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pkrix (m)
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Originally: Impotence in Ladies. A sexless lady weds a sex maniac.
This girl seemly lacks the ability to feel sexual arousal but she accepted a guy's, who is a sex maniac, application for a intimate relationship simply to feel among.
On several instances she finds sex uninteresting and a thing humans should not engage in not because she doesn't wish to, but because she lacks the feeling but the guy reads her disinterestedness as a disciplined she has acquired from a pricinple best known to her and he proceeded to marry her.
On their wedding night she still shows to feeling of wanting to make it with the guy and the guy, her husband, is too surprise for words.
If you were him guys, what would you do?
And ladies supposing your man had never make it with you and even on your wedding night is not interested one bit to make it with you what would you do?
Remember the nuptial knot has been tied on earth and so it is in heaven.
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hot-angel (f)
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Uh, when you marry someone (or tie a knot as you said), you should you will have sex. Am i missing something?? You marry, you have sex.
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pkrix (m)
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Hot-angel, the bride is sexless; that means her sexual desire (libido) reads Zero.
What the man going to do. He loves her. And she keeps that she loves him too.
She is a jealous lover I meant to say
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hot-angel (f)
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okay  |
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IAH (f)
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I don't think any lady can be sexless! Even if she was a virgin before they married, the thing go still sweet am.
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Angelgal (f)
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And if e no sweet am, then it's up to the man to fix the problem.
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whizkid (f)
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I don't think there is anything like impotence in a woman, hellooo, isn't it the man that gets the erection.
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Seun (m)
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'Sexless' women have an extreme form of ' inhibited sexual desire' "Inhibited sexual desire (ISD) refers to a low level of sexual interest. The person with ISD fails to initiate or respond to their partner's desire for sexual activity." "In the extreme form of sexual aversion, the person not only lacks sexual desire, but may find sex repulsive, revolting, and distasteful." "Occasionally, someone may claim that his or her partner has ISD, when in fact they, themself, have hyperactive sexual desire and are very demanding sexually." "ISD is a very common sexual disorder. The most common cause of ISD seems to be relationship problems wherein one partner does not feel emotionally intimate or close to their mate." "Communication problems, lack of affection that is not associated with continuing into sexual intercourse, power struggles and conflicts, and a lack of time alone together are common factors." "Individuals who were victims of childhood sexual abuse or rape, and persons whose marriages are lacking in emotional intimacy are particularly at risk of ISD." "One good way of preventing ISD is to reserve time for nonsexual intimacy with one's partner. Couples who reserve weekly talk time and time for a weekly date alone without the kids, will maintain a closer relationship and are more likely to feel sexual interest." "Couples should also detach sex and affection, so that neither one is afraid to be affectionate on a daily basis, fearing that it will be interpreted as an invitation to proceed to intercourse." Source: http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001952.htm |
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sage (m)
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Such a case is definitely going to cause real problems in a marriage. It has arisen in many western countries, but I don't think the African man cares much about his woman being frigid. He would stick it in and do it anyway.
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pkrix (m)
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Seun, you are saying my mind. And that reminds me of
"disjunction of genes." Syndrones like
"down syndrone"
"Klinfelter's syndrone"
Among other syndrones can render men and women alike non-feeling to sexual arousal.
So, how could whizkid and angelgal be discussing off topic.
I beseech every Nairalander if no joke intended, understand a topic before posting.
For only in that way can we make the forum lively.
don't take Pkrix, the thoeritical, hypothetical topic poster for granted; but at least it is a "complicated" debate as put by one of the forumist, "hot-angel" in "She's been raped but rape is a call of nature. Who is to be blamed?"
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IAH (f)
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All hail pkrix, the theoretical and hypothetical poster  ! Thanks for the info anyway. Never heard of ISD before. At least having ISD is still better than STD/AIDS. |
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pkrix (m)
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:-*You know what I like boo, I mean IAH. "Hailing!"  |
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CalabarMan (m)
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Let me give you guys a real life experience. I once met a babe who falls into this category. She was a UNIPORT student then and I met her during one of those my official trips to Port-Harcourt. On the first night we tried it, we had just returned from a night of clubbing and returned back to my hotel at 3am, we gisted, smooched for a while, she made all the right moaning sounds, I checked for lubrication it wasn't much any way I decided to try after putting on my Rough Rider I proceeded, 1st attempt couldn't get in, 2nd attempt I almost broke into two, by the 3rd attempt I was already sweating profusely, I gave up and turned around, the babe felt very bad, tried to explain saying she hasn't done it for a long while. She asked if I had any lubricant that we could use, I told her not to worry it is not a do or die affair and besides I prefer it natural.
