She's been raped. Who is to be blamed?

as long as she's is being raped. . she might as well enjoy it?   I'm guessing that everyone who said this is either joking or saying that for shock value.

What happened to everyone who wants to argue homosexuality is wrong because the bible says so, apparently, though the bible says rape is wrong, you all don't care.  (I say this both seriously and sarcastically)

So, I suppose that if I see someone trying to slit their wrists, it will be ok for me to cut off their head since they were already killing themselves right?  Or if I see a child drowning in a pool, I should hold them down, or if I see a car with the keys in the ignition and the doors unlocked, I should steal it because the owner is obviously making the car available to be stolen or if someone drops their wallet or purse and continues to walk away, I should pick it up for myself because the person was not protecting their valuables well enough so it is ok for me to take it, or if my grandfather slips and falls down the stairs and breaks his hip, I can go ahead and break more bones in his body because he let himself get old and is asking for bones to break due to his weakness or . .

Ok, I am getting tired of writing more.  I think I've made my point.  . . ..  More and more, I'm starting to be really disappointed by human beings - right now its mainly Nigerians since of recent, I've been looking at a lot of related forums. . . or maybe its the anonymity of being online that is allowing people to say things that they don't really believe, people trying to fit in for some strange reason with someone or something else.

I have been tempt to do that,  But i control myself which i just bone cause  What makes a guy moves is that when you are in private place with a guy,  The way the girl dressed and everywhere is silent, that may tempt the guy to rape and the guy won't be thinking that his raping someone but what he will be after is for him to do the thing. But i don't know the things that use to make someguys Out Of Control, Why they can't Control their self... Is good to be Good..

none of them is to be blamed

On reading this topic i was shocked on some of the replies i read here.
lets put a part two to the question.
The father of the raped girl gose and kills the mother of the rapist.
who is to blame? this has happened before.

Please Rape is rape!!! 99% of rape cases aint reported(Thank GOD) or many naijja boyz will be in jail gba bee!!! anyway sha on a more serious note rape is dehumanizing and should be discouraged in all it's ramifications be it date rape boyfriend rape lecturer rape employer rape, etc. Ladies should be made to realise that you didn't ask for it no matter what you wear self control should be exhibited by all,you're the victim and reporting to the police then your doctor is appropriate.NO MEANS NO!!!
hOT ANGEL I GO LIKE KNOW YOU BETTER, OK?

I read my reply on this thread, and i shook my head at myself.

I kind of want to take that back, after knowing more about some stuffs.

She's been raped, who's to be blamed. Most deffinitely the guy that raped her.

She could be blamed to if she was seducing the man and then decided not to give him some at the end of the tease.

Some guys are just soo bad that once they get hard, and u deny them the 'pussy', they'll practically rape you. Now in that case, the guy is to be blamed a little bit, but the girl in question should be blamed too. I mean u just don't get a nigga hard as shit and then decide to play the "I don't want to do it anymore game". Especially when u know, u are where u can't get out. If u know u can't go on with it, don't start no shit.

I know most blames go on the guys, but some girls are ALSO the cause of their own rape. As in they sometimes are the cause of getting themselves into rape situations. 

