Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?

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software (m)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #32 on: May 17, 2007, 02:58 AM »

Quote from: wa_do_mi on May 17, 2007, 02:36 AM
@Software - bush man - what is wrong in kissing in the church -

bush man devil.
Lips sealed Lips sealed Lips sealed Lips sealed
iice (f)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #33 on: May 17, 2007, 03:52 AM »

It's the culture thing.

You can make out in public but just knowing where and when. Tongue And no am not shy!
sereques (m)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #34 on: May 17, 2007, 04:09 AM »

TBH I don't know. they make it look like it's bad
yomiwise (m)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #35 on: May 17, 2007, 07:55 AM »

 I think  kissing in public is not worth  it at all
seun001 (m)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #36 on: May 17, 2007, 08:01 AM »

think it all abt the culture thing.

me,am shy on,but can hold or hug and mayb a peck too.bt like sombody said,u get a stigma by doing that and pple will always remember it when they see you!!cheers
globalaid (m)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #37 on: May 17, 2007, 08:08 AM »

there is nothing wrong in kissing in public, though my wife does not like it because she is a shy type of person, i normally give it to her at the time she least expect.
Double N (m)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #38 on: May 17, 2007, 08:47 AM »

My people lets be sincere with ourselves.It is not a matter of loving each other or trying to be affectionate or Romantic,it is a matter of respecting our tradition and values.Kissing in public is not just our culture.if you want to show your affection, a hug,holding of hands and a simple peck is enough.Lets face it,we as Nigerians are generally conscious of what people say about us or else how many of you proclaimers of kissing in public can kiss there girlfriend in front of their mothers?
moondust (m)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #39 on: May 17, 2007, 08:52 AM »

Quote from: yomiwise on May 17, 2007, 07:55 AM
I think kissing in public is not worth it at all

really think so? I disagree with u b'cos if u've got nothin 2 hide and u're proud of your partner I see no reason why u should think its not worth it
tinu16 (f)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #40 on: May 17, 2007, 09:08 AM »

@ wa do mi,

 Grin The meaning of your name is (come and mess me) and thats d reason why u can kiss your partner anywhere!!!!!!!!!!  O ga o Tongue Tongue Tongue
fellow (m)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #41 on: May 17, 2007, 09:21 AM »

Quote from: tinu16 on May 17, 2007, 09:08 AM
@ wa do mi,

 Grin The meaning of your name is (come and mess me) and thats d reason why u can kiss your partner anywhere!!!!!!!!!! O ga o Tongue Tongue Tongue

he he he  Shocked Shocked

A blow below the belt
chinnys (f)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #42 on: May 17, 2007, 09:52 AM »

Na naija we dey make una take am easy !
copy cat
Kissing in public ko, by the way who are we trying to impress here
It is definitely not our culture expecially when you are not married.
Tornadoz (m)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #43 on: May 17, 2007, 10:00 AM »

@wa_do_mi
Quote
what is wrong in kissing in the church
Haba!Even oyibo no dey kiss for church.
yogun (f)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #44 on: May 17, 2007, 10:30 AM »

Showing alil affection by Kissing, for me I dont think is wrong. If U down with the act, then go on do it.

we are forgetting dat right now in Naija most of the things done here r not part of our culture.

maybe it's time we did away with modern technology found around us, like the GSM, ATM, etc. didnt we lent all dis as well from the Western world?

amaikama (m)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #45 on: May 17, 2007, 10:47 AM »

well, as i see it, it all depends on the couple. times has changed we do not live in a world a little touching or holding hands are seeing as a taboo in the society. kissing in public is a way of showing how much you admire, desire and want your partner. it not only in private that you can show him or her how good you are or how good you can be but even in public. such stunts can keep a flaming relationship burning for as long as it takes.
yogun (f)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #46 on: May 17, 2007, 10:58 AM »

Quote
well, as i see it, it all depends on the couple. times has changed we do not live in a world a little touching or holding hands are seeing as a taboo in the society. kissing in public is a way of showing how much you admire, desire and want your partner. it not only in private that you can show him or her how good you are or how good you can be but even in public. such stunts can keep a flaming relationship burning for as long as it takes

exactly
bdaf (m)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #47 on: May 17, 2007, 11:33 AM »

it is becos of our tradition and culture.

secondly, it is because of the kind of omen people will place on the participants

but to me sha, i de kiss anywhere.
Enyola (m)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #48 on: May 17, 2007, 11:43 AM »

Leave it,
Let the Married Kiss anywhere they like,
nobody will complain about that
but for the love wan titi group of lover
they should do it behind the doors,
near the wall in the dark, dark corners
behind closed doors and not in the public.
sexyella
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #49 on: May 17, 2007, 11:49 AM »

