Sex

what do u do when all the guys you meet are demanding for sex when u are really not ready to have sex?is it adviceable to compromise all in the name of love?[color=#000099][/color][size=8pt][/size]

@ rossybell

No its not adviseable to compromise all in the name of love

If they truly loved you, then they would compromise to not having you yield to sex against your wish. Sex Lovemaking shouldn't be had for the satisfaction of one party, it should be a mutual desire and pleasure. In this case that aim wouldn't be accomplished which makes it wrong.

If they couldn't respect your wishes and think you're worth waiting on, then either they don't really love you, or they aren't the ones made for you. Don't let anyone force or pressure you into it, since its one of those irreversible things which you might end up regretting


At the end of the day, you have a decision to make: either to stand by your doctrines and priciples or give in all in the name of love. But when the right guy comes along, dearie you wouldn't need to choose, he'll either wait patientlty till you feel comfortable, or you'll give in because you feel ready

Until then, the rest should take a hike

Darling, i already told you in black and white.

If you're not ready, and he wouldn't do without or wait till you feel ready, then he should take a hike to the ends of the world.

Not worth it at all, its a tango thing, i mean 2 should do the dance

Mark too, giving in without your solem will, might only result to you hating him down the road when you realise he wasn't worth it, or you start regretting.

If he really is worth it, he'll wait. Beleive me when i say both of you will be more happy at the end of it when done with both people's concrete consent and unshaken doubt

if most people you meet ask you for sex, thats an indication that there is something wrong with 'you', i mean you need to check yoursef, are you revealing your God given issues, just make sure that you appear godly and make them see who you are by way of dressing by not revealing and your friendship with any of them should be caoutioned, its not a crime to be pretty or beautiful but when you make men see what you have then, they would come, note that men are fashioned like that to be easily attracted and sexually aroused by the little things they see, DONT ENCOURAGE OR MOTIVATE THEM TO GO FURTHER