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fashlak (f)
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HELLO NAIRALANDER! please i want to know the tips in reducing ones sexual drive, infact stopping it
thanks in anticipation as i await your responce
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Makamiyaki (m)
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U might want to try something called sublimation.
This means utilizing the energy which comes with sexual urge positively.
so, the next time u start feeling that way. look for something more productive
to do with the time and energy.
all the best, dear
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Frankies (m)
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Can some one tellme how to increase my libido or sexual drive.
I seem to be loosing interest in sex these days. It has to do with my psychology.We have a lot of cheap girls these days.They don't seem to value sex any longer and are ready to give it anytime you call on them.
Thereby making sex non sacred as dit should have been.
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Bolarge (m)
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You might want to try something called sublimation.
This means utilizing the energy which comes with sexual urge positively.
so, the next time u start feeling that way. look for something more productive
to do with the time and energy.
all the best, dear
Thank you so, so much for this post. I'll attribute 70% of my success @ ds issue to ds principle. It's more of rechanneling ur energies not diminishing the urge. Sex is majorly a mind thing and once u can engage d mind actively in other (positive) stuff, the urge is as good as dealt with. Prayer also does help. @fashlak Makamiyaki deserves a hug from u for this don't u think?   |
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zignor (m)
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HELLO NAIRALANDER! please i want to know the tips in reducing ones sexual drive, infact stopping it
thanks in anticipation as i await your responce
wonders shall never end.  hmm, a lady want to reduce sexual drive?  maybe you don't have a lovable guy or the guy is weak, simple. a lot of guys out there is looking how to increase their sexual libido  if you wouldn't mind, we can be friends,because, me everyday affair |
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Macutie (f)
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Hurt
« #5 on: July 17, 2007, 11:14 AM » |
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Reduce your intake of red meat and take more fruits and vegetables. Believe me it works!
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zignor (m)
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Reduce your intake of red meat and take more fruits and vegetables. Believe me it works!
Another player . . . .well done oh. . . |
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Mandora (f)
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I'm suprised u r asking 2 reduce ur sexual drive it's usually d opposite. I'm even more suprised that guys r d people doing all d responding it means there's still alot of hope 4 our generation. I totally agree that u shld "re-channel" ur energy n perhaps if u r in a relationship, try seeing ur hubby more as a friend rather than a sex symbol. Become more creative in d ways that u hang out with try 2 go out more often rather than stay in doors when all u'll b able 2 think up 2 keep yourself occupied wit b sex.
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timmy7 (m)
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Makamiyaki et al, good suggestion well said.
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desgiezd (m)
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Go for fasting and be breaking at 9pm daily, all thoughts about sex will vanish.
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dominobaby (f)
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Lol@ dsegiezd, then it had better be fasting and praying otherwise, its hunger strike!
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busygal (f)
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@ FRANKIE!
lol!
@fashlek
maybe her's is in exesses
abegy leave the girl.
who knows maybe its geting her embarrassed in public places where she just can't hold
it but want to do d thin wit every tom , privates and harry.
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2dye4 (m)
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@busygal: i kind of agree, there are some people who are just overtly sensual. @poster:try chanelling the drive towards more productive and probably mechanical activities. better still try joing a seminary. |
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trendy (f)
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sorry o! @ poster, na so the thing hungry u reach  try boxing |
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sosilly4b (m)
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Honestly if this is the right room i would have given you my advice join me in sexuality room.There is somethign you need to do in excess to stop this your sexual drive.
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iwajay (m)
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Whoah! it's really amazing this is coming from a gurl. In any case, fashlak you're not alone. If you've tasted sex then it could really be hard stopping especially if you've been having it with a guy or gurl that's good at it.
A probable solution though not easy is to avoid proximity to males. Avoid viewing things that has to do with sex, movies, books, magazines e.t.c. Keep your eyes, ears and mind free from things that has to do with sex.
This might help.
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aisha2 (f)
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Can some one tellme how to increase my libido or sexual drive.
I seem to be loosing interest in sex these days. It has to do with my psychology.We have a lot of cheap girls these days.They don't seem to value sex any longer and are ready to give it anytime you call on them.
Thereby making sex non sacred as dit should have been.
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It takes two to tango. If you see a lot of cheap girls it means you are also cheap, The girls cannot be having intercourse by themselves. That is not the point sha, Just that i do not approve on degenrative terms on women when women and men are guilty of an act the woman is made out the slut.
If you want help just state that you do not need to insult any woman.
abstience is a good thing, helps you to focus and be more organised. You can reduce your sex drive if you focus your energy on work, or a hobby. You will be more productive and at the same time reduce your libido. You should also aviod things that remind you of sex, such as pornography, and reduce alchol intake if you are a consumer |
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