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Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #32 on: November 16, 2005, 02:52 PM »

u like using the word fuxk?, well good for you, it would be really nice to use it somewhere else tho.
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #33 on: November 16, 2005, 02:52 PM »

Not everyone like using the word
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #34 on: November 16, 2005, 02:53 PM »

or should i say BEIGN OFFENDED BY THE WORD?
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #35 on: November 16, 2005, 02:53 PM »

being*
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #36 on: November 16, 2005, 02:54 PM »

Well i got told off for using a swear word once, so I see no reason, y anyone else who does, shouldn't too Wink
hot-angel (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #37 on: November 16, 2005, 02:54 PM »

uhhhh... Yes. I like using the word, and YES... not everyone like using the word. Since u've said it, i'll try and stop.. or at least minimize the rate at which i use it. I just use it to express myself.

U know u can just modify your posts instead of... making like 5 posts?? There's a modify thingy above each post u make.  Smiley
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #38 on: November 16, 2005, 02:55 PM »

Who would get used to it???me???ERRRR....NOPE!!!!!!THANK "YOU" Smiley Wink
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #39 on: November 16, 2005, 02:55 PM »

That would be VERY NICE hot angel Smiley Wink
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #40 on: November 16, 2005, 02:56 PM »

THANK YOU(trying to be MORE POLITE Wink)
hot-angel (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #41 on: November 16, 2005, 02:56 PM »

okay lady.. u don't have to get used to it.. Drop it now?? let it go.. drop it... just let it go.

So... ermm.. is it nice to check your patners cell phone??
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #42 on: November 16, 2005, 02:56 PM »

ERRR, I CAN SEND HOW MANY POSTS I WANT, THANK YOU Smiley
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #43 on: November 16, 2005, 02:57 PM »

OH YES IT IS, VERY MUCH :)HEHE
hot-angel (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #44 on: November 16, 2005, 02:57 PM »

Ohhh.... okay keep posting my dear.
alheri (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #45 on: November 16, 2005, 03:18 PM »

its no big deal,infact, i just replied my husband's e-mail( box) for him because ive got his password. i check his phone all da time because i want to know wats up. if u say u don't want to check because u trust your spouse, like seun said, trust will not stop your spouse from cheating. my spouse has never cheated on me and i pray God grants him da grace to never cheat................and wats this about been nosy? dats what marriage is all about,getting into one anothers noses!!!
AND GALS,STOP E-FIGHTING!!!!
hot-angel (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #46 on: November 16, 2005, 04:38 PM »

Quote from: alheri on November 16, 2005, 03:18 PM
dats what marriage is all about,getting into one anothers noses!!!
AND GALS,STOP E-FIGHTING!!!!

hahaha...Amazing.. getting into one anothers noses.  Cheesy

Anyways.. we weren't e-fighting. Just making things clear like i always say.  Smiley
goldenoc (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #47 on: November 17, 2005, 01:50 PM »

There is not bad about looking into my partners afair becuase l believe we are one, if l look into his afair is as well as looking into my afair. what concerns him concerns me.

Although some people does it at of jealousy to make sure that their partner don't have afair outside.

To me if l check my partner's what ever l'm only keping our thing inoder.
Aderonke (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #48 on: November 17, 2005, 05:36 PM »

Personally, I dont buy the idea of checking other's people phone and d same applies to my partner.
Except he wants me to view his phone. I cant imagine myself going through his phone at his back.
Generally speaking, its a bad idea. It doesnt speak well of our xter.
Ladies beware! Wink
FOD (m)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #49 on: November 17, 2005, 05:45 PM »

Why wouldn't I allow her to check my phone when I've gat nothing to hide? It's all about openness and trust. I see nothing wrong in it.
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #50 on: November 17, 2005, 10:02 PM »

no cuz it just shows a lack of trust n a feeling of insecurity
dis could b very dangerous 4 da marriage
Alexia (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #51 on: November 18, 2005, 10:56 AM »

I don't think that checking your partner's phone is really necessary if there is peace, luv and trust between you. In this case it would not be "checking" but "browsing"!

When two people get together it's because of love and trust, right? When one person starts checking on the other there must be a reason; maybe a change in behaviour and habits or some fishy incident. Just to say nobody really has the intention to spy, it comes up when things get weird Huh. It's the need to know what's really going on around you. MEN are curious in nature. Just make sure you have the guts to stand whatever you find in your partners phone because some of it can be pretty destabilizing! Shocked

If there is something bothering me about my partner and i know that i'll find the answer in his phone, i'll look Tongue.
alheri (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #52 on: November 18, 2005, 11:13 AM »

Well, i dont go through my hubbys phone cause i dont trust him. when we're bored sometimes we naturally just start scrolling our phone,its something everyone does, sometimes when am tired of scrolling mine, i do my partners. its not like am CHECKING his phone per say. If i come across something,i believe i have the rite to ask. If in traffic my husband gets a text, the logical thing is for me to read it out to him. I just believe its no big deal. My friend was upset with me once cause she called my phone and my husband answered, she said I shouldnt allow it. But Ive got nothing to hide,why shouldnt he? I mean the phone was closer to him when it rang and he didnt want it to be a missed call.
victoria23 (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #53 on: November 18, 2005, 09:13 PM »

yes it is right to check your parter phone depending on kind of woman you are going out with
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #54 on: December 02, 2005, 06:36 AM »

LMAO!! Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
whiteshark (m)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #55 on: December 02, 2005, 07:17 AM »

No, dont do it!!

I would not check her fone, email or anything. I will not even asnwer her calls.
snazzydawn (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #56 on: December 02, 2005, 07:34 AM »

Tell that to the marines!!! Roll Eyes
whiteshark (m)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #57 on: December 02, 2005, 07:45 AM »

I am telling you sweetheart, your stuff is your stuff like mine is mine. I will not cross the line. I nor wan vex... U know the saying, see no evil, hear no eveil.... anoda one goes like this.. Wat the eyes does not see or the ears hear, the heart does not grieve about
eveseh (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #58 on: April 25, 2006, 05:23 PM »

it's not right,it's means u dont love he or she or
u dont trust the person
eveseh (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #59 on: April 25, 2006, 05:24 PM »

it's not right,it's means u dont love he or she or
u dont trust the person
sammyjl (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #60 on: December 20, 2006, 07:30 AM »

 Shocked Its wrong, but communication is the key if a relationship is to work.

And yes mobile phones have come with their ad/disadvantages. So did everything else.
cheavroi (m)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #61 on: December 20, 2006, 08:59 AM »

I sincerely think that wen you check your patner phones you will get more than wat u bargined for.also trust  will only enable you to be think he doesnt cheat cos you dont want to be disappionted wen u catch him at it so i think trust is ok but lets not get it confused .
my opionion
anabell (f)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #62 on: February 09, 2007, 05:32 PM »

snooping, hope u dont see what u dont want to see Shocked
Bizl4Rizl (m)
Re: Is it right to check your partner's phone?
« #63 on: February 10, 2007, 01:08 AM »

Na wetin your eye dey find na him e go see.

Be prepared for the unexpected if you go snooping around, let sleeping dogs lie!
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