On subsequent visits it was the same thing so I stopped trying until she came prepared one day applied the lubricant and we successfully did it, but she was damn too tight I didn't enjoy it much. So I avoided having any more sessions with her but we kept seeing, she started feeling very bad and would go into crying bouts nothing I said could console her. Eventually we parted ways.
Can you imagine the problems I would have had if I had married this babe without trying first.....Those advocating no pre-marital sex I wish you the best of luck, as for CalabarMan I need to know what I am going into as I don't intend to have any extra-marital affairs...
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Seun (m)
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My point is that the condition is well documented and can be cured with the help of a counselor, a doctor, or a psychiatrist. This is good news! Didn't you understand that part? You could have taken the girl to a good doctor and she would have been helped instead of consoling her with mere words.
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CalabarMan (m)
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Yeah wake up Seun, you are probably based in the western world where they have very good medical services and councellors for everything, this are ideal world situations those services are not available in Nigeria. For instance Platic surgery for body enhancement is the norm in the western world, have you asked yourself why it is not the norm in Nigeria..eh.....
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Seun (m)
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I am based in Ogun State, Nigeria, and you will be surprised what we facilities have in this country if we bother to look for them! (for example, how many people know we have Emergency Medical Service in this country? Did you bother asking a doctor in the first place before assuming that they can't help with this girl's case? This culture of "use or throw away" is not a good one, because some things can be fixed. |
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tasteguy (m)
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when such happens your consult your god
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Pinky (f)
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Let me give you guys a real life experience. I once met a babe who falls into this category. She was a UNIPORT student then and I met her during one of those my official trips to Port-Harcourt. On the first night we tried it, we had just returned from a night of clubbing and returned back to my hotel at 3am, we gisted, smooched for a while, she made all the right moaning sounds, I checked for lubrication it wasn't much any way I decided to try after putting on my Rough Rider I proceeded, 1st attempt couldn't get in, 2nd attempt I almost broke into two, by the 3rd attempt I was already sweating profusely, I gave up and turned around, the babe felt very bad, tried to explain saying she hasn't done it for a long while. She asked if I had any lubricant that we could use, I told her not to worry it is not a do or die affair and besides I prefer it natural.
On subsequent visits it was the same thing so I stopped trying until she came prepared one day applied the lubricant and we successfully did it, but she was damn too tight I didn't enjoy it much. So I avoided having any more sessions with her but we kept seeing, she started feeling very bad and would go into crying bouts nothing I said could console her. Eventually we parted ways.
Can you imagine the problems I would have had if I had married this babe without trying first.....Those advocating no pre-marital sex I wish you the best of luck, as for CalabarMan I need to know what I am going into as I don't intend to have any extra-marital affairs...
u re a real calabar man... there re so many doctors in nigeria with diff fields too.. they can help that chic.. all she needs do it get to a gynae..he will fix her.... anyway as for u sweating by the third attempt, u definitely aint strong.......... if the girl was so tight i would expect u to enjoy it & not the other way round.. it means u want a hole u will put ur hole fist or head inside before u enjoy it..na for u o!! this ur name calabarman is funny too. |
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CalabarMan (m)
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I agree with you tasteguy but also remember that God helps those who help themselves..you wouldn't climb to the top of a mountain, jump down and start calling God to save you from death, abi there is also a pharase that says "Thou shall not tempt the Lord thy GOD". I no be pastor o! but I go sunday school, win award when I small....
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Pinky (f)
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I agree with you but also remember that God helps those who help themselves..you wouldn't climb to the top of a mountain, jump down and start calling God to save you from death, abi there is also a pharase that says "Thou shall not tempt the Lord thy GOD". I no be pastor o! but I go sunday school, win award when I small....
i don't get all u just babbled o |
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CalabarMan (m)
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Pinky, I hope I am permitted to say this Oga Seun (based on complains from some babes) has warned me that my postings are too explicit, but let me explain the tightness bit. It is good to be tight but if it is too tight the guy cannot move freely, besides if you have a rubber on, your mind would be on ensuring that it either doesn't pull off or tear from friction, now how can you enjoy the act when your mind is busy running subroutines, eh tell me..
