My Girlfriend Says Our Relationship Will Soon Be Over

Can enybody explain this to me " my girlfrind told me last 2weeks that
her relationship with me, we soon over, very soon". i though it was
joke untill i called her today, it seem she really mean it. please help me
because i still love her, we 've being in this relationship for the past 3 years
and we truely love each other even her family. am confused i don't
know what to do

welcome 2 the club man --- be prepared 4 a long period of sleepless nites, aimless walks & sad songs.
if u don't have a lot of friends, start making 'em now 'because u'll need lots of 'em 'round u when grief comes calling!
don't worry with time, the tide will fade -- 4 some it takes quite a while xpecially if she's your very 1^st -- but u're never going to be the same again 4 sure.
all the best man -- we've all been here  before, so it ain't going to be the world's end!

@ toshmann

1 goal for you in champs ligue final

thanx bro, infact we (liverpool fans in cardiff) have booked one pub in town where we shall scatter booze for the anticipated victory over puny milan

IS IT OVER??

The truth of it all is that, something or someone is behind it. Thats the much truth there is to it

Now what you have to do is confront her, ask her outrightly what you did to warrant her leaving you. Tell her the wors thing or correction you could give to a child, is beating them without them knowing what they did . . I'm sure she'll atleast tell you

Either:
1) She's not happy in the relationship, she would so much want you to buckle up but you're not reading the hand-writing on the world or
2) She's head over heels in love withsomeone else
3) Or her feelings for you just left the window (not necessarily because of someone else, but because some get a happy ending, but there are some that don't get to that part)

Only the first one has a chance of a happy ending. But that only deends on how far you're willing to g to get her back and how much morem chances she's willing to give you. Now both of the things i just named has to go hand in hand if you'll achieve something tangible.
Just plead with all your humility, sincerity, love and genuiness. Let her know you're willing to change whatever bad behaviour you've been nututring. Tell her you could not dream of loosing her, and you aren't taking a NO for an answer. Then listen to every word and body language she gives out. Follow them, act on them and respect them. That'll make her feel appreciated and understood

Keep to your promise, because the next time might actually be the end. I know some girls when they feel they couldn't take it no more, ahave a tendency of doing the worst to make their points or get some personal attention. I hope fior your sake thats the issue here.
Be that which she thinks you can't be, and i'm sure at the end of the day you'll be singing a whole new "love song"

If one out of the last two options i stated is the case, then my dear its time to move on. The journey has eneded, and in as much as it pains to the core, you don't want someone that doesn't feel for you what you feel for them. You'll be better off without. Take your time heal, just know that you're a good person, you found yourself in an ineveitable situation but the future might be holding your best. Take heart, its not the end of the road, even though for a while it'll seem so.
Good luck!!! 

    I agree, the way  i perceive it , its like shes make up her mind, like there was a time phase and its coming to an end or shes done with u    , if i were u, I'll move on, i won't even consider begging, she'll just extend the time and that won't help got its going to end . still

Bros, ibi like sey {Uka agwula} church don finish. I think she has politely telling you that you are no more first choice. Another man have made a better offer/promise than u. Do not be surprise to receive her wedding card in weeks to come.
If you offended her, she would have politely told you that then this, i believe, you have quarreled before and settle it.
Nwa nna, shine your eye.
Take heart. Better luck next time. All the best.

Anything that has beginning must definately have and ending.

summon up courage and go for someone else.

Afterall you cannot force someone to love you

At least she told you that it will soon be over, you better start getting ready for heartbreak

I hope you have plenty of ice cream ready, weed(tree) and drink like greygoose

And moreover who tells a guy it will soon be over? dummy

See person wey dey talk about 'HEARTBREAK', na im dey talk about LIVERPOOL match? I do not think you have been hurt [as you said]. 

If to say your girlfriend don dump you, omo you no go remember say you be LIVERPOOL fan again. I am talking from my past experience. 

Abeg, tell us another thing wey dey serious.

Jojo

@babadee

Nice advice.

I wonder why u are disturbing yourself

I'm not speakin from xperience but when a girl tells u your relationship will soon be over, it probably already is. So look for another one. Like i tell my friends, 'there are too many fishes in the ocean to jump in just to catch one'. Peace.

not even try to over-beg her or over-impress her to come back because if u do and she comes back she might be doing so out of pity., u know now: "after all these years" and "just for old time sake" and that could be worse because if it happens so the next time she walks out she wont even hint u so just be u and ask  her whats wrong,if she insists on calling it quit the so be it.I AM A LIVING WITNESS, MY GIRL GAVE ME HINT OF LIVING AFTER 5 YRS OF R/SHIP I LURED HER BACK(MY MISTAKE , COS AFTER 2 MORE YRS{IE NOW 7 YRS})SHE LEFT WITOUT EVEN SAYING GOODBEY. IAM STILL ALIFE , BETTER OFF EVEN, SO WILL You BE
WHEN ITS OVER, ITS OVER PERIOD!

@cherish - have u ever heard of the sayin 'Treat them mean, keep them keen' omo she's broken up with u, even gave you to weeks notice (_chuckles).
What is it that u want to do now? Let it go, chin her and act like u're not bothered, don't call, email or txt. Do yo thing and sooner or later u'll move on and if she sees this she'll be one calling u up 

cherish man,
u don't want to be listening to this advicedon't even know how u're ever going to do it!!!

What kind sunmu u be sef? You don't know how he's going to do what, move on with his life!
Ode mak u no confuse the guy's situation with yo own o! Read yo own advise?  Sule