I Love My Boyfriend But I Fancy Another!

Am in love with my boyfriend but am attracted to this other guy. I can't seem to stop thinking about him. He is so good looking and my Boyfriend is not that good looking but i love his personalty which i know matters most.  My boyfriend is twice the man Mr. Gorgeous can ever be. He is very proud and a chauvnistic pig at that. He is a big flirt too. The kind of guy you know you can never have solely to yourself. My boyfriend on the other hand is a loyal friend you can trust him with your life. I know am crazy but the package is all so attractive. He is well groomed which is a big turn on for me. I have tried one million times to get my boyfriend that way but he is such an "african man" if you know what i mean. He says"why waste time brushing your hair to be smoothe when you can just comb and run along,  there are millions of naira to be made out there it wouldnt wait for Mr. Sleek Hair you know" i know he is right but i can't help but,

Talk sense to me people!!!

hahahahah your problem be say u like 'bad boys' u like danger too much. You have matured enough to know that bad boys are not good for you, unless they are willing to change for u, but u still like them, when u see one like this, e go still dey chak u for body!!!

Ol' gel u need to calm down for Jesus!, stay away from this guy. It seems like he and your boyfriend are completely different people, but look, if u love your boyfriend, no break d guy heart because of one useless fling, if u never ready for d kind of serious relationship your in right now, call it off with your boyfriend right now, and go and pursue your physical needs, when u have come to your senses to realise that your boyfriend is a gem, then u come back to him - hopefully he'll still be there 4u.

you know the danger of what u want to step into and know how to prevent it but you don't want that, PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE, when u enter and u hear get broken, u go blame guys and say this and that

You would alway and always c other guys who would attract even more than this one u are talking about. The truth is that uneed to prioritise what yu want in a guy . Love or attraction then go for it. Remember love has nothing to do with looks. Do to others what ull want them do to u.

Girl, just like manulove has said, and if am mistaking about what love is, then correct me please.

I think all you are crazy about in the other guy is his physical being or something else but not love, you need to look down on yourself and know what you really want i a guy, because if physicall attraction is what you want, am sorry but you might end up jumping from one man to another and that is not cool for a lady, a guy can do such and get away with it, but not a lady.

Have a re-think on what is occupying your mind, and be careful not to make it obvious to your boyfriend that  you have someone else you "fancy".

Wish u well.

Bebe2000 I tell you u don't know what u got till is gone. that is just it bebe

I think i need to be your next target of boyfriend, please am very much vacant you can apply, i don't have choice i willl accept you any how you are or look like even if u wowo i don't mind.am a simple guy.

all that glitter is not Gold they say.

dnt loose a good man because a an animalistic urge to date a no good fyne face.

u re only exposing yourself to unneccesary heartbreak,

if a man's only fault  is that he is not very handsome, then  i dnt need no handsome face, (after all HEIDI kLUM IS VERY HAPPY WITH SEAL)

if i were u i'D focus on kissing that my toad (4give that term)into  a prince charming.

@ poster,
please face reality (your boyfriend) and leave fantasy (Mr Universe) alone. A word is enough because I know you are wise.

@Bebe2007, for a sec there  i thut, you are the lady am dilly dallying with at the moment, until You started talking about the guy being all Cute  n nasty, cute yeah but me am not nasty at all.

Rite now am in a situation myself, I have a girl n we got this little thing going,  and lately is sort of getting deeper than we thut, or wanted it to go, she has a guy and her man is as she says faithful and nice to her, but the guy sometimes beats her when ever they have issues but he always comes back begging when she calls it off, i guess that’s why  she fell so easly for me when I ran into her, because i showed a lot of care and am far way too matured compared to her man.

I have helped her build her confidence as a young lady and have also tutored her on career development also help her in her job hunt,now she is on the verge of working with a very good oil and gas company
She love her man dearly , but now tells me that am making her have a rethink especially now that she and her guy have some issues again.

I can't lie, am getting attracted to this girl too, something I told myself I wont do since I know she has a guy already, she young, a cuty and smart too, but I feel i just can't have her,  so I had to tell her to work things out with her man  because like i told her,  you jus don’t give up on 4 years of relationship .
Wel the problem is that i like her, but i know she not mine , its not that i can't have her,   i find it hard to jus do that .  and I don’t want to use her mans weakness as an excuse because I have mine too


So just like u, am in this fix, do i take this girl from her guy? because i know all i have to do to make that happen and happen fast, or should i just be a righteous dude and settle for a friendship with this girl, she really likes me too and i can see that its killing her being cut b/w too guys.

So fellow and ladies,  While u dealing with @bebe questions, throw in a little word on mine……will love to here what u have to say.

i guess thats how it is wit most gals, the whole Nairaland don warn u and i believe a word is enough for the wise

@topic
you must not have played with matchsticks as a kid because if you have, you'll know that it burns bad.
wake up from your stupidity

F*ck love and commitment. Let your loose ass explore and have fun. Be you. If you don't cheat on your boyfriend now you'll surely cheat on your husband if you end up getting married.  Who cares anyway.

@ Black Mamba

your advice sucks.Be constructive man!! We're in da real world and not d m*thaf*ckin projects!!.Dannng!

Real world? Come to think of real world. Isn't her dilemma exactly the real world of an average man. Most men love and care for their wife or girlfriend but will f*ck another woman on the side if the opportunity presents itself. Especially if she is pretty and sexy. I guess it's OK for men but not women in the real world.