A CHICK DOESN'T HAVE 2 BE DRESSED PROVOCATIVELY 4 HER 2 BE RAPED,COS I'VE GOT THIS CHILDHOOD FRIEND OF MINE WHO HAS BEEN SEXUALLY ABUSED(RAPED) BY HER DAD SINCE HER PUBERTY AGE,N I DIDN'T GET 2 KNOW ABOUT IT UNTIL LAST YEAR WHEN I OVERHEARD HER MUM TELLING MY OWN MUM ABOUT IT N THAT SHE DOESN'T WANT 2 REPORT HER HUSBAND 2 THE POLICE COS SHE STILL LOVES HIM DESPITE THE FACT THAT HE RAPED THEIR DAUGHTER FOR 8 GOOD YEARS, WHAT A STUPID N SELFISH WOMAN.  BESIDES WHAT DO You SAY ABOUT PAEDOPHILES THAT RAPE LITTLE KIDS,FOR EXAMPLE A 49YEARS OLD MAN HERE IN LONDON RAPED AN ELEVEN MONTHS OLD BABY WHOM HE WAS SUPPOSED TO BE BABYSITTING FOR 3 GOOD MONTHS N HE EVEN VIDEO RECORDED HIS SICKENING ACT BUT ALL HE GOT WAS JUST TWO AND A HALF YEARS IMPRISONMENT FOR HIS ACTIONS,DO You FINK MY FRIEND OR THE CUTE LITTLE BABY WERE DRESSED IN A NUTTY WAY 4 THEM 2 GO THRU THAT KIND OF SHIT.I MEAN Y RAPE GIRLS WHEN THERE R LOTS OF PROSTITUTES OUT THERE WHO R SPECIALISED IN FUKING A MAN 2 DEATH  FOR VERY LITTLE AMOUNT OF MONEY.CAN You JUST IMAGINE GOING THRU WHAT THESE RAPED VICTIMS HAD GONE THRU WHICH IS A SITUATION WHEREBY You HAVE TO  FORCEFULLY OPEN UR LEGS 4 A STINKY,ROTTEN,DISGUSTING,IRRITATING PIECE OF FLESH MEAT 2 INVADE UR PRIVATES(I'D RATHER DIE).N THE ONLY MESSAGE I'VE GOT 4 SICK RAPISTS OUT THERE IS THAT I HOPE THEIR FUCKING AND DECAYING DICKS ROTS IN PERFECT HELL 4EVER IN JESUS' NAME(AMEN), SILLY TWATS

OH! You MEAN WOMEN RAPE LITTLE BOYS,COS I'VE NEVER HEARD OF AN ABLE-BODIED MAN BEEN RAPED BY A WOMAN WHEN HE'S NOT A SPECIAL NEED OR GANG-RAPED, DON'T You GET IT,D REASON BEHIND ALL THESE RAPES IS BECAUSE GUYS R NATURALLY MACHO, MORE POWERFUL N MORE ARMED AS IN WEAPONS LIKE KNIVES N GUNS THAN LADIES WHICH ENABLES THEM 2 TAKE ADVANTAGE OF HELPLESS PPLE COS I BELIEVE GUYS RAPE GUYS TOO N GIRLS RAPE GIRLS SOMETIMES. THAT'S WHY I WOULD ADVICE LADIES OUTTHERE 2 LEARN LITTLE SELF DEFENCE N ALWAYS HAVE ANTI-RAPE WEAPONS LIKE PEPPERY EYES SPRAY OR PEN-KNIVES 4 PROTECTION (COS I'D RATHER  KILL THAN 2 BE RAPED) N 2 AVOID WALKING ALONE IN THE DARK OR TRUSTING PPLE WHO MIGHT END UP SETTING THEM UP,COS SELF DEFENCE CAN NEVER HELP WHEN IT COMES 2 A GANG-RAPE WHICH IS ONE OF D WORST THINGS THAT COULD EVER HAPPEN 2 A CHIC. BUT COME 2 FINK OF IT,THERE R SOME BITCHES OUTTHERE WHO EITHER LIKES 2 PLAY IT ROUGH OR WANTS 2 MAKE QUICK MONEY BY CLAIMING RICH GUYS I.E FOOTBALLERS RAPED THEM SO AS 2 GET LOTS MONEY 4 COMPENSATION WHEN THEY WERE D ONES THAT SEDUCED THE GUYS, SO ANY CHIC THAT KNOWINGLY SEDUCES N TEMPTS A GUY 2 BED N LATER CLAIMS 2 BE RAPED SHOULD B  CLASSIFIED AS A PROPER LIAR N A B-I-T-C-H,COS SHE GOT WHAT SHE DESERVED,BUT IN MOST RAPED CASES,VICTIMS NEVER ASK 4 IT.

a large part of it has to do with SELF CONTROL.