Choose between the partner and the sex . .
You can't eat your cake and have it, and the bible did say "that if your hand should lead you to sin, you should cut it off", in this case its your lady or your guy'
The only way you can have in bag and sack, is getting married (but please before you run off saying cute-assĀ said, I personally do not think "sex" is enough reason to get married, there are 1001 other things that should be in their right places)
At the end of the day its your call, choose whether to pick it or not

Good luck in making a right decision anyway
