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pati (f)
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its not be big deal, sometimes you just don't feel like it .
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floodlight (m)
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hey girl with this attitude of urs u have shown desperatin and thats the down fall of many relationship, u shuldnt go gaga because of your yankee boyfriend , take your ming off sex and fear God its the hard and best option for you
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tipsy289 (m)
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Hmnnn not every business trip is business, well i cnt say.Just talk to him explictly on it, u know he has to know your situation.
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Zahymaka (m)
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I don't know why I'm alarmed by a lot of the responses here. Men are not all about sex, and your man may simply not be in the mood. When a guy complains his girlfriend isn't ready for a jig, it's normal. When it's a guy it isn't -- sex is supposed to be on his mind 24/7.  |
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sisimose (f)
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I don't know why I'm alarmed by a lot of the responses here. Men are not all about sex, and your man may simply not be in the mood. When a guy complains his girlfriend isn't ready for a jig, it's normal. When it's a guy it isn't -- sex is supposed to be on his mind 24/7. you are on point there  |
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davidylan (m)
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welcome back Zahy! Good to see another decent guy back!  |
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naijaking1
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another point not to forget: smell. Olfactory sense is big sexuality factor. If any part of your body smells too bad, it might turn him off, and he'll be shy to say why. On the contrary, and sometimes good body odor might be aphrodisiac for him and her.
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Boston (f)
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naijaking1
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Re: If Your Boyfriend Refuses To Make Love To You
« #38 on: Today at 02:54:43 AM »
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another point not to forget: smell. Olfactory sense is big sexuality factor. If any part of your body smells too bad, it might turn him off, and he'll be shy to say why. On the contrary, and sometimes good body odor might be aphrodisiac for him and her.
i think u made a really good point because i be seeing boys who come up to me smelling like crap. that shit is nasty. like, take a bath.
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megapro (m)
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1. maybe there is a potential bill from you he is avoiding.
2. maybe you turned him down previously.
3. maybe he heared you strayed.
4. maybe he is curing himself from an std.
5. maybe a pastor asked him to avoid sex for a while.
6. maybe he is suddenly experiencing erectile disfunction.
tip. introduce extended foreplay and some bj.
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kubiboy
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girl sorry 4 telling u the truth because the fruth is bitter, it's like u infected him with gonorea or siphilis that is why he is running from your pussy |
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papabaks (m)
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Tell me are you a sex machine or what, please make u give the hardworking guy a break ok! and fine some toys to play with in his absence.  ok whareas if you need one you can go to Ile ise in Ilupeju to get yourself satisfy. ok!!! |
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swiftycool (m)
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May be you grew fatter while he was away, or uglier, or not just as sexxy as u were before Check yourself out Most Naija chicks leave themselves to grow fallow if the're sure they got a guy who really luvs them most of em run out of creative ideas which makes kind of unattractive 2 take 2 bed i mean they just lie there on their backs like logs while the guy does all d work Keep up to d game because he deffinately gets a hooting from about a thousand chicks daily And who knows maybe , i said maybe has tried some other and u just don't mach up NE more Baby girl keep fit, sexxy, and make him want u always  Rememba what 1 girl won't want to do , u got a hundred others more than willing |
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Elgaxton (m)
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which kind 0ne week tiredness be that, He's simply tired of your sex, who knows maybe he's been travelling for sexual
business, if both of u were sincere, u would 've asked him y he refused u sex and he would 've told, not nairaland
telling u what they don't know!
dooo sha! sex starvation can be baaaad!
I fit bet sey d guy no carry full tank travel
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1one (m)
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first and foremost, i would say a very very Big Good for you!, whatever happened to the moral etiquette of Dont get laid before the ring gets into that finger, perharps you have obviously thrown that away, my sincere advice to you is this: whether or not he has sex with you 10 times a minute it doesnt and it should'nt diminish your self worth, there are other more important things in your life to be worried about,  , abeg, get yourself something better to do, i'm so sorry for this reply IF AND ONLY IF, YOU ARE MARRIED. IF NOT, IN YOUR FACE. |
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Rhea (m)
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I think you should give your boyfriend some time to settle down. He maybe gong through some difficult times in his workplace. He may/may not be willing to share this with you. Whatever, try to be patient with him. I think it is actually normal for a girl to yearn for sexual attention from the boyfriend. That for all I care is normal. Honestly, I ain't no saint. Hence I wouldn't preach absinence or no-sex-before-marriage stuff. Doesn't work for me, doesn't. I think another month is more like it. After that, you can seek advice again on what next to do, or better still, follow your hear and use your head at the same time. Related to this topic, I recall one of my childhood classmates whose folks were extremely strict with, as regards girls and girlfriends. They succeeded in keeping him chaste and clear off the ladies throughout his teenage years, so much so that today, he is one of the most potent homosexuals prowling his neighbourhood. Life's becoming like that you know, |
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nnenneigbo (f)
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your friend was a homo from day i my friend, thats why he kept away from the ladies.
