Dating A Demanding Girl

The thing is, women and men interpret the expression of Love differently, for alot of men it's sex, for very many women it's material things, it's just the way things are. so we all know how the saying goes, if u can't stand the heat leave the kitchen, that goes for both the dudes and the girls, so young man, if u love the girl, and i can bet she is one hot foxy mama, u gotta pay her bills, otherwise look for someone less attractive and cheaper, u wana drive a status car. u going to have to pay for it. they don't come cheap.  simple man.   [size=8pt][/size][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font][b][/b]

ewu!! nnukwu ewu!!! bla bla bla i am ibo boy!! it's igbo boy and not ibo (that clearly showed were you are from though)

@topic
maybe another guy with heavy pocket don spoil her before you came

hahaha see me, see wahala

i see d way some guys in hia, don use this one to air their grievances, lol, some girls are like that because in a man's world (which is what we live in) it is difficult to earn a decent living,.
others a stingy whilst some are just down right lazy and don't want to work

rest assured a girl that demans beyond reason, doesnt love u oh.because if she did, she would feel your pain when your broke, she no go ask u to move heaven and earth. Love=understanding abi???

otherwise, make u dey fine better babes when be your type to deal wit, if u've made a bad choice in girlfriend, admit it like a man, swallow the nut and move on, ah ah

Me i don't ask my guy for anything, i work, he works, if he asks i give, but then he will give me without me asking, but to say you're waiting for me to ask!!, hahaha u go wait oh, until u c your grandchildren. i wouldnt want to give a man that kind of pleasure or power over me, God forbid!!, if u feel as your partner, u want to give me soemthing to get a perfume/ear ring etc, i no go deny, but for say i open my mouth ask u?, lai lai, esp if we don't live in same house, and don't share any other form of finance,

na me and him dey work d money together?

If she demands, you sef DEMAND!!! Chikena! 

Nna, please let her take a walk. The day you stop apying her bills she will drop you. CONFIRMED. and look for another person. Must you fend for ALL her needs?

You also have a life to live. She aint got no pride! I am a woman too but I never ask my boyfriend for anything!

This is really serious How can people out there call ibo girls? Look am an ibo girl n i must say that if one or two ibo girls out there have been so dmenading that doesnt mean all ibo girls are demanding. Now guys, all girls are not demanding, i hve a boyfy n am proud to say its a 50/50 thing. I pay his bills when he has nothn on him, i i can't count how many times av done that n evn contributed for his flight fare, so please look out there for nice gurlsn don't sit down there and conclude that ibo girls or all gursl are demanding!!!!

well i certainly do believe that boys who go around toasting chicks just because they are pretty or they give it to them right (if you know what i mean), girls that are demanding should be left to keep on doing their thing because the fault is ours(i.e we the men) we go around showing we can do without them, imagine! she will feel you cannot do without- men that is so riduculous

(Just for the record The Most demanding girls are students)
As you can see,am neither male nor female so am not supporting any gender.
Yea talking about girls,some of them are demading but not all of them.They all have different levels to which they demand.
Like walking in a store and seeing something she likes and shes is like hey Tom,See that skirt,its nice.You know that sounds moderate,respectful and polite.You know she likes it and she wants it but she is indirectly saying it also putting in mind that it is possible he doesnt have the money so he doesnt end up feeling embarassed and incapable.Those are girls that respect themselves, A smart guy should know he should check it out and if she really likes it he should do something about it provided hez got some cash on him.That is fair or would i say normal.But if it is getting too much he should find something to do about it.On the other hand,he goes to the store with a girl and she sees the skirt and she is like Tom,i like that skirt,buy it for me,the demanding girls don't even say it in a jokingly manner nor do they beg teasingly,they demand for it like its their right.It would be hard to refuse and on the other hand if he doent have the cash,he would end up looking like some selfish ass guy and also end up dissapointing her.
There are also some girls that when you are with them,they would be like,Tom,buy credit for me,buy ____ for me and stuffs and when he is going over to her place,the respectable ones might just say get something for me but the demanding ones would specify what they want and are atually expecting what they asked for on your arrival.They would feel more dissapointed if he didnt get it for her than when she gets it and he didnt make it over to her place.-------------Come and take me out (She is Hungry),she doesnt want to eat out with you,so you guys could sit opposite each other and look into each other's eyes while eating and laughing,she is actually hungry and doesnt want to spend her money or probably doesnt have money on her and she wants you to feed her.Those kind of girls piss guys off.There are some that j
ust ask you for everything that comes to their mind.They remember all the things they needed and start asking you to get it for them and accuse you of being unromantic or not caring because you dint get it for them.
A true relationship should be one where you both understand yourselves and can talk to each other about almost everything that is bothering you.In relationships the benefits are meant to be mutual.you both help each other when the need arises and helping should not be only about money.Also seeing the man as the MAN in the relationship doesnt mean he should be able to get things he can't afford or do things he is no capable of,Not saying because he is the man he should do everything and on the other hand A man should also be a man too and should try as much as possible to be in control in most cases because that is one of the features ladies want in their men.They need someone they can turn to when they are feelin down and would be there to stand by them and support them.

@poster
she only demanded a phone and you think the world is coming to an end? cool down oh! 

hahahahahahaha, funny

@texazzpete

R u one those guys who think they r smart?

it's not only you guys who think can demand, girls can 2. it's not about paying for the sex if that'st what u think, afterall, the girls enjoy it better than the guys who do most of the job in bed.  

i'm a proud ibo girl 2. i wonder why u girls r hating us. is it "because we can't take shit from u. i'm proud to be ibo any day. Nwa mazi for that matter.

Aro kwenu !!!!!!!!!! ibo kwezwonu !!!!!!!!!!!

women are just cheap thingy's. y should i be financially responsible for you? na me born u? and when we hav sex na only me dey get orgasm? so y should females say men demand 4 sex. e no dey sweet u too? if u want me to pay u for 'services renderd' then be ready to jump when i say boo and bend over whenecer i want it, or else just learn to pay your own bills

Hello All,I think the issuse is this,If you are not comfortable with your relationship,i think its better you called it off,instead of pretending and you may suffer the results in future.uh

I have just found out that all girls are generelly demanding be it directly or indirectly. i have been trying to date this girl for a long time but she claims i am stingy just because i have decided not to spend foolishly.All the same one needs at one time or the other to be foolish just for the sake of love.My case is different though and so i need your advice.I have always wanted to marry her since  knew her but somehow it hasn't really worked out. we were in the same polytechnic, while i was doing my HND she was running her NATIONAL DIPLOMA. i asked her out all through the two years i knew her and she never said yes or no but we became close friends. after school i embarked on my youth service while she took direct entry to a university.now she has graduated and working. i am also working. along the line somehow we lost contact but prior to the end of my service year i got her contact and we started communicating. her problem is that i am stingy,i do not care enough and presently she has a lot of suitors wanting to marry her. after much persuation she agreed to give me a trial but on one condition- she is free to opt out anytime she likes. fellow nairaland users, i need your advice on how to follow up this babe so she could marry me. i have a good job but i always don't want her to marry me because i am comfortable but because of who i am. Heeeellllpppppp.

thanks. i am waiting for your comments.

omo these chicks are just gettin worse by the day just last week ma chick told mii 2 get her nokia N72 while am using  Nokia 3230 and she was like she's not takin no 4 an answer but when i ask for the stuff she alwayz tells mii she's a virgin and we should wait till we get married but i know and am sure she knows that we're not gettin married 4 any thing i've been avoidin her but it seems like am tryin 2 run away 'because of the phone its just like all these chicks these days are straight from HELL