My Boyfriend Said I Look Old

 

Signs that he's either had someone he's been seeing outside or he wants OUT!!!

That's a very mean thing to say, but the context is what matters.  Were you guys having an argument?  Tell us!

Tell him he doesn't look that young himself  .

Meanwhile you check yourself and the clothes you been wearing lately, or food you been eating, tush up a bit if you have been slacking.

Failing that he probably been or wants to start seeing someone on the the side.

My sure bet

Hush you - fellow! Not everybody is good at mincing words and placing emphasis at the right spots.

You must all think of the worst, murky reasons huh? If a guy wants to leave you he will never make such a statement unless its in a heated argument. If it was not a heated argument or something of the sort, such a comment would be based on the assumption that the lady would understand where his emphasis is - which i maintain is most probably her manner of dressing.

I have said that to my girlfriend before, but that was properly delivered and we laughed over it.I have even told her she is starting to look like canned coke and not the 35cl bottle - she got the gist and started working out, I think its an error in the manner of delivery from the guy.

I agree with kachi_face. Nothing to be depressed about, plenty fish in the sea.
You will get over it, it is acceptable if he said it in the heat of an argument.

Tellthem, Kindly send me your pics maybe u might b suitable for me, owoblowj@yahoo.co.uk

femi ths is not an ego matter , any normal girl will break down hearing this fromsmeone you think loves you

@ sw, hmmmm

does that mean you're thinking about it, my number is 080-52-----

i think thats a childish talk,if your boyfriend can't tell u things about your self,who else should tell u,even though nobody wants hear that kind of stuffs about themselves,but it makes u sit upright and see ,where u've been letting yourself go, i think its best to have people that will tell u the truth, ,the way he said it is might be wrong , but  look at yourself in the mirror and see if hes right or wrong i mean if u see halle berry in the mirror then it don't matter but if u see whoopie, then,

@ sexxxxy

LOL that is soo funnny
i wishi could paste my pic here i don't look bad
wheni look in the mirror i don't see halle i don't se whoopie

i see myself , beautiful, medim height, to-die-for- shape , well spoken, educated, lovely eyes,
thats what i see ,
i can't and wont be any body else i will be myself who ever can't leave with it can kiss my A**

Well, I think it must be that he was thinking aloud, he probably saw something has changed. The truth is everyone (even your boyfriend) can both be ugly and beautiful, depending on a wide range of factors from mood, hair-do, dressing, composure, posture etc

I will advise you to talk things over with him, but then I think u really don't to get worried since he has just said it once and may not really mean it.

Just in case, he keeps muttering the same line of jargon, then show him your back and call the relationship off.

Tellthem, i think we are compatible, just e-mail me, tell your boyfriend that u've gotten someone that appreciate u. waiting for you reply.

@ sexxxxxy
you're so so right I second you.

@ topic
Hello peeps, please lets come back to planet earth

@ Tellthem

dearie please come down, and do think. I don't think he'll tell you that just to hurt you out of the blue. If he wasn't interested in you any longer, I'm sure he'D have found a better way of telling you that,

If you guys weren't quarrelling, then something else might be behind it. He loves you, and will therefore want you to lokok your best, whats the point in him hiding it. You just got to ask him what he meant.
I can remember in 2004, we were in naija, everyone was like "chei, Linda, isn't there food in Norway, you look so skinny, i was hurt but my mum and boyfriend were like "honey, you look fine, you're gorgeous, blah blah blah" to my greatest surprise, when we were back in Norway, both of them were like "yea, you really do look skinny and too thin" I was like "and why didn't you tell me all this while" and they went "if we had joined the que, you would have been thricely hurt, so we had to cheer you by saying you looked fine.

Even though it still hurt, I understood they only wanted me to look my best, so i add some weight and looked much more healthier though still slim, but not to the extent of looking hunger-beaten

What I'm trying to say is this, isn't it better to hear it from someone that loves you?? and do something about it, or would you be more convinced if it ame from a total starnger?? He might have said it in the most wrong way, but not everybody is good at biting their words before shooting, iy might be your makeup, your hair do, there are million of things that could be the case, just talk to him and ask . . someone who asks never misses their road they say!!

well if u look good,then i guess it don't matter, so don't don't feel depressed