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Seun (m)
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I'm a 25.8 year old nerd who doesn't belong in his current habitat, but lacks the confidence to find a new one.  |
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ikamefa (f)
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awwwwwwww what you chucking about oh! "  " |
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Seun (m)
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I want to see how people will respond o.
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omogenaija (f)
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i'm the second person to respond , try going to a place where everyone lacks confidence
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mrpataki (m)
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Everyone needs a place to belong to. Just that most peeps loose their identity in trying to find it  |
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omogenaija (f)
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@ mrpataki i love what u've said  |
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mukina2 (f)
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search inside ur heart well , and think of where you might feel comfortable .somewhere lively or boring  |
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haywhy (m)
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I belong to Muuki's room!  |
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akinwunmi (m)
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@Seun
Manchester United av a big problem oooo.CONFIDENCE abaa na d thingy be that if u dnt av that, u berra find itthen wht ever we all say is countless because u aint got d confido 2 do it.Wht u feel is a phase of everymans life, d only diff. is how u handle it.Where u r ryt now is d grace of God so enjoy it why it last because Sorrow may last for a long time but surely JOY come's in d morning and morning is not wht has an AM next to it but its when u are able to handle ur situation n get out of it U GET D DRIFT?
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Rlst84sale (m)
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Seun,
Don't let anything discourage you, you will be surprised that even most businesses here in the western countries are not doing much better than you are doing. As a matter of fact you are doing very well. Just a little push in marketting you'll be surprised how high you'll soar with this company you have built.
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omoge25 (f)
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Seun, you are too young to be having a midlife crisis. Maybe you are stuck in rut a change of scenary is always good. you say you don't feel like you belong in you current habitat, and you have cold feet in finding a new one. Well its never easy to leave the known, that is where our comfort zone is. My advice, think about it some more, pray deeply about it, and make sure you have enough saved up. (i.e moving expense, mantaince. etc).
Also maybe a good road trip will do you good, I know naija doesnt have the best roads, so in our case travel 2weeks of pure exporation and see what you come up with.
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GNature (m)
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@Seun You need to find people you have things in common with and roll with them, share ideas etc. Also, this may come as a surprise, but a right girlfriend sometimes helps in balancing things out. I belong to Muuki's room! Oga haywhy, I didn't know you have a thing for miss Muki o. lol |
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kaecy5 (m)
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stay right where u are don't go nowhere u r doing good with ur present situation already enjoy |
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marlet01 (m)
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@ Reverend Father Haywhy Be careful what you say about Mukina   |
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niceuzor
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You have all spoken well @Seun This is what u want right,, but i think u belong to this habitat
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U1 (m)
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Oga I beg siddon for Nairaland.because that's where you belong. |
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mukina2 (f)
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@ haywhy @ Gnature nor mind am @marlet @seun found the place yet? |
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Seun (m)
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I need a nurturing habitat where I can be rewarded for being myself.
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haywhy (m)
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Everybody wants the same! Your natural habitat is earth! Making it rewarding for being yourself is up to you! |
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