Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?

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moneytalks (m)
Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« on: May 21, 2007, 05:41 PM »

i am kind of confussed here.do you make love to people you love and have sex with people you feel like satisfying your libido with or what is love making?why is it called love making not just sex?
mellow (m)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #1 on: May 21, 2007, 05:44 PM »

It is called love making because you

are manufacturing love.

Make=manunfacture=produce
HillaryX
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #2 on: May 21, 2007, 06:13 PM »

@ Mellow, u no well. u come turn am to manufacturing industry.

love making is like what both of u want. It's mutual, u two want to make yourselves enjoy it while having sex is like just taking something from someone without the other party enjoying it or not. its non of ur business. I hope i tried to answer d question.
VCKY99 (m)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #3 on: May 21, 2007, 06:28 PM »

You can have sex with any body, it doesn't matter if the person enjoys it or not. Just  insert your thing and keep thrusting in and out till you come. The key word there is satisfying your drive, while making love is the act of enjoying sex with a person you love. It involves the touching, kissing and ultimately satisfying the sexual urge of the two people involve.
amaikama (m)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #4 on: May 21, 2007, 07:01 PM »

it is love making that brings about sex and after that, nine moth of big belly woman and worry for the man if both of you are not married.

cheers.
xjovial (m)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #5 on: May 22, 2007, 10:23 AM »

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm! Love making is a prelude to having sex,
  Thats to say,love making goes along with sex.
  But u can stilll make love and not have sex.
   smooching,kissing e,t,c without pen, tion ok.
Grin Grin Grin Grin
abelix (m)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #6 on: May 22, 2007, 10:29 AM »

anyway love making is between lovers and sex is between a male and a female either with or without consent
you feel me the babe you sleep with just to lustfully releive yourself is just sex between you guys but you wife is LOVE MAKING SMOOCHES AND PLENTY OF HUGGIES BEFORE THE MAIN SHOW
me i no know book oooooo
PHEESAYOUR (m)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #7 on: May 22, 2007, 12:39 PM »

If i should say anything atall, i will repeat what VCKY99, HILLARYX and XJOVIAL said, you can have sex to a lady you rape, also simple chemistry can bring about having sex without feeling any emotional feeling, but you only make love to the one you love even if it does not involve the insertion of the bobo's privates inside the sisi's cunt,  So ti ye e!!
luxoire (f)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #8 on: May 22, 2007, 12:46 PM »

love making = emotional strings
sex = non emotional
anon101 (f)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #9 on: May 22, 2007, 02:06 PM »

i agree with above post
ijogbon (m)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #10 on: May 22, 2007, 02:57 PM »

@Luxoire
As usual quite succintly put.

@Post
May I add that You HAVE to plan to make love ie romantic dinner, candle light, find out what the right spots are, hitting the right spots etc BUT sex now sex is ANIMAL, it is often impromptu (so sometimes even while making love you find yourself slipping into having sex).

Making love is like learning to ride a bicycle with those two little wheels on the side of your bike. Sex is like - learning to ride without them, O the thrill.

Basically Sex is satisfying the physical desires of BOTH participants through f**king.
Making love is satisfying the emotional desires of BOTH participants through f**king.

F**king? Now thats "you get yours while I getz minez" its on now,,,,,lol
vronnie (f)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #11 on: May 22, 2007, 03:38 PM »

Sex is an act performed by two people who have little to no emotional connection. Then there is love making that is done by two people who really care for one another .
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #12 on: May 22, 2007, 03:42 PM »

Quote from: xjovial on May 22, 2007, 10:23 AM
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm! Love making is a prelude to having sex,
 Thats to say,love making goes along with sex.
 But u can stilll make love and not have sex.
 smooching,kissing e,t,c without pen, tion ok.
 Grin Grin Grin Grin

Please don't say that out in public. What you described is "making out", NOT making love.

