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Lotuken (m)
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My cousin is pregnant for me.what do i do?Should i terminate or keep the pregnancy?Plz advice me.
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yemstrad (m)
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Bad thing!!! Why this call for advice now, when you could have asked for advice before having sex with her. Are you saying you didn't know she is your cousin? I won't be among those that will advice you to abort pregnancy 'because it is a sin.
Leave her to give birth to the child, afterall; you are not the first of such kind.
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Lotuken (m)
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I think i can't allow her to keep the baby.She just came back from the state a couple of months ago n She's pregnant for me.we started the relationship in usa
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Lotuken (m)
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I think i can't allow her to keep the baby.She just came back from the state a couple of months ago n She's pregnant for me.we started the relationship in usa
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yemstrad (m)
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What the hell with you posting a message twice?
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Lotuken (m)
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Hey.I think it's a navigation key problem.
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layi (m)
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@Lotuken [How can u have an affair with your cousin in the first place? Thats not enough, you even had sex with her several times. As if thats not enough, you went bout it unprotected? I no fit blame the girl, u fit don give am sumtin chop. Haba! It wasnt even a moment of madness. A relationship? Anyway I'll advise u keep it. Or abort it when its 9 months  Thats the safest way to go. Face your responsibilties.
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Lotuken (m)
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Layi wait a min.We were both trapped in this.it all started in the united state.Beside...its just that nigeria do not practice what indian are practising
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layi (m)
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R u indians? If thats ur excuse, then why seek to abort? Fly to India and both of u will live happily ever fter.
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Lotuken (m)
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Layi i'm a nigerian.May i know u?
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yemstrad (m)
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You don't need to know him. He is telling you the truth. face ur responsibilities and if possible take ur wife back to USA or India where such abomination is allowed.
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Lotuken (m)
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Hey hey yemstrad! She ain't my wife.Nobody is above mistake.So u people should know how to judge a man in distress
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prettyH (f)
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Hey hey yemstrad! She ain't my wife.Nobody is above mistake.So u people should know how to judge a man in distress
So what if she isn't your wife. Didn't u know that b/4 sleeping with her. U 'r such a coward..Imagine the excuses u are giving.  Right now , Lotuken u ain't a man in distress, if u were, u won't even be talking the way u are. As far as am concerned if not because your so called cousin got pregnant, u both were enjoying yourselves. Therefore it's now time to face the consequences of your actions. So brace it like a man. 
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icingbaby (f)
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what part of the world are you from boy,  well i don't have much advice to give to you but if you love your cousin you will let her have the baby and be a responsible father to that baby, good luck in making the right decision.
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Ashbaby (f)
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What were you thinking? Moment of confusion? Relationship? With your cousin? From USA? She's pregnant? Both trapped in that?  All the wrong words!  You're beyond help!
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yemstrad (m)
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Poor you. When your pot was cooking the yam, you did not anyone of us know about it; now that the pestle is pounding that your yam, the noise is everywhere.
Your squirel was eating banana and shaking its tail in ectasy forgeting that sweet things at times do kill or turn sour.
My man, no be my JT u take dress ur cousin pussy. So no be my brain go think how u go take solve the problem. I don't even see it as a problem, na the thing wey u sabi to eat well well, na I'm kill u so.
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Z4M4eva (f)
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All I can say is goodluck Lotuken...
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yemstrad (m)
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Thank u my sister. The guy don take style marry, he never know.
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nana (f)
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U guys shouldn't abuse the guy,instead,advice Him. Anyways,Lotuken,goodluck in ya decision.
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Ashbaby (f)
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U guys shouldn't abuse the guy,instead,advice Him. Anyways,Lotuken,goodluck in ya decision.
That's quite the advice from you! 
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nana (f)
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Yup!.The deed has been done and the guy is looking for a way out by seeking for advice.
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hausa chic (f)
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@lotuken... What does your cousin want to do? does she want to keep the baby? if she does, then you should support her. you are an adult and you should know that sex without protection is bound to create unplanned babies! surely your biology teacher didn't miss that bit out. don't run away from it, discuss it with her and reach a decision beneficial to you both, easier said than done, i know. but you can't cry over spilt milk!
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gracious (f)
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i;m really sorry lotuken for your situation (if at all it is real) but so far, so bad. It is like you brought your problem to the wrong place because nobody has given you any advice. Why not meet your pastor, or a counsellor?. 
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yemstrad (m)
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See, do not be fooled. There is no special advice than for you to accept the fact that you are now a married man and that your cousin is your new wife.
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Ashbaby (f)
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See, do not be fooled. There is no special advice than for you to accept the fact that you are now a married man and that your cousin is your new wife.
Yeah. According to the law here, even first cousins can marry each other.
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I.B. (f)
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I classify it as INCEST. Incest is not just b/t dad and daughter or mom and son but cousins too!.... "sex between close relatives..... sexual activity between two people who are considered, for moral and genetic reasons, too closely related to have such a relationship."
I.B.
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Jakumo (m)
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I'll second IB's opinion that Lotuken has commited INCEST, and that there is in fact a high probability that the baby of such a union may carry physical or mental deformities at birth as a result of inbreeding. Hell, even livestock breeders know not to allow mating between individual animals from the same blood-line, so as not to ruin the herd with runts and retards. The fact that the crime took place in the US does not impress anyone here. Lotuken might as well proudly announce that he was a child molester while resident in some inner-city US ghetto, and then look around for the standing ovation.
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hot-angel (f)
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This nigga is LYING!
I'm not gon say nuttin to this topic, because i don't believe it.
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