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cornel318 (m)
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Am so confused, my girl is a Graduate and a Virgin at 24. She does not and cannot compromise the virginity for anything in this world until she goes to the altar.
On my part i want her and need her 4 a wife, but not yet ready to head to the altar due to logistics reasons.
Am afraid she would leave me, but she confesses that she loves me, and i don't want to mount pressure on her for sex.
I need a candid & serious minded advice please.!!!
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omega25red (m)
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why can't you just wait untill marriage?
Besides are you scared that she might be playing you? if so you should cut your losses
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spoilt (f)
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what is it with men and sex? if she wants to wait then you should support her decision. if she had given in to all the guys before you who pressured her do you think she'll be the woman she is for you today? cool down and change your perspectives on sex. a little waiting might be what you need to become a better person. self control has always been a good thing.  |
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BabyCakes (f)
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the mere fact that she is a virgin and she is not willing to compromise, is a clear cut message to you mister man, stop thinking with your privates and start using your brain! Why are you so desperate to have sex with her??? can't you wait? she has strong values and you are trying to take something of value from her!! If you are not willing to wait, then find your way, but if you really love this girl and will marry her in the near future, wait it out!  |
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