Can You Marry A Man Shorter Than You?

These days, we are all aggressive about what we want. And it is not any different with women. Guys want trophy gfs, wives and so on. Now, the question is, how many ladies here can genuinely love and marry a man shorter than they are. I am not saying short people are not to be married. Just that, ladies these days want  tall muscular guys as  husbands. What happens to the not-so tall and muscular guys? The word "taller "means you are about 4 inches (and above) taller on bare feet not some high-heel induced height. Honest replies please.

Naijaprof

Kike001, when you say he is not going to be that short. what do u mean? numeric values please. How far can you go in numbers compared to yours?

Simply no.
Am 6ft, its either we are of the same height or
with inches taller than me.

@ omo eko

Says who?

I would not,

 

never!!!

@ oby. You are on point about some short guys . I know a short guy who behaves like that. He goes about chasing women. He's a player want to be, i know he's insecure cus he's always talking about his height.

I heard short men can be very good in bed. While don't you babes try

them out?

@Omo Eko:

With regard to Aduks, I, myself, am fond of tall ladies.  It's not my sole priority, of course, but tall women are fine by me!   

This thread is interesting from its vantage point of women to men.  What I'd like to do is turn the question around--in other words, do the men feel they would be comfortable marrying a taller woman?

I think you ladies need to pray to God to hlep you in your decision on your future partner. Shouldn't you rather be with a man that will genuinely love you and be there with you and your children?. This is not to say that I'm short, I'm above 6'1, but I would rather spend the rest o my flife with a woman that truely loves me and not because I'm tall. Haven't you seen tall people become short due to sickness/accident?, God forbid bad thing.

That might explain why many ladies even almost passing their prime marriage age are still single and seeking. It's very sad that not everyone will be married, and some might have even missed the one truely meant for them. What is wrong with short people, is it not the same God that created all?, or do they choose the height they were to become?.

my present girl friend is taller than me and she loves me so much and we av been dating for the past 1 and half year

I want to ask you girls one question: What if you have slept with a shorter guy in your life and you found out that he has the biggest DICK you have ever seen in your entire life, and he satifies you more than all your taller guys do,WHAT WILL YOU DO? above all he is stikingly Rich.  Will you go ahead and marry your taller, poor,and small Dick guys?

  If ya all marry tall peeps, who should marry people like us who are short!!!!!!11

Never mind jare, at least all my past girlfriends were taller than simple me. I would definately see a tall girl.

DEFINATELY

I think many times, women base decisions on the 'picture of the couple'

There's this stereotypical image of a happy couple with the man being a bit taller than the woman. Look at any romance novel and you'll see the girl looking up, the man looking down. Pictures of kissing-same thing. Family pictures-same thing. These 'images' are very important to the ladies.

If she has to look down at you, she thinks of you as a baby. Also be aware that her baby brothers are probably already taller than her- if you appear shorter than someone who calls her 'aunty' every day, she will involuntarily lose respect for you day after day.

The simple solution for a vertically challenged guy is to identify and take advantage of 'pictures' that favour him on a daily basis. One very common 'picture' is the dominant leader flanked by taller subordinates. If a lady sees a 'short' guy surrounded by taller people bowing and giving respect, he will become larger and larger in her 'minds eye' until she doesnt see the height anymore. It will all be respect.

To be fair, I believe that respect and love are just as important in marriage. In fact, I think respect is more important, because love has a way of fading, which is a natural occurence, since the male flesh is naturally inclined to the sin of fornication.

So, next time you see a short guy trying to be the boss or act like the world revolves around him, be careful. He's more likely to succeed at it than you, the tall guy. A short man who can command charisma will have his pick of women.

At 5"4, marryin a guy shorter than me would result in my kids hatin me(because chances are the wuld also be short). And also the images darkmanzero's talkn about have been firmly imprinted in my brain. Short men are usually rude and obnoxious, marryin 1 mite be short lived, no pun intended. (myopic view? I know).