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iice (f)
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It's the culture thing.
You can make out in public but just knowing where and when. And no am not shy!
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sereques (m)
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TBH I don't know. they make it look like it's bad
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yomiwise (m)
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I think kissing in public is not worth it at all
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seun001 (m)
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think it all abt the culture thing.
me,am shy on,but can hold or hug and mayb a peck too.bt like sombody said,u get a stigma by doing that and pple will always remember it when they see you!!cheers
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globalaid (m)
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there is nothing wrong in kissing in public, though my wife does not like it because she is a shy type of person, i normally give it to her at the time she least expect.
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Double N (m)
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My people lets be sincere with ourselves.It is not a matter of loving each other or trying to be affectionate or Romantic,it is a matter of respecting our tradition and values.Kissing in public is not just our culture.if you want to show your affection, a hug,holding of hands and a simple peck is enough.Lets face it,we as Nigerians are generally conscious of what people say about us or else how many of you proclaimers of kissing in public can kiss there girlfriend in front of their mothers?
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moondust (m)
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I think kissing in public is not worth it at all
really think so? I disagree with u b'cos if u've got nothin 2 hide and u're proud of your partner I see no reason why u should think its not worth it
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fellow (m)
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he he he  A blow below the belt
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chinnys (f)
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Na naija we dey make una take am easy ! copy cat Kissing in public ko, by the way who are we trying to impress here It is definitely not our culture expecially when you are not married.
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Tornadoz (m)
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@wa_do_mi what is wrong in kissing in the church Haba!Even oyibo no dey kiss for church.
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yogun (f)
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Showing alil affection by Kissing, for me I dont think is wrong. If U down with the act, then go on do it.
we are forgetting dat right now in Naija most of the things done here r not part of our culture.
maybe it's time we did away with modern technology found around us, like the GSM, ATM, etc. didnt we lent all dis as well from the Western world?
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amaikama (m)
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well, as i see it, it all depends on the couple. times has changed we do not live in a world a little touching or holding hands are seeing as a taboo in the society. kissing in public is a way of showing how much you admire, desire and want your partner. it not only in private that you can show him or her how good you are or how good you can be but even in public. such stunts can keep a flaming relationship burning for as long as it takes.
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yogun (f)
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well, as i see it, it all depends on the couple. times has changed we do not live in a world a little touching or holding hands are seeing as a taboo in the society. kissing in public is a way of showing how much you admire, desire and want your partner. it not only in private that you can show him or her how good you are or how good you can be but even in public. such stunts can keep a flaming relationship burning for as long as it takes exactly
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bdaf (m)
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it is becos of our tradition and culture.
secondly, it is because of the kind of omen people will place on the participants
but to me sha, i de kiss anywhere.
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Enyola (m)
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Leave it, Let the Married Kiss anywhere they like, nobody will complain about that but for the love wan titi group of lover they should do it behind the doors, near the wall in the dark, dark corners behind closed doors and not in the public.
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wa_do_mi
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driving is not our culture - so allcars should be banned - suit is not our culture - so no more suit wearing - all should go in traditional wear - GSM phones are not in our culture - so they should be banned - Mr Biggs is not in our culture so they should all be closed down - eating fried egg is not in our culture - so it should be banned -
all hypocrites.
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tinu16 (f)
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e dey pain u gagao 
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kike001 (f)
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its just being concendrate of oda ppl (ccant spell)
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Tornadoz (m)
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Sorry double post
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Tornadoz (m)
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Some people here have started confusing Technology with Culture. Technology is the application of scientific advances to benefit humanity
Culture on the other hand is the values, traditions, norms, customs, arts, history, folklore, and institutions that a group of people, who are unified by race, ethnicity, language, nationality, or religion, share.
Using mobile phone does not imply you are copying other peoples culture, kissing is.
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dafrankie (m)
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Nigerian are generally conservative in nature.Many of the tins done in civilised countries are frowned upon here.Somtyjms, even seen as taboo, I also think kissin has bin overblown bynd proportions, Personally, I reli tink there is notin wong with kissiin in public. Tis simply an expression of affection.'Slng as d prsns invlvd dnt start feelin dmselves up:), But reli, I tink tis a cool tin to do wen in love, Ta!
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dafrankie (m)
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Nigerian are generally conservative in nature.Many of the tins done in civilised countries are frowned upon here.Somtyjms, even seen as taboo, I also think kissin has bin overblown bynd proportions, Personally, I reli tink there is notin wong with kissiin in public. Tis simply an expression of affection.'Slng as d prsns invlvd dnt start feelin dmselves up:), But reli, I tink tis a cool tin to do wen in love, Ta!
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babyosisi (f)
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Nigerian are generally conservative in nature.Many of the tins done in civilised countries are frowned upon here.Somtyjms, even seen as taboo, I also think kissin has bin overblown bynd proportions, Personally, I reli think there is notin wong with kissiin in public. Tis simply an expression of affection.'Slng as d prsns invlvd dnt start feelin dmselves up:), But reli, I think tis a cool tin to do when in love, Ta!
we don't only do things because there's nothing wrong with it, we also should put the feelings of others into play. Everybody knows we all use the toilet,must one do it in a market square to prove that his digestive system is still in tip top shape?
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RuuDie (m)
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don't care 'bout who's kissin who 'n where; all i care 'bout is who's gettin d late nite shows!
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LEVI2ME (m)
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i know of a guy that tried it in Nigeria and was charge for public distrubance. But i have another idea, those old people will really spank you without knowing who you are, if you try that in Nigeria. MAYBE YOU CAN TRY IT SOMETIMES SO YOU CAN TELL US WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU, I WILL BE WAITING. An assignment for everyone!!! 
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mellow (m)
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Because they don't know how to kiss
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tipsydude (m)
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I guess we have 2 look @ d issue of public kissing by Nigerians 4rm 2 perspectives which I still believe r inter-dependent of each other and they r no other than d issue of culture and morals. 4 pete's sake one doesn't have 2 make out wit his/her partner in public 2 prove anything or 2 exercise freedom. 2 me doing that simply implies dat we r in bondage. Bondage under the western culture. B4 we emulate everything, lets look at their society and all d ills that plague it. If we aint careful, we wuld embrace d right 2 abortions by teenagers, gay marriages, incest and many more. One shuld be proud of his culture and not be quick 2 discard it and embrace an alien one. Future generations will never 4giv us if we continue 2 embrace everything. And we shuld not confuse technological advancement as culture. Though I guess its still an individual thing.
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omoge (f)
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if you are purging, after that beans or moinmoin meal you can't hold  so why should kissing be held till you reach one secret place? lol, i do it but not french kissing sha. the feelings of others, that's true. especially those whose guys/chics don't give it to them. we don't only do things because there's nothing wrong with it, we also should put the feelings of others into play. Everybody knows we all use the toilet,must one do it in a market square to prove that his digestive system is still in tip top shape?
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