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Pinky (f)
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Pinky, I hope I am permitted to say this Oga Seun (based on complains from some babes) has warned me that my postings are too explicit, but let me explain the tightness bit. It is good to be tight but if it is too tight the guy cannot move freely, besides if you have a rubber on, your mind would be on ensuring that it either doesn't pull off or tear from friction, now how can you enjoy the act when your mind is busy running subroutines, eh tell me..
U are just not a PROFESSIONAL..period |
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CalabarMan (m)
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Off course I am not, professionals are prostitutes they do it for a living, I don't. Sorry to have disappointed you but are you .... hey am only joking on that last bit..
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Seun (m)
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CalabarMan, all your posts are tending towards [caution]. maybe I should just [caution] the entire sexuality thread. For the first time in my tenure as administrator I am confused. Help!
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solo2 (m)
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Calabarman, why do you not help that babe, you can as well do it than any doctor, you only try it with lubricants with her once, why not use the same method for some time you get to see that she will be loosing up mostly if she has begin to enjoy sex.
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CalabarMan (m)
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@Seun Sorry O!, the first day I accidentally stumbled on your forum I felt it was very boring. It was as if school children were discussing puppy love, you know those chewing gum love we used to have back in school. A guy claims he is dating a babe and all they do is walk around together at lunch time, buy the babe snacks, chewing gum etc..Nothing more, no kissing, no smooching, no s.x haba I believe there are adults on this site who want to hear and discuss what goes on in the real world, or maybe most people are here to put up a good front so that they can hook up later on. Sorry o!. Oga Seun whenever I am tempted to put real life touch on any of postings I would resist the urge and just conform to the bobo nice mode here (saying what the babes want to hear)
@solo2 I agree with you on that, this event happend about 8 years ago, on hindsight I really messed up and didn't handle the situation properly, I really regret it. The babe is now working in the same establishment as myself and infact we attend the same church she always greets me whenever we see, I once tried stopping her to apologise and explain things to her, but she walked away very fast, I guess I really embarrassed or hurt her back then and she hasn't fully recovered from it. Anyway such is life. If you find yourself in a similar situation please handle it better than I did, we are in this world to help each other. Thanks. Oga Seun I hope I haven't said anything explicit.
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Vieira (m)
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Calabarman, things like that can occur and sometimes they may be cured and sometimes they may not be cured.
I know a yoruba girl that has the problem of not enjoying sex and she has been seeing specialist here in the UK. They have found what they think the reason is (an incident with her uncle when young) but she is still struggling.
The funny thing is that it was not really an issue when she was just dating becuase her boyfriends just thought she was posing and doing "good girl" but when she got engaged and the husband to be moved in, that is when yawa burst.
They have now separated and the guy has moved on but the girl has said she will marry a guy that has a very low sex drive like herself.
May god help us all and pray that we do not come across such problems.
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CalabarMan (m)
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See why I said people should try the thing before marriage to see how compatible they are. Which is the worst sin,Pre-Marital Sex or Extra Marital affair, me I think it's Extra Marital, abi wetin una think.
Virgins please don't respond you are not experienced enough to put mouth in this matter.
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legs (f)
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2nd attempt I almost broke into two, by the 3rd attempt I was already sweating profusely, I gave up and turned around ROTFWL, no be small thing! |
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Pinky (f)
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Off course I am not, professionals are prostitutes they do it for a living, I don't. Sorry to have disappointed you but are you .... hey am only joking on that last bit..
re u o.k if so...... delete this quote fast ...... so i can take this as a joke.. else!! |
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mamba (m)
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Pinky, else what?
Nothing dey HAPPEN jo!!
CalabarMan I dey feel u jare!
I just dey enjoy all ur posts, you be proper calabar man jo!
All the same, I think you coulda done better sha!
I have this girl that has the same kind of prob too, she's tried other guys but till today she's ever grateful she got to know me because her problem is now solved.
At least a love session should be about 40mins and 30min should be for , petting, necking, caressing, romancing,kissing, smooching, sucking and other things i can't post *************** e.g.
You should wait till the last minute when you've done all these and her mouth/tongue temperature has gone from warm to cold and extremely cold, then she'll be begging you to stick it in.... I bet you'll have the smoothest passage then. You really don't need lubricants.....
Don't make that mistake again sha! If you need help remember to PM me...
CHEERS!!!
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Vieira (m)
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So na you be mr loverman abi? Make them call you, see this sex 419 guy! becuase na only you sabi the thing! |
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