i beg make i ask una something, there's this mentality that seems to be going on that
SEX/LOVE MAKING IS A DEMAND PLACED ON WOMEN BY MEN? almost implying it's the men that get the satisfaction from it.
What a nonsensical and mind shocking mentality . . dearie tell them to wake up ooh before they miss the train
Don't mind them, I do understand that when it comes to these areas and regions that chop off the ladies' sensitive organ, anöther instance could be when you're dealing with ladies that naturally don't enjoy sex, apart form that its a two ways/man's business
Gents, do u feel it is YOUR RIGHT to have sex with your babe WHEN, WHERE & HOW YOU CHOOSE?, does she have a right to ask u too when she wants it (and u don't), will u give it to her - though i doubt if there is a time when most red-hot-blooded males will 'not feel like it'
I'll leave that for our abled guys
Ladies, do u really feel that way?, surely it should be something of mutual CONSENT and GRATIFICATION. and iF u don't want it, u can say NO.
Of course now, why not??
You sure can say "yes" to please him (compromisis) but with the right spirit (spirit of understanding and love) and not becasue he insists or mandates me to . . nah!!
But in a case where you totally don't feel for it, NO wouldn't be such a bad idea, and depending on the level of "oneness" in the relationship, the guy should show some understanding
Some girls tend to deny their guys access when they're mad or if they arent happy with him as a kind of "vandetta", my female couz says thats the last thing she would do. I'm still thinking about that one sha
it ain't --- but the probs is most gals don't ever open up 2 say they want it & that's why it always seems like its the dudes that are pressing 4 it !!!
That's the reason why i won't date a guy I'm not feeling like i can be myself around. Not worth it at all (for me that is). I believe relationships should be all about the person being your heart pal. I mean you guys are supposed to be "one" sort of. Share things, good and bad times, be there for one another and feel free. Be yourslef. Whats the use of being with someone that you feel ashamed to express your feeling for, or restricted to go with the flow, or wondering what he's thinking (that to me would feel like a prison, and i like letting my feelings out, can't do without)
Now if he would be bold to tell you whatever he wants (which i think is fantastic), why shouldn't i be able toown his body likewise??
Some guy on this forum (his name not essential), made a ridiculous statement. The mere fact that his girl was outgoing in bed made him question her sincerity of being a virgin . . how lame??
I know some girls lie about it though,
but being a virgin differs, some are virgins, but yet sexually inclined because of fantacies, knowledge and what they've seen Now that could make them wild in bed even if it were their very first time
What baffles me is that if the girl just lay there like a piece of wood to prove her virginity, that same guy would have taken the next cab to nairaland to whine about how lousy she was in bed
Girls, una don see something tire, and there's more madness to come so hang on in there, "its the survival of the luckiest"
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. These girls are free, sexually outgoing and open and experienced too, so its not like they're the kind that would sell theirselves to play "holy", no, they just don't enjoy sex 