Naija lo wa!!!
wa_do_mi
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #50 on: May 17, 2007, 12:03 PM »

driving is not our culture - so allcars should be banned - suit is not our culture - so no more suit wearing - all should go in traditional wear - GSM phones are not in our culture - so they should be banned - Mr Biggs is not in our culture so they should all be closed down - eating fried egg is not in our culture - so it should be banned -

all hypocrites.
tinu16 (f)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #51 on: May 17, 2007, 01:35 PM »

e dey pain u gagao Grin Grin
Omo Eko (f)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #52 on: May 17, 2007, 01:38 PM »

I think it has something do to with our culture Grin Grin Grin but who cares i do it Wink Wink.
kike001 (f)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #53 on: May 17, 2007, 02:48 PM »

its just being concendrate of oda ppl (ccant spell)
Tornadoz (m)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #54 on: May 17, 2007, 04:01 PM »

Sorry double post
Tornadoz (m)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #55 on: May 17, 2007, 04:04 PM »

Some people here have started confusing Technology with Culture.
Technology is  the application of scientific advances to benefit humanity

Culture on the other hand is the values, traditions, norms, customs, arts, history, folklore, and institutions that a group of people, who are unified by race, ethnicity, language, nationality, or religion, share.

Using mobile phone does not imply you are copying other peoples culture, kissing is.
dafrankie (m)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #56 on: May 17, 2007, 05:18 PM »

Nigerian are generally conservative in nature.Many of the tins done in civilised countries are frowned upon here.Somtyjms, even seen as taboo, I also think kissin has bin overblown bynd proportions,  Personally, I reli tink there is notin wong with kissiin in public. Tis simply an expression of affection.'Slng as d prsns invlvd dnt start feelin dmselves up:), But reli, I tink tis a cool tin to do wen in love, Ta!
dafrankie (m)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #57 on: May 17, 2007, 05:29 PM »

Nigerian are generally conservative in nature.Many of the tins done in civilised countries are frowned upon here.Somtyjms, even seen as taboo, I also think kissin has bin overblown bynd proportions,  Personally, I reli tink there is notin wong with kissiin in public. Tis simply an expression of affection.'Slng as d prsns invlvd dnt start feelin dmselves up:), But reli, I tink tis a cool tin to do wen in love, Ta!
babyosisi (f)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #58 on: May 17, 2007, 06:00 PM »

Quote from: dafrankie on May 17, 2007, 05:29 PM
Nigerian are generally conservative in nature.Many of the tins done in civilised countries are frowned upon here.Somtyjms, even seen as taboo, I also think kissin has bin overblown bynd proportions, Personally, I reli think there is notin wong with kissiin in public. Tis simply an expression of affection.'Slng as d prsns invlvd dnt start feelin dmselves up:), But reli, I think tis a cool tin to do when in love, Ta!

we don't only do things because there's nothing wrong with it, we also should put the feelings of others into play.
Everybody knows we all use the toilet,must one do it in a market square to prove  that his digestive system is still in tip top shape?
RuuDie (m)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #59 on: May 17, 2007, 06:01 PM »

don't care 'bout who's kissin who 'n where; all i care 'bout is who's gettin d late nite shows!
LEVI2ME (m)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #60 on: May 17, 2007, 06:11 PM »

i know of a guy that tried it in Nigeria and was charge for public distrubance.
But i have another idea,
those old people will really spank you without knowing who you are, if you try that
in Nigeria.

MAYBE YOU CAN TRY IT SOMETIMES SO YOU CAN TELL US WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU,

I WILL BE WAITING. An assignment for everyone!!!  Cool
mellow (m)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #61 on: May 17, 2007, 06:18 PM »

Because they don't know how to kiss
tipsydude (m)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #62 on: May 17, 2007, 06:50 PM »

I guess we have 2 look @ d issue of public kissing by Nigerians 4rm 2 perspectives which I still believe r inter-dependent of each other and they r no other than d issue of culture and morals. 4 pete's sake one doesn't have 2 make out wit his/her partner in public 2 prove anything or 2 exercise freedom. 2 me doing that simply implies dat we r in bondage. Bondage under the western culture. B4 we emulate everything, lets look at their society and all d ills that plague it. If we aint careful, we wuld embrace d right 2 abortions by teenagers, gay marriages, incest and many more. One shuld be proud of his culture and not be quick 2 discard it and embrace an alien one. Future generations will never 4giv us if we continue 2 embrace everything. And we shuld not confuse technological advancement as culture. Though I guess its still an individual thing.
omoge (f)
Re: Why Are Nigerians Shy About Public Kissing?
« #63 on: May 17, 2007, 06:50 PM »

if you are purging, after that beans or moinmoin meal you can't hold  Grin

so why should kissing be held till you reach one secret place? lol, i do it but not french kissing sha.

the feelings of others, that's true. especially those whose guys/chics don't give it to them.

we don't only do things because there's nothing wrong with it, we also should put the feelings of others into play.
Everybody knows we all use the toilet,must one do it in a market square to prove  that his digestive system is still in tip top shape?

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