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fadal (m)
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if he refused to make love to you then i will make love to you,u don't want it someone else want it.
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bjcisse
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I guess u need to give him some time, i guess he is tired stuff, some of us guys that are very busy like that doing one or two things to make more money making u girls happy, sometimes we are even tired for sex,
My own woman (girlfriend) visit weekends and wants me to make love to her each time she comes, and its those time i use to rest @ home, so some i refuse because am tired and need to hav a deep sleep, not withstanding girls hav their ways in turning guys on wheather he wants it or not. "just like the way my girlfriend does each time i said to her am tired, she started by saying she want to show me de color of her pant and the design she is putting on that day, that i will like it, as a guy, i will like to see wht she is talking about and other stuff, just seek advice from your friends the way u need play your game, some other posted above is also considerable.
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zains
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@ topic Please know that a sound relationship thrives on the security of both parties involved. Your guy shouldn't be harried into having sex by all means- it could put him off  Rather, let him be comfortable and secure in your company without feeling obligated to have sex. Also devise other means of dealing with sexual tension- I mean other ways to get intimate without the use of your genitals. Find a way to warm his soul always, not his bed.  |
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anabell (f)
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maybe he has alot of things on his mind.my candid advice to u is to buy more really sexy night dresses and lovely soft body fragance put them on when he is home,i bet u wont be doing d asking anymore.
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anabell (f)
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try and look good all d time {that is my logo}it help alot
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fadal (m)
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if he refused to fuk with you then come to me i burn the fucked out of that azzzzzzzzz.
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IBDat (m)
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Man turns down sex? Well to each their own. Answers could be numerous in speculation that could comprise of the following: - Probably because he doesn't find you attractive anymore  - could be resolved (how much resolving required is another question ). - Could be that he is just seriously warn out from a prior marathon session and his liltle worker had gone on strike for the rest of the night. - He's having a guilty coinscience as he has another girl back in London - he likes her more. - Sexual preferences/orientation  - He's sex shy - Has the WORLD on his mind I could go on but like someone previously stated let us know the reasons he gave and we can help u deduce if it's true, could be or bare face lie. |
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joobreel (m)
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my very sincere response. sex was not his priority at that moment. maybe his trip's deal was a bad one. maybe you didint ask him about the trip. and you know, money and sex are two different things. bad deals are stuffs myt not want a normal thinking human being to want sex.
or just maybe you didnt put it to him rightly because despite bad business deal, he might want to relax but your act was pissing
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strategy
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baby! food wey u chop 4 life , u no need to come dey steal am chop.
sex outside marriage fades off easily expecially on the side of the guy, even though the lady tends to like him more.
your guy's behaviour is a man thing. you can communicate with him and make him realize how both of you should keep yourself till you get married legally. world cup advice,
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Jackelony (m)
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@Soundmind
Tufiakwa! That was too graphic. You just fell short of telling us how you eventually got to lay her on the bed and slide you privates into her vagina and thrust away lustfully with your scrotum making contact with her kiniko.
Couldn’t you have simply said she seduced you? But since you chose to expatiate, I think you should have gone the whole hug. Bull Shit!
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westsidema (f)
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uhmm i know guys, they would always want to try to have sex. is the girls that mostly refuses.
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edatika (m)
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i believe its worth talking about
at least he didnt refuse u outrightly,
he did when he came in
it would have been a different ball game if
he refused you right from his arrival,
don't worry ,
you guys should have had issues which u resolved
funny enough d guy might not even know
that are still disturbed about it
talk 2 him but be mindful the way u put it
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babadee (m)
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uhmm i know guys, they would always want to try to have sex. is the girls that mostly refuses.
true word!!! but there is always the exception! |
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