What Would You Talk About On The Phone With Your Girlfriend?

see yesterday we talked on the phone and i keep asking her to speak because i can't think up of any topic..
and my girlfriend got made because she was like being ordered to talk.. and whenever i keep asking further questions such as 'why' to a topic, she said im in too deep to the matter..
and we ended up quarelling..

so guys.. am i wrong to keep asking her to talk? and what would u guys talk about when your on the phone with your girlfriend/boyfriend..?

im 20..

Hummm

well yea i think tats lame of me for not having any topic to talk about.. T_T
anyway she got pretty mad yesterday because i keep telling her to talk.. to find a topic..

Hi keele,
  I feel ya . Did you ask her about money matter whether she is broke or loaded? Thats a topic most babes love to talk about but most guys avoid asking so why won't there be gist  . By the way, why should you be thinking of what to say to your baby so if una marry na so una go think before una go talk. Maybe, the girl is not urs if not it suppose to flow naturally. Sha, next time before she picks up the phone, have a piece of paper and write down what you going to talk about. Sha, when she picks up the phone, just be looking at it, that way its going to flow. Just some tips by disney babe ok. I hope you be fine . .

NB: Also, when there's nothing to talk of on the phone, start using sexy sweet words like l love you , l want you, bla bla bla and she be gigling with laughter. .

1. Keep conversations short
Whether u are a student or worker, u always want to give her the impression that u lead a full, active life. By keeping your initial telephone conversations brief, u will give her the impression that u are busy and in demand. And as an added bonus, if u are always the one ending the conversations, it will keep u in a position of control, leaving her wanting more and more of your time.

2. Leave on a high note
She'll always remember what u said last. Therefore, before ending a conversation, make an effort to leave on a positive note, such as with a well thought-out joke or a funny story. Even if your entire telephone conversation went poorly, if u leave her smiling before saying goodbye, she is more likely to want to speak to u again -- and hopefully see/be with u in person -- which, of course, is your ultimate goal.

3. Have a purpose to your call
Don't just call to chitchat. I cannot stress this enough: preparation, preparation, preparation. Be armed and ready with a purpose to your call (even if its just to hear her voice, tell her); this will give her the impression that u are assertive and thoughtful enough to think of a plan beforehand. This plan will also serve as a backup weapon should there be an awkward silence in the conversation or if her voice mail picks up.


Remember the golden rule, if u nor get anything to yarn again, say bye. Dont allow up to 1 minute pause in a phone convo. It only describes your dullness. u are the guy, u should be i control (You can be quiet and still in control)

I totally agree with that. It's easier to be romantic when you are actually looking into her eyes. Then you can pick up topics from your surroundings... like her having a new hairstyle (tell her it's nice then you can ask about the saloon, talk about how she feels when she's sitting down under a dryer for so long, does she read or does she sleep while she's under the dryer, from there you can talk about what type of books she reads and what type you read... etc, etc). Also, always be very sensitive and know when a particular topic is getting dry. Always think ahead and have another topic to replace it.  Before she's finished answering a question, you should have thought ahead about the next question you're going to ask her.

If you can't see her and you have to stick to the phone, think up topics as you go along too. You could start with a joke, hide your number and tell her you're calling from a telecomms company and you've been instructed to cut off her line. Then when she starts acting confused, tell her your name (in the same official manner) and watch her laugh.

There are a lot more tips, but they are best learnt yourself. Practice makes perfect.

is phone sex ok?

some body is asking whether is phone sex ok? please before you answer that question, what is phone sex?
The idea i have about phone sex is the sexy words you say one phone to the one(s) you love.
I need your definition

I think It's all about maturity in a relashp.So get your mind natured n go on speak your heart out to your babe. 

It's not just OK, it's perfectly FINE!

I see keele's problem has been solved. I don't need to contribute.

@kenflavor
I wonder how many banking/finace lecturers have actually worked in the bank.

let me tell a truth, i don't like long coversation on the phone. i don't know why. the maximum i can talk on the phone is 5-7 minutes. i have problem on that and i think i should seek help. i love to see who i am talking to then we can tall all day. that is my life.

@dejiolowe. i am not the kind of guy that cry about minutes. i talk anytime wherevever i am. i just don't like phone phone conversation and do u think every guy is a broke ass nigger like you

You'll tell her things u would have done if she were around u @ that moment, and how u are pissed off u can't do those things, (Even those u wouldn't do) lol