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mgonzales (m)
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Quite an extensive discussion.
I must say I've learnt some stuff here.
I'll be having my 2nd anniv in a few months, and a cute 1yr old baby, and wife seems to display some of the features the first poster mentioned. Atimes I feel as if she doesnt love me anymore. It's quite distracting and confusing.
And NO, I don't intend to pick up a side-kick, it's not worth it.
I'll read through these posts again and maybe try out a few of them.
Take care all.
Cheers.
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LotsToLern
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Are you kidding
She probably is boring. Have fun. Move on. Life is too short. JMHO
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topup
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I am going to ask you this question. Are you comparing sex with your wife with sex you had with her before, sex you've had maybe with other women, or what you've heard sex should be like?
If your sex life was once interesting, what is it that has made you lose interest? Has she gained weight, have you gained weigh (excess weight, numbs the sensations), is her attitude to sex different, do you think she enjoys it? There are so many questions to ask, ask her, ask them and only until you've heard everything should you truly take any action.
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prisca 1 (f)
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am not trying to criticize you; but i think the answers lie in you .i think u don't turn her on any more.let her know she comes first then sex
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. Sex is an act between two people. Good sex does not just automatically occur. You must work towards it. Find out what it is you two used to do before you 'got bored'. And trust me, I can tell you as a woman that she has a worse story to tell. She had better not open her mouth to rate you in bed. From experience, it is the lousy lovers who complain that their partners are lousy. The real GOOD GOOD lovers spread their skills even to the ones that do not know. Sex is like tennis. You opponent determines how far you stretch. If your wife is boring you, it's probably because you are the lousy one. 
