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tEsLim (m)
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Just want to know! Have you seen any couple with porn movies? Or you do watch 'em with ur man/woman?
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bluenubian (f)
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am not married but we do it, havent seen any negatives yet
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samsilo (m)
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My very good friend at Uni used to watch porn so much any one who wanted such videos in our hostel knew he always had some new ones.
Many years later I visited him to find he still spent hours watching porn and he was about to get married.I asked him what his fiancée felt about his watching porn,he just laughed and said when they met she used to complain but as at then some weeks to their wedding she had started enjoying it and they were watching it together.
There was this joke he liked to play,if some guy who used to criticize porn especially born agains came to our room,he would put on a porn video which starts as a normal movie and we would wait outside leaving the person alone to see how long the person would watch it before piuting it off or come out of the room.
Bros I am sorry to report that most of the people who we tried it on failed that test.
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obo_nyunmi (f)
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why watch other peoples indulgience when u can do your own?
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niceuzor
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Abeg tell them o  |
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samsilo (m)
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Read my earlier post and see how hypocrites like these used to get mocked
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Akinagirl (f)
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why not??? they can do whatever the hell they want, they are married
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spoilt (f)
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pornography can be a very deep trap. some people especially guys become so addicted to porn that their sex lives take a turn for the worse. it has the ability to make some wives feel inadequate. afterall what are the chances that an average wife would get ridiculously humungus fake implants like they have in blue movies and wear red hot heels and a 2 inch mini skirt and have an overmade face and be ready for marathon sex at all times of day?  some of us ordinary women folk may think we can get freaky and can drop it like its hot in the bedroom but those chics in porn flicks do some down right bizarre stuff. but then again arent they paid? who's to say that porn is outrightly bad? but then again there's a thin line between watching it together to spice things up (isn't it always fun at first?) and hussy sneaking out of bed when madam is sleeping to watch illicit porn.  |
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niceuzor
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@Akinagirl
the way i dey see you u go like porn well well o
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O king (m)
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man the way i see it,its all about attitude. porn movies can add a lot of spice to u and ur patner's sex life.it only gets ugly if and when one begins to feel threatened or obsessed by it.but u need to come see my girl friend watching the stuff .and before i thot she was a saint!!as someone said,most people are just prenders |
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McDoe (m)
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My brother, nothing spoil for couples to stay glued to porn movies. They help fire one's immagination and inculcate some hard styles in us. They also make you familiar with the cunts which is usually hidden by babes during the act. For instance, the licking of pussy(ies) by naija guys was influenced by porn movies. I can't do without porn. Even in my office, I do watch at my convenient time.
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Akinagirl (f)
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@Akinagirl
the way i dey see you u go like porn well well o
Not saying i like porn, but they are married, why not? |
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lobinoxebe (m)
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my girl has a lot of porn videos in he room,
advise of of what to do,
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Bolarge (m)
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This might be of help.
Should Married Couples Use Pornography?
It's quite common for couples to ask my opinion on whether or not they are Biblically free to use pornography to help them get ready for sex or to enhance their lovemaking.
I have three thoughts to share concerning this issue:
One The average female porn star retires by the age of 28 and the average male porn star retires by the age of 32. The reason for this is that the porn industry sees the human body as being at its physical peak between the ages of 18 and 28 for females; 21-32 for males. Her breasts are firmer and other areas of both the male and female bodies are without age spots or wrinkles. The person in a pornography video will never grow a day older or lose that "perfection," yet your wife or husband naturally will.
Here's the warning: If you choose to use pornography as a means to sexually arouse yourself, you are forfeiting the ability to become aroused by your spouse. Over time, it will become more and more difficult to be sexually aroused by your lifemate because he or she will age while the porn star forever remains youthful in pictures and videos. Losing the ability to be sexually aroused by your spouse is a very bad thing! Not only are you putting yourself at risk for the temptation of an affair, but you are killing what should be a beautiful experience shared by you and your spouse.