Vronnie has the right definition.
oatgold20 (m)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #13 on: May 22, 2007, 04:55 PM »

You only makelove to someone you're in love with,and this is always passionate and experienced with just one person ,while sex is fucking any gadem bitch or dog at your diposal just relieve the heat in Uno feelings there after for each other and always less passionate.so get that in2 ur brain.
biozy (m)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #14 on: May 22, 2007, 06:03 PM »

i concur wit luxoire,
sex is without emotions
lovemaking is with intimate emotions
olutomiwa (m)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #15 on: May 22, 2007, 07:34 PM »

ol boy na the same HE SWEET ME,HE SWEET YOU,any other thing na grammar.
thegame (m)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #16 on: May 22, 2007, 08:30 PM »

According to my personal research,I think Love making is more accceptable and polite than  having sex. Sex is the 5 minutes shit and love making is the 1 hour or more fun, from kissing to licking, to undressing, oral stuff then to the real inserting. You can have sex on the street table but you can't make love. Also, that's the difference with a whore. You don't make love to them, you only have sex. you understand this people? Make love to your wife or partner, not just have sex. they respect you more.
Love making is not it sweet me it seet you whogo pay?
thegame (m)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #17 on: May 22, 2007, 08:35 PM »

Vronnie is right about lovemaking too just that she didn't explain it fully. Looks like she's been making enough love with the right people. No offense V.
na wa (m)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #18 on: May 23, 2007, 03:07 PM »

love making is smilling while "doing it"

having sex is sweating while "doing it"
locoman (m)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #19 on: May 24, 2007, 02:58 PM »

Both is FUCKING let us not give it a name. It is the same activities that takes place.
vronnie (f)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #20 on: June 15, 2007, 03:33 AM »

@ thegame, none taken  I don't believe in just having sex. I love my nigerian man thats why i know the difference. notice I said man ,because love is something that can not be shared with multiple people . At least not me Iam a selfish lover and thats what makes love making so powerful .
GNature (m)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #21 on: June 15, 2007, 03:43 AM »

Quote from: locoman on May 24, 2007, 02:58 PM
Both is FUCKING let us not give it a name. It is the same activities that takes place.

'Ol boy, na waa for you ooh  Grin Grin

Love making:-  there are feelings involved, it's more than just the physical act itself
Having sex:- the physical act
moondust (m)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #22 on: June 15, 2007, 05:24 AM »

the same diffrence between a wife and a whore
goldieloc (m)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #23 on: June 15, 2007, 07:34 AM »

having sex is just satisfying ur urge with anyone, while love making entails being in love with someone and passion is involved with ur body and soul bein involved in the whole process.
kiki (f)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #24 on: June 15, 2007, 07:37 AM »

@goldieloc

u sound like u know alot hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm what u been doin
mcube (f)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #25 on: June 15, 2007, 09:19 AM »

Lovemaking & sex are two different experience. Though it happens with the same process

Lovemaking is a matter of the heart joining the soul and the body. You make love with someone u ave a special place for. the process of love making as so many branches like; smouching, kissing, touching and other aspect of romance.

Sex is just a matter of satisfying urge. a guy can ave sex with any lady including a prostitute when he has the urge of doing it but can never make love with anybody.
goldieloc (m)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #26 on: June 18, 2007, 12:38 PM »

@kiki
nothin o, just being me and keepin it real.
angel101 (f)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #27 on: June 18, 2007, 01:40 PM »

Quote from: olutomiwa on May 22, 2007, 07:34 PM
ol boy na the same HE SWEET ME,HE SWEET YOU,any other thing na grammar.

 Grin so true

angel101 (f)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #28 on: June 18, 2007, 01:42 PM »

@ abelix
having f***king someone without theirconsent is called RAPE not sex
tpia
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #29 on: June 30, 2007, 01:01 AM »

Quote from: goldieloc on June 15, 2007, 07:34 AM
having sex is just satisfying your urge with anyone, while love making entails being in love with someone and passion is involved with your body and soul bein involved in the whole process.

great definition.
Fadajasi (m)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #30 on: July 01, 2007, 10:58 PM »

Same ni
MacT (m)
Re: Difference Between Love-making And Having Sex?
« #31 on: July 02, 2007, 01:43 AM »

When i think of it, this seems so true ,but d smiles will come at intervals; not that u'd be smiling through out the whole period ooh!!

Quote from: na wa on May 23, 2007, 03:07 PM
love making is smilling while "doing it"

having sex is sweating while "doing it"
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