Nigerian Women Really Chasing Men These Days

i heard men are scarce maybe thats why. ,
but its not only nigerian girls . .i'll lock and chain my man to be when i find him

I don't see a big deal in this. i ve had a couple of shorties come my way asking me out : some direct and some indirect.
In all, if  see what u want , GO FOR IT. Ce finis

Nairalanders,

I know my reply came a little bit too late, but are girls not human beings? Can't they go for what their hearts desire? We Nigerians have a little problem that needs a very big solution; appreciation. It is little but I have watched a show of appreciation give hope to a friend that once contemplated suicide. I did not show appreciation that a pure blood, well educated well bred, Fulani chic some 7 years ago wanted to go out with me. She was so enamoured with me that when I pretended not to notice she had to go through my mother. Can you beat that? (My momsie grew up in the North) Momsie did all she could but I had my fears, very unreasonable fears; one being that she is muslim, anything could happen and that her irate father might come after me with a sword. Her elder brother assured me that this is her only sister and to make her happy he does let her have anything she  asks for. Infact, he told me that for the first time in his sister's life she can't have what she desired more than anything else; me. I was touched at heart but, my reservations would always pop up. It was not that I looked down on her, I was scared of any emotional excursions towards a muslim. It got so bad on her that she refused to eat, pined away and slowly broke down in health. One thing; her parents never knew why she got sick. She could never dare tell them what was making her sick. I visited her once at their house and she kept giving me that forlorn look. I stared back at her blankly and was monotonous throughout my stay. I thought I was being wise, I thought I was being protective of myself, I never knew I was being selfish and at the same time stupid, I never knew what I was walking away from was the very best thing that could have happened to me. Right now she is married (not so happily) with three kids and here I am, lonely with a string of heartbreaks trailing after me. She once told me over the phone that each time her husband makes love to her she would curse me from her heart. Right now all I am looking for is the ghost of the girl. Someone who will trully and deeply love me like she did. Come to think of it, if she did not love me she would not have waited three years for me to just give her what she asked of me; my heart.

Subaka (Her name, it means sunrise or dawn), I am very sorry for causing you all that pain and would live to regret not loving you back. I was very young then and would not understand what you wanted from me, or know how to give it to you. So guys, never take for granted love when it comes to you cause I discovered with my experience it happens only once in a lifetime.

inspiROHM

stop wondering

@thoniaslim


ssssssssssssshhhhhh when adults are talking go and sleep

pray oooo because ur still young that u meet ur man before time pass u by

because when it does u would join the prayer squad and begin to bind witches from ur village and ur cities that were never after u in any instance

I don't think it is just nigerian women, it seems to be a trend in all women.

However, there are still a handful of we traditional girls who like to let the man do the chasing, at least in the early stages.

I personally would find it quite hard to chase a man, especially in the beginning, i guess am a little old-fashioned.

I also feel it is quite unnatural as men are biologically the aggressors.  a lot of relationships that begin with the women pursuing the guy generally do not last that long, yes it can be rather flattering for a guy to have a woman pursuing him, but after a while he is likely to get bored.

The man should initiate the 1st contact, he should set the first date, he should propose.  Not saying that women can't do this, but having the woman lead all the time can be emancipating for the men.

men are biologically natural hunters, they love the thrill of the chase and the hunt, so give them something to hunt!

In India it is the women that marryb the men and give them a huge sum of cash to start off a business, maybe we should try it in africa

is not a big deal

A proper lady?

must be homely,smart,humble and highly intelligent.

Humourous 2.

Oh!! the scale on their eyes have finally falling off. that's nice to hear. So all those "yanger" will eventually stop. mmm!! 
Please, people should start telling them to start asking men for marriage ooo! before we change our mind to help them overcome their loneliness. 

The tide has change it's course people. Let give them hell just as when they are giving us hell in the days when we are chasing them. 

I think its a new thing for Nigerian women, (although I have yet to see it), but its been that way for many European/American women, and the funny thing is, Nigerian men will say thats what they like about them, its only us who are supposed to remain traditional.

Some western women will even be the one to propose marriage.

[color=#006600]well am new in this site,
 well let me say some little things about that,
Dating an older women is not a Big deal,  lets leave our women to choose who they like in the orderhand old men dating young lady,  if they what they want they shuld go it,
 like me no one can stop me
 interested old women can contact me on falahcove_steve@yahoo.com and this my phone number +2348024039207
hope to hear from an interested woman, [/color]

there is no problem wiff girls going afta men,
afterall its nt their fault,
In this our generation, men are better looking than girls , so don't blame them,

@Muki
chei my muki is a warden. ok i will go and look for ashawo key
that will open any lock u will use to lock me.