Furthermore, which is really the better body? Is the better body the one whose breasts nursed your children and held you close when you were scared or sad? The body that sleeps by your side at night? The world might see the young porn star's body as being the best, but which is really the best? Why would you want to give up the ability to be aroused by the best?
Two The use of pornography will inevitably destroy the self esteem of your spouse. Porn stars are selected because they are not normal. The females they select are usually far above average in breast size and in the appearance of other features. The males are usually far above average in terms of privates size and in the appearance of other features.
As your spouse is constantly exposed to the "perfection" of the people having sex in the video, he or she usually begins to feel ugly, inadequate and unwanted. In time it becomes painfully obvious to your spouse that a substitute is required to sexually excite you. Can you see how that would destroy self esteem? And trust me, it doesn't get better with time--it only gets worse as each of you experience the normal aging process while at the same time watching porn stars who are permanently young.
Three If you are using another person--even a picture of another person--to sexually excite and arouse yourself, you are commiting adultery according to Jesus. Jesus said, "You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart" (Matthew 5:27-28).
I certainly don't want to judge another person. Nor do I want to involve myself in another's sex life. Each person is obviously free to make independent choices, yet I feel that it is important for you to have all the facts and viewpoints at your access so that you can make an informed decision.
This question has been asked so often by couples around the world that we felt it necessary to provide an answer as a resource for individuals who want to please God in every area of their lives and to act in the best interest of their marriage and spouse.
Written by Lee Wilson
Director of Web Media and Literature
Family Dynamics Institute
© 2005 Lee Wilson. All rights reserved.
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bgees (m)
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i think married couples can watch porn. but not the hardcore ones. those ''making love '' and kamasutra movies would be okay.
u know in porn,esp. the hardcore ones. there is no affection.
but ,remember : different strokes for different folks. some couples may like sex the ''hardcore porn way"
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McDoe (m)
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Brother B, Wise counsel but are u saying at 35, one is no longer beautiful to arouse sexual feeings. Most times, these theories do not match the practical. If you are really sexually hungry, one can poke even a 50 yr. old damsel; even the most ugly. What we are after is, does this sight (porn movie) have any influence on sexual behaviours of couples?
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froggie (m)
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It's weird for couple to watch porn movies , even the single ones around, it disturbs your spiritual relationship with God and that can lead to worse situations , like i work in a cyber cafe, i was stuck into watching em before , but i thank God for pulling me out of it, imagine in my cafe where u hv (Pornography is not allowed), then at night the main man himself will be the one to break the rules , But it's all good now am out the hood now, brethren hear me, this porn thing is a sin against the rules of God. Deprive yourselves from it.  |
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Reverend (m)
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1st Rule for happiness = Keep religion out of the bedroom  God has nothing to do with you having a hot sex session with your lady  If you want to use a little porn to spice up the occasion then go for it, Just don't make it compulsory for your partner, |
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jesuspikin (m)
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i have read through all the responce concerning this very important topic and i have come to the conclusion that you all omitted one very important effect of pornography .should married couple watch porn, i say capital no,surprised,pornography in marriage can lead to promiscuity by any of the couplelet me share a personal expirience.i started watching porn magazine from a friend at the tender age of 12yrs while in secondary school and later i graduated to the movies in the university which made me to see every lady as a sex toy and i had them in their thousands because i am handsome and i had cash and a 9" privates to spice it up.after i left the uni i got a good job with one of the gas coy and the girls kept rolling in.i even patronised prostitutes late night when there was no girl handy after watching porn ,i had no heart for love or doesn't know what love meant until i met my wife .before we got married and she being very religous invited me to her church and i became a bornagain ,we got marreid and i vowed not to cheat on her or sin against God, but that was shortlived because porn and sex had a strong hold on me .soon i secretly started watching porn in my office,since i love my wife so much and wouldn"t want her to have conflict with another lady i resorted to my ,, old , to be continued
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