Date A Guy For 2 Years And Not A Single Gift

  na wah oh, true talk  sha 2 years no nothing  , no even on Vals day? ummh interesting

@ B-Boy, Nah by force, i could take her out, on trips and travels do i have to present her with physical n material gifts as well? 
 
yer Wateva!

That is pure and simply materialism!!!
Bout whatever - does it have to be a material/physical gift.
Can't i take her on a cruise, Paris even bloody Skeg-ness if that's as far as my pocket can reach!! Puurrrlease

 Does he put a smile on your face and make you feel like a woman when you hang out with him?Is he a faithful dude? If so, don´t be in a rush to dump him.Talk to him first ok? maybe he is not used to exchanging gifts .I have a friend like him but when i talked to him he changed so talk to your man.

girlz, i just realised that i've not recieved any gift from my boyfriend too and we've been dating for like a year plus now.      

How??

impossible, it can't even reach 2yrs!!!!

what kind of guy would this be, hes not evn serious ohh

Chei ! Neva!

Babe this is very compulsory 4 a guy 2 do 4 his girlfriend or a wife 2 show love,care and appreciation

HHHmmmmmmm, a mind-boggling mystery --- hard 2 envision such a scenario.

@ Alert
Could it be that he has given u gifts but those gifts ain't particularly what you fancied so you see 'em as nada?

please ladies when was it in yhe constitustion of dating that gifts must be used to share affection.why don't you all ask her why she has stayed with him for the past 2years.some of you just ask of attention,love,care and when all that is given you still look for an excuse to make it all look bad.
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GOD HELP US ALL COS THE WAY THISLADIES ARE GOING YOU WILL NOT HAVE A KOBO IN YOUR ACCOUNT .

Seems the original poster is complaining of something much deeper than the lack of a gift.

Giving a gift usually signifies something. It could mean the guy is thinking of the babe & wants to make her happy, by getting her an item that would bring a smile to her face. Or it could mean he is feeling guilty & wants to pacify her with a gift.

A gift doesn't necessarily have to be expensive. It could be as little as a 400 naira recharge card, or even a small piece of chocolate. Boli & guguru can also be gifts!

Anyone who is truly in love with another person, will always look after that person's interests & possibly, needs. To ignore the feelings of a person you claim to love, or not to even do little things to make them happy, will cast doubts in their minds, about the intensity of the affection you claim to feel for them.

Try & understand. Am not saying that relationships should be based on gifts. But an ability to bring a smile to the face of your loved ones, either with a card, a small token or a momento, goes a long way in spicing up the relationship. It doesn't have to be a regular occurence. If a man or woman lacks the resources to give a gift, it can be excused, but not when such a person has the means or ability to do so, but just doesn't give a damn. A lack of such initimate caring or giving gestures, implies that the guy or girl is self-centred, stingy & selfish.

Such attitudes tend to cripple a relationship, in the long run, instead of enhancing it.

something many of you do not seem to realize is that in a relationship you have to take the feelings and wishes of your partner to consideration to a degree. No1 is saying you should break your neck for your partner but if my girlfriend does not like the fact that I haven't given her a gift for two years then why should I act like it doesn't matter? for two years? haba! abeg free that he's not a gift person jo. the dude needs orientation. And you, I advise you to jaa before its too late if he refuses to be reorientated because if now that y'all are not married he refuses to be generous, forget any sort of generosity in marriage where he'll see your face everyday for the rest of his life. Two years? Asking for a simple gift after two years is not unrealistic now! Infact I can't imagine a relationship without gifts even if its once in a wyl. Who doesn't want to be given gifts once in a wyl?

Did u say two YEARS?!!! Run from that relationship like the devil's at your back. 

Hey girl,
gift isn't everything unless u are in there 4 material gains. if u hope to take that relatshp to marriage, gift isnt what u look out 4. If your guy gives u good attention, walks u home, spends weekends wit u, goes to parties & friends houses with u, calls u frequently when u are not around, respects your feelings and kisses u most of the time even in d presence of people, he loves you! Maybe he cannot afford to give u the kind of gifts he may wish to give you. Dont stress his pockets. be careful. goodluck.

Place yourself in the girl's shoes and think again. Then come back & share your thoughts with us.

Gifts does not matter in relationship because gifts does not mean maybe he loves you or not.

there are certain things which you should natrally do
It is like saying u live with your sister in the same town and you never even think of visiting her with mangoes
just to say hello
It is not that that is the basis of the relationship, it is simply that these things fuel the relationship
Sharing food, sharing a drink , and it warms your heart when your partner likes your gift
so if he has never thought of giving you a gift ,
then my dear he really does not like u. It is not that u want him to give you a Dimond chain, but what matters is the thought behind a little gift, even if it is just
a watch.
if he does not have these natural instincts then he is a MONKEY send him to where he belongs, THE BUSH