entire coversation he bragged about himself and about being a nurse (); and about his supposedly famous brother somewhere in Nigeria and his family name.  He did not ask me one question about myself.  Then at the end of the convo, he said,  "get a pen let me give you my number."  I kindly told him not to be so presumptuos and reminded him that before he gave me his number he should ask me if I wanted it.   The only explanation I have for his behavior is that he must have thought i was desperate to find a Nigerian guy, hence to him, it was more important that i learn about him.

There are, however, great, well educated, and proper Nigerian guys out here. Many, not all, of such guys opt for white women or African American girls.    Which is fine, you can't fault a person for liking what he likes.  many others are simply arrogant.  My experience, has been, however, that the educated and proper African men from other french speaking African countries have appreciated me for who I am and I have generally just found it easier to get along with them.

By the way, I have a lot of Nigerian girlfriends who are not lonely at all.  They appear to be even busier than I am with men - and I think I have my hands full.

I think a lot of us naija girls limit ourselves and beleive we must date/marry Nigerian guy.  I don't think so at all ( i think it would be nice to marry one if i find one that i am compatible with, but it is not necessary).  A girl's prince charming can come in any color and be from any background!

Vostel n' Disney well said gurlz! theze guys ain't worth us talkin about! just for the records *we are not fuggin lonely*

Nigeria guys and girls abroad should behave like brothers and sisters but girls normally shy or should i say do Big girls that they can merge with the fellow countrymen,so tha's the because why their are always lonely

  actually thinkin about coming over for summer 

that's funny DIZ

i know i'm not in the states,but whatever gave guys the impression that Nigerian grls in the US are lonley   na wa o

Don't know what you mean by being lonely because I'm far from being lonely I have all you people on nairaland to keep me entertained.

BTW, I don't have a lot of Nigerian friends not because I feel I'm better off,  just majority of Nigerians I know are so controlling and know it all.

This forum is much too general. The loneliness factor depends solely on the personality of the girl you're referring to.

@nuru

Dawg homies du what they do , You gat a Nigerian Woman as a Wife .  but as a Homeboi , dawg You can't help playin around with those J.lo like Latinos because they're really SEXXXYY

      Example : Invite a Pueto Rican 2 your Crib and you'll feel tha diffrences

 @ Freewilly :

 I can't believe You still assume you 're chick , Dude visit Nigeria and spend 5yrs in Jail     

 Lonely Bastard

this is what i have to say: Naija girls are really lonely I agree to that and, i will speak with the people I see around me in Yankee. Many naija girls tell me that they are looking for naija boys to date, I should find them a good one and they truly tell me that they are pissed off because naija boys are going for other girls. This is what I have noticed and I am not on anybody's side, Naija boys are not ready for drama and not really ready to stick to one woman for now because they are somany girls who wants and appreciate them and they still want to sample, on the other hand naija girls want that guy to themselve which is normal however drama and pressure follows. All the I have ever dated they are mostly naija, and I have been with one for a almost two years now. Trust me there has been pressure, but it is not that bad staying with her at all. I guess naija boys should learn how to handle our women and naija girls should lower their pride, stop bitching and stop putting pressure on our guys because mama for house don dey bother una say wey una man.