Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?

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equlibrium (m)
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #32 on: December 05, 2007, 05:12 PM »

 Sad Please don't waste your energy, its nt worth it. NB: dnt walk dwn that road because once u start, dere's no walkin back, God deliver u my brother.  Cry  Cry  Cry  Cry
denony (m)
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #33 on: December 05, 2007, 06:03 PM »

Yes ooooooooo, being jealous is good to an extent, for me am a jealous lover,
I think people who are not jealous over their loved ones are runs guys and girls
who never settle one place. if you are having a single partner and you cherished and appreciate her/him most, bet me you must be jealous.
Cos' u will like to protect her to the core.  If u have a partner you really cherish and never want to let her go, you must be jealous to protect her.  But my man to an extent, but i think its good. Lips sealed

playmate (f)
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #34 on: December 05, 2007, 11:56 PM »

it depends on d extent of jealousy.sm people's display of jealous tend 2 actually b obsession,nd smtyms jealousy destroys relationships that is y trust shuld come after love.if ders trust ders no reason 4 you to b jealous.
ogrebuga (m)
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #35 on: December 06, 2007, 05:17 PM »

I think being a jealous lover is 'good'. It keeps the relationship upbeat and keeps you on your toes, because u'll always be trying to make sure you're still number one. But when you don't know when to shut it and let the other person have their space, you become a jealous pest. The trouble with love is, it's hard to draw the line between jealousy and possesiveness, so my guy, be jealous,  just don't go about advertising it like a ferrari. Bring your ferrari out only when someone brings a rolls-royce to your front, else lock your ferrari up somwer safe. Cheesy
phorlabee (m)
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #36 on: December 06, 2007, 06:17 PM »

Nah PATHOLOGIC Jealousy no good as its a Psychiatry symptom.
degubi (m)
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #37 on: December 06, 2007, 06:38 PM »

Firstly ask yourself why am i jealous? Is my jealousy progressive or retrogressive,is it for my own satisfaction or for his/her own benefit? Are u jealous because u see him/her wasting her time on what will not be beneficial to his/her present or future or are u jealous because he/she is moving up in life or being ambitious and u feel threathened? It all has to do with motives behind our action, even love can have a negative side to it if not done properly,so search your heart always and ensure that whenever u are jealous it is for the right reasons. 
playmate (f)
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #38 on: December 06, 2007, 09:36 PM »

@degubi
u re 101% correct.i agree wit u.of what use is it 2 a relationship if one of d couple is jealous 4 no reason.
dankabi (m)
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #39 on: December 06, 2007, 10:02 PM »

haba protecting your girl friend or your wife from wolves, na be bad thing now. If that na bad thing i be jealous lover!!! Cheesy
oyinyechi (f)
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #40 on: December 10, 2007, 10:06 AM »

If u really LOVE your partner, der is always a room for jealousy
We can only try as a human, not 2 take it to d extreme which
is quite dangerous
lasmiles (f)
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #41 on: December 10, 2007, 10:13 AM »

its good to be jealous, but the problem is being over jealous, it turns to something else, at a time in my life, my boyfriend was jealous and i was enjoyiong it , but it got to a time that it was too much , i couldnt bear any more,too much of evryt thing no good
solo ras (m)
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #42 on: December 10, 2007, 09:15 PM »

 NO FREE UR PARTNER COZ HE OR SHE IS AN ADULT AND SHOULD HAVE KIND OF FREEDOM BASE ON TTRUST 
NDUX (m)
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #43 on: December 13, 2007, 05:06 AM »

Yes it is very good to be a jealous lover,how do you expect yourself to be sharing your life partner with someone else,infact it is degrading.But their is also another way that someone should not be jealous,that is if you are not truthful with your partner so you do not have to worry when he or she revenge just because you cheated first. And if you are into production of ponographic films and movies then you can go out with as many type of folks as you needed because you earn a living with it.
iice (f)
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #44 on: December 13, 2007, 06:26 AM »

runaway keyboard
Faitymine (m)
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #45 on: December 13, 2007, 07:42 AM »

To be jealous is good, shows that you care, but dangerous when it's too much! Grin Grin Grin
dada22 (m)
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #46 on: December 15, 2007, 12:01 AM »

 it ok 4 girls 2 be jealous  Wink Smiley  Wink Smiley

but when a man decides 2 be jealous, he should be thrown down from a skyscrapper  Angry  Angry  Angry  Angry
olrotimi (m)
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #47 on: December 15, 2007, 12:31 AM »

sometimes
sagacious (f)
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #48 on: December 17, 2007, 02:15 PM »

I'm a jealous lover. 
Tawak (f)
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #49 on: December 18, 2007, 12:41 PM »

no, but a little bit of jealousy is ok
Albato (m)
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #50 on: December 24, 2007, 09:59 AM »

Being jealous will only shoot up your blood pressure but I dare say God himself is a jealous one. There's got to be a good use for jealousy somewhere.  Undecided
Salena
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #51 on: March 19, 2008, 09:03 PM »

No it's not good to be jealous. Love is not envious. check 1 corinthians 13. Love cares for the welfare of the person, be glad for the person even if he/she likes another. When you give love, it comes back to you.
PERVERT9
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #52 on: March 19, 2008, 09:05 PM »

its not good to be jealous but is good to be possesive
Busta (f)
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #53 on: March 19, 2008, 09:06 PM »

Quote from: PERVERT9 on March 19, 2008, 09:05 PM
its not good to be jealous but is good to be possesive

huh . . .that na sucide oh


besides, old topic!
jennykadry (f)
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #54 on: March 19, 2008, 09:11 PM »

all i have to say is that jealousy goes wt love,u'll always be jealous when you're really inlove,but if you're not u wouldnt mind when u see your partner kissing someone else
Sisikill
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #55 on: March 19, 2008, 09:35 PM »

Why? Who needs unnecessary high blood pressure? It's so funny how some people think being jealous is the ultimate sign that they love their partner. Oh it might be cute in the beginning. . ."Aww, he loves me so much he does not want me out of his sight" but soon, very soon it's gets annoying. Jealousy is childish and it shows how insecure the other person is.
Sisikill
Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?
« #56 on: March 19, 2008, 09:39 PM »

Quote from: degubi on December 06, 2007, 06:38 PM
Firstly ask yourself why am i jealous? Is my jealousy progressive or retrogressive,is it for my own satisfaction or for his/her own benefit? Are u jealous because u see him/her wasting her time on what will not be beneficial to his/her present or future or are u jealous because he/she is moving up in life or being ambitious and u feel threathened? It all has to do with motives behind our action, even love can have a negative side to it if not done properly,so search your heart always and ensure that whenever u are jealous it is for the right reasons. 

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