Making Love To My Wife Is Boring

Wake up man,


your wife is playin away match, Shes feckin tired of your privates, n shes enjoyin another mans Pee,


You better wake up, Check wats wrong wit u, Those things u do to her before that u stop doing,

How long have u been married?  how many pounds have you gain over the course of the marriage?  are you doing anything to make yourself appealing to her?  Nice hair cut, cologne, and new outfit.  this are simple things that can invigorate a relationship.  you might have to treat her to a romantic date and dinner.  Who knows u might be rewardeds with a wild sex after the date, LOL

@ poster

Have you ever tried to figure out whether she enjoys as much as you while you make love to her? Some women don't speak out their likes and dislikes in bed for the fear of being suspected as a "loose character" and end up bottling the frustration leading to total loss of interest in sex.

You said she has never been a sex lover? That is normal with some few people. If it is so with her, den u have to do sumtin about developing her sex appeal.

Have you tried to help her with some works at home may be she is tired after taking care of those kids and cooking and cleaning. Try and help her, and let her relax in the house and see what happens.  I hope you are not lying now because your name here means a Chronic Liar.

Opuro,
Say the truth; simply tell us you found someone else and you want shoulders to cry on or a pity party as you send her off.

Great sex is a mutual thing; I'm sure you are responsible for what you feel about her. All the women that are taunting you out there do not have what you saw in her before you decided till grave do you part so,  If she has become flabby, pay for gym. If she isn't dressing well, buy her the kind of clothes you like. If she isnt taking a bath before coming into bed obviously because she's tired (well you didn't let us into her career) suggest a joint shower time. And what was lovemaking like with you guys? Is it just bang and stand or you actually take time with item 1 to 6 before you pounce on seven. Man mi, the least you can do is to enjoy your marriage if you can't you have failed and your invitation to pity party would have only you as guest; I wasn't there when you tied the knot; it's fool hardy to try and bring me into the break-up.

Your wife may actually be experiencing hormonal changes; some women reach menopause earlier than usual. She may be bugged down. You may have pushed her to discover a better sex life outside. You may be reeking of alcohol or whatever when you come into bed. Your approach may have become monotonous and boring. Do something different; have sex in the living room, kitchen, bathroom, go to bed in nice briefs (its not all the time that its the woman who has to buy nice night gown and look sexy) or without, wear nice deodorant, great music. What was it you used to say to her that made her melt? How does she like to be touched? Have you lost it along the line; you need it now; that's your million dollar lifeline. It's not always easy to eat the same food day in day out. Even if you can't change the recipe in this case you can ensure you garnish and prepare it differently so as to sustain your apetite.

You may have become baba apati; making no intelligent contribution to her life. Without the meeting of minds; sex is simply an endurance and at best a huge bore which you need not add to the crazy agenda we have to run as parent. The ball is in your court; your options are numerous - goaless draw, one-one, away match, over the bar, ,  Play it the way that makes you a hero.

Have u ever asked your wife how she want you to make love with her? Have ever asked your wife whether she is enjoying the game while it is on? Do you 1st start the game with interesting play.Did your body organ ready for the game before you both go into it?

Men you need to sit down and asked yourself many questions then later asked you wife.

Likewise try to buy lovely things for her cloths etc and fast food which both of you will eat together.Look wake up try to eat, sleep, bath together.

I hope you soon be out of these problem stay cool my dear don't worry life is all about experience.

As a married man i know that sex is important but it is not everything. Any relationship based on lust cannot last. Thank God u have lovely kids. Devote your love on the kids and also the daily challenges of struggle to give the family the necessary comforts should slow u down a lot even though u sound like you love sex too much. Please discuss it with her she may be feeling the same way and this is dangerous b/c it can lead to a broken home!

Do you have a househelp? Is she a working mom? The answer to the these questions may be the key!
Because taking care of 4 children is no joke at all. The stress of keeping the home together (which you didn't complain about) may be the reason. If she is dead-tired before you get home, she won't respond well- she's human too, you know. Are you a helpful and considerate husband? Do you call her during the day with sweet words to prepare her mind?

Remember, Love making starts in the mind and soul, not in the genitals. Goodluck.

opuro shut up and stop framing up stories as ya name implies(lier) that name really suits ya.you're such a funny guy keep doing ya thang alright. you're too cool and funny nuff love

@cashbaby
thanks dearie

Thank u all for the advise, one thing am very sure of is that divorce is out of the solution.I Love her more than any of u guys can imagine. I  now know what to do. can u guys believe that  she still look ok. I mean her shape, boob,  behind she look better than Iniedo somebody adviced me to fantacised about . thanks once agin

Get a girlfriend and a mistress. Let your wife raise the kids, let your girlfriend love you, and bang the hell out of your mistress voila problem solved!

Tasiana, Please,IM on davidatc@lycos.com. enjoy your weekend

i kn what u are facing is not easy, thank God u trust your wife more than your self, u can make her to like it by improving on your skill as most people said, make her to understand that u love and appreciate her, take her, out buy gift for her. Never u try getting the satifation outside your marriage. Beware of HIV, ino de show for face.

Start going to the gym loose some weight baby ibeji
start jogging around your area keep fit,revamp your wardrobe
When she sees you making effort she'll fix up and if she doesn't
there are many young gals outside that'll fix you up sharp sharp

Take her on Holiday baby ibeji after your honeymoon to Sagamu you have not been anywhere together
Take her to obudu cattle ranch and arrange for the room to be 'well prepared'
If she doesn't get it then, man mi just start whining