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AGBAMA (m)
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IN ONE WAY OR THE OTHER WE HAVE "DECULTURED" OUR CULTURE.THAT IS You MIGHT HAVE TREATED UR CLUTURE WITH GREAT DISDAIN.LETS NOT DRAG OUR CULTURAL IMAGE IN NIGERIA TO THE MUD PLZ.IT IS HOW You TAKE CARE OF SOMETHING THAT OTHERS WILL TAKE IT TO BE.IF WE LOOK DOWN ON OUR CULTURE,OTHERS WHO SEEM TO HAVE INTEREST IN IT WILL EVEN TREAT IT WITH GREAT CVONTEMPT!!!.BUT I AM QUITE AWARE THAT THERE ARE SOME TRIBE THAT You CANT JOKE WITH WHEN IT HAS COME TO GIVE RESPECT TO HER CULTURE[NAME WITHELD], MAKE A RESEARCH ON THAT!IN ANUTSHELL WE SHOULD TRY AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE TO APPRECIATE OUR CULTURE WHEREVER You ARE OKAY.NAIRALANDERS.PLZ HELP THRU MORE LIGHTS ON THIS THRU UR REPLIES
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marlet01 (m)
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well spoken Agbama.
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Dis Guy
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It's inevitable  |
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naijaway (m)
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the one thing we should deculture is too many traditional rulers.
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omogenaija (f)
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i kind of agree, i'm yoruba and i notice that yoruba are really big on respecting your elders even if the elders don't respect u , i hate that  |
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Omo Eko (f)
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i kind of agree, i'm yoruba and i notice that yoruba are really big on respecting your elders even if the elders don't respect u , i hate that You are so right there and it has gotten to a point if you are rude to me then I don’t give you no respect, will never call you aunty, uncle or use Sir or Ma. I don't go on my knee to greet nobody expect my parent which is very rare. |
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omogenaija (f)
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You are so right there and it has gotten to a point if you are rude to me then I don’t give you no respect, will never call you aunty, uncle or use Sir or Ma. I don't go on my knee to greet nobody expect my parent which is very rare.
i wonder y some think its respectful to do that , |
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omogenaija (f)
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i try avoiding saying hello , my mom says i'm rude everyday, but as long as your happy with yourself who cares kneel down ko, sit down ni |
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Omo Eko (f)
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i try avoiding saying hello , my mom says i'm rude everyday, but as long as your happy with yourself who cares kneel down ko, sit down ni Rude is there favorite word  even they’ve give up on me since they know am never going to change. But whenever am trying to ignore the greeting, i either use my cell phone has an excuse or put a big frown on my face to keep them away from me. |
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omogenaija (f)
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lol i just pretend that i'm in a rush , and i hate when my mom's friends come to my house and think that i'm their maid , that one should be considered rude |
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Ynot (m)
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IMHO, no one has decultured is that even a word? our culture. Things change and so should we. I'm sure it was once cultural to sacrifice human to the gods. There are things you just have to get rid of. I particularly find the kneeling down greeting funny but again thats someone's culture.
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Omo Eko (f)
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lol i just pretend that i'm in a rush , and i hate when my mom's friends come to my house and think that i'm their maid , that one should be considered rude I feel you jare when i was in naija it wasn't no problem because we had 2 house maid but hope here it's different, but i don't serve no one lai lia. I usually leave the kitchen for my mum to do that maid things that her friends and family  . |
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omogenaija (f)
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lol
"awon omo amerika baje" --- another thing thats pisses me off
but bout awon omo naija ? they are perfect right ?
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omogenaija (f)
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my cosuins in naija tell me bout the recharge card thing as well, and even some of the ones here  |
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Omo Eko (f)
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I remembered this girl sleeping with my hubby friend just to get his #, naija girls are worst than omo america at least you got to buy them expensive things before getting something in return.
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ayefele200 (m)
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I remembered this girl sleeping with my hubby friend just to get his #, naija girls are worst than omo america at least you got to buy them expensive things before getting something in return.
who told you that, just be romantic thats all, my cosuins in naija tell me bout the recharge card thing as well, and even some of the ones here shioooo, your brain is still in its LARVA STAGE |
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omogenaija (f)
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anyways @ omo eko
yoruba's need to change -- aye ti yi
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