Making Love To My Wife Is Boring

@poster



get a life

how?

militia

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then i rollled and continued, hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehhehehehe

i agree we definately need to work out to keep in shape, my aunty is 45 a doctor and can compete with ladies in their late twenties.  she looks amazing and she works out regularly, has tasteful makeup, wears sunscreen adn sunshades to help prevent wrinkles around her eyes, adn eeats very very healthy, plus she has three kids, clearly she is my role model.

on the other hand, her husband who is a year or two younger though still handsome does not look soo hot.  trust me i am not daft enough to try and imagine them trying to have sex, and i wont be surprised if she is trying not to either, im sure its a matter of time before she starts tellin him to hit the gym

militia

nne he is an engineer,  quite successful in his right, and sadly enough he is nigerian to the core.  anyway sha. i hope he starts working out because i am beginning to worry about his heart

when it comes for marriage, it is based on mutual faith and undying love between a man and a woman. there are issues that should not be discussed publicly as regard marriage. l don't see how a man who have been married for some years all of a sudden to come up to the public to say that having sex with the wife is boring. To me you don not love that woman in the first place because if you do you won't annouce he weakness to the public if at all that is her weakness. l believe you were enjoining sex at the beginning of your marriage and led to the coming of your 4 children. no 1, what is it both of you where doing when you got married that was kept sex alive in your home that you are no longer doing. No 2. do you still find her very attractive  or do you have an option outside. No 3. Have you been able to talk it over with her, Remember whatever you mistreatment you give to her you are directly doing it for your ownself,,,,,,,,,, for two shall become one says the word of God, Please try to give her the same treatment you were giving her before you won her love.

It is human nature and totally natural that man was never meant to have sex with one partner only. That was invented by religious bigots to control us. That is the problem with religion, they try and supress our normal emotions.

If you love your wife then you should stay with her, but for your own sexual health and happiness you should find a bit on the side to help you let out your pent up frustrations.

 why don't you help hom get one

  osereka, a man say he needs help on how to make his sex life a home exciting because he love his wife and still want to be with her u come on here and tell him a take a 2rd wife what if he gets bord with her too? u'll find him a 3rd one u wicked man im sorry for your wife if u have any because a man like u can not love and respect your wife.

 
,  and u claim that u re 41 years old
sorry to say, i think u re too old to play pranks.

like some one pointed out earlier OPURO means LIAR and u ve proved it.

@ topic
select d wise advice and throw away d foolish ones. _{if your story is true}

you shouldn't  make love to her on a daily basis maybe u do it daily that is why its boring, u can look for new styles to spice  your love making i wil refer you to 40mistakes men should avoid when making love to their women check it out its right here on nairaland forum

@ Poster,

Please drwa closer to God now, you have four lovely kids already, do u know that some married couple are even egging to have just one after so many years of fruitless marriage? atlest you are no longer all that young so sex should not be that important to you anymore.

you better don't do anything funny because God won't forgive u for that.

God wont help, lets keep the Bible out of the bedroom. It only ever causes problems.

Buy her some sexy underwear, maybe some sex toys. Make love in places that you would never normally think of like the kitchen, garden, in the bath or even on the stairs 

If that does not work and you really want to stay with your wife, find a bit on the side to help satisfy your sexual needs.

try positions 

have you resolved the problem?

which planet this one from come?
@poster find out the rootcause, will require patience and please pay attention to little things.don't get all selfish,she aint a sex slave ok? try to make it seem fun to her and not obligation in the prim and proper sense of a wife's duties as those bores say.
for all we know, you could be the boring one.she perhaps finds you too dull in bed.will piss anybody off when one's partner is after his/her one satisfaction.woo her to talking about it,her expectatiions and what she now prefers for people change!.not just order her to sit down and discuss like an official meeting.

@poster
this is a genuine concern u posted here and some people are just advertising their ignorance here.
There are three major sides to your wife's situation.
A. Emotional
B.Medical
C. Religious

Let me explore the points.
A.
 I expect u to have tackled the issue early enough since u mentioned that u noticed it then. A woman basically will like to connect with u emotionally (admit there are exceptions) first before taking it out physically, and once that is not the case, she'll be finding it difficult in giving all of her self during intercourse. have u tried to find out if she had a horrible sexual experience while growing up?  I remember a statement in the TITANIC movie that says 'a woman's heart is a deep ocean of secret' it might not necessarily be rape but some bad sexual experience can cause a woman to switch off whenever it comes to the issue of intercourse. These are the things u'll have to find out from her with a very caring attitude. Let her understand u care for  her to enjoy the sexual experience too, instead of just acting as if she's denying u selfishly.


B. Medically your wife might be partially frigid, experiences painfull penetration or things like that. In that case, encourage her to see a good specialist for proper diagnosis and medical solutions( i saw some good stuufs on that line in a past edition of TRUE LOVE magazine.)

C. Like i've seen from some posts here, most religious folks just believe (or were wrongly taught to believe) that sex is from the devil, and that it's only needful for procreation. they forget that God was the one that created us with all the hormones  and wants us to enjoy sex to the full (in matrimony). When u read from 2cor. 7, u'll discover that no party is supposed to deny the other his/her body except during fasting/prayer, even at that, it should not be prolonged.
Though recently christian writers are beginning to understand and address this issue that was initially regarded as not so important in marriage. I suggest u buy THE ART OF SEX IN MARRIAGE and other related titles by TIM LAHAYE, a renowned christian author and read it together.
Finally, get good romantic movies and watch together, all alone, try and create romantic environment around your home. Be the man!
All the best.

I agree wit those who say he should have a sit -talk with his wifey. I mean, they've had 4 kids together isn't it. May God help them!