The Professional Virgin

if sex with you is worth the wait till marriage.
What miracles do you perform in bed that make you worth the wait?


Many girls won't openly admit to liking sex for fear of castigation. 
They enjoy feeling morally superior to the desp. guys that chase after 'em.
"oh sex, it doesn't cross my mind, that's just something guys do--unlike us holy women."

The worse aspect of it is that most of them in this cartegory gets disvirgin cheap or from guys they do not like.

BUt i do not advise sex before marriage but if some should see a guy that is serious with you and demand for sex while not give him the chase because body no b wood.

Some guys too are hit and go after disvirgin a girl that is the end of the whole thing but i always advise ladies to go into relationship with guys like at least 2 years to marriage or guys that are probably higher than them in terms of educational qualification so that by the time they will plan to get married the guy must have settle than before the lady graduates from school.

On the final note let have sex with the lady we plan to get marry to and lady too should try and stick to one man. Its a personal decision of a thing

You are right.

 :-*I feel there are different types of virgins. Most of them around are just lucky to have that status because the opportunity never come.
SALUTE to those who have decided to be one not for the fear of being dumped after loosing it but for what is right morally.

Fekuti, 

Well you haven't met me then. I believe sex should be kept until after marriage because one of two things, 

1 - Until I have found a loopol in the Bible that says it's okay to do it when you feel like it, I'll keep to that.

2 - I don't want to have multiple partners and see I am single yet I have had 3 ex boyfriends, that means that if I had had sex with them I would have had 3 different sexual partners. I would never tell a guy that I would never have sex with him unless he married me because first of all I know that sex is a very natural thing and who knows one night of hormones and a committed and trustworthy boyfriend/fiance can cause you to throw caution to the wind (all you need is one night!)

I never knew guys saw women who didn't want to have sex before marriage as bartering sex for a 'f-ucking wedding ring'. I always thought there could be mockery in these women, since the 'real world' operates on sex. I never knew, I thought most people agreed to disagree and would move on. If any woman wants to force a man to marry her by using sex, then that is messed up, because your husband would not be respecting the whole point of marriage. It doesn't say 'til the sex gets lame do us apart'.

I told my ex no sex before marriage because I was very confused what I honestly believed (there's what the Bible says and what my mind is telling me logically), but because all my life I had believed that it was 'a terrible thing' I wanted to protect myself until I was sure. I wanted the guy to know he better not be in the relationship for sex (but you know some still stay to get sex despite your honesty and being upfront about it). I also didn't want him to think that I was being a tease OR that I wasn't attracted to him OR that I was contradicting what the whole relationship was about. Sex is so casual these days that even me being a christian and him being a christian, I still had to tell him,  'ya know I'm one of those christians who actually tries to abide by what the Bible says about sex'

Don't hate, deliberate!

One hymen has been known to equal one bora car .  Or so one virgin bragged to us some months ago.
i don't blame the original poster.

@ casper

d fact that u re a christian, is it ur choice or by viture of circumstances of birth?

if so, then u cud ave been a moslem or pagan as the case may be. if u hide behind christianity to make ur point, then obiously, uve not been liberated socially because religion is just spiritual dimensions subjected to ur own personal observances in other words ''sentiments''

mind u that some things christians refer to as eternal condemnation can as well be salvation for other religion.

liberate ur self!!!!!!!

personally, i don't do things because dey re right neither do i do the wrong things rather i do my things based on absolute necessity,
 
let me guess, why u stick to christian values is simply because u want to make heaven right!?
i also guess that y u want to make heaven is because christianity preaches eternal happiness for ur soul right?
if all these be so, then;

d bottom line is UR HAPPINESS
then i ask?
do u think that if i should consider eternal happiness, that i will not consider EARTHLY hapiness as well?

of wot joy will it bring me that on my honeymoon  i realise my spouse is circumsized?
don't u know it will paint a caligraphy of agony in my marriage the rest of my life?

i still ask ,wot if i find out after marriage that the born again girlfriend of mine had a past that marred her chances of conception simply because she has confessed to d almighty and her sins forgiven capping it with old things have passed away,
then i remain fatherless because i want to be sanctimonious in the line of someone else's misdemeanor,where lies the happiness?

and for the ladies; i still ask;
of wot joy does it bring to you that on ur honeymoon u realise that ur ''for worse'' is a 2 inch prick not only does it threaten ur sexual satisfaction as ordained by God in marriage but also reduces ur chances of conception by 20%, does it still smell anythin like happiness or sorrow?

so can my pastor justify my sacrificing my earthly happiness for eternal happiness?

tell me how re u going to conquer these facts if ur sanctimoniosity wont even let u take a look let alone experience.

my dear, if ur facts greately depends on the what the bible says, i will advice u tried the koran or perhaps  the budhist stick u never can tell, u might learn something.

so pis off with your sentiments and embrace ''REALITY''

  clouded delusions? ok o

I believe sex is meant for the wedding night, don't see the point in losing it before

Virginity sef don become career.

Mody, oya transfer this thread

LOL just because you choose to wait until marriage to have sex, doesn't mean you are ignorant. If the guy being circumcized or not bothered me that much I wouldn't just hope he was/wasn't, I'd ask, because you're not engaging in sex doesn't mean you must stay away from all things sexual. I personally will choose to ask questions and explore my 'future husband' in other ways so that I know what I'm in for, I'll ask how many partners beforehand, and you can always tell if someone's going to be terrible in bed, there are very few people who are terrible in bed, and in most cases it can be corrected with just time and practice. It's not as black and white as people are making it out to seem.