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BabyCakes (f)
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oh my goodness! I know kids run around and can get take off any minute, but that is one fucking stupid mother! I have a child, and in that environment, I will super glue him to my hand! I feel sorry for the break dancer, especially if the child was injured! it wasnt his fault  |
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cute-ass (f)
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The mum isn't all to blame. No mum will deliberately want the kid to be injured in the middle of a dancing squad Kids can be very unpredictable, maybe the mum was holding him, but for that one slightest moment when her grip loosened, he snapped out and ran into the centre . . thats kids for you, acting without thinking (as little as they are, the quest. is - - - can they think?? NO) I don't think its reason enough to call the mum stupid and all what not, seiously, in everyday life,a mother drops her kid from her arms mistakenly, but that doesn't make her a lousy mother. It takes a whole lot more  |
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sussy1 (f)
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I partially agreed with u cute-ass,kids could be stubborn most time,but don't u think it is the duty of the mother to care for her kids at all times?God save that boy,if a mother know the kind of kids she has,she should for no reason leave him/her for any reason in such environment.It just a warming that all parent can learn from.
Thank you Tornadoz
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2dye4 (m)
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@cute-ass & sussy 1:
yeah, don't let us crucify the mother too much, but like u guys said, kids do the darnest things atimes, you can't blame it on their age, iq or attention span. thats why they are kids. But knowing this about kids, the mother ought to be a little bit more careful, i for one would av my kid clutched to me like a briefcase or probably would have carried him in that kind of environment. That clip was quite graphic, hope the cutie wasnt badly hurt though, stuff happens!
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sisimose (f)
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come on. anyone can see the kid just ran off excitedly to the dance floor, away from her mum. kids do that all the time, always wanting to dash off when they get excited, she probably wanted to break dance too  bless her. No it is no reason to call her mum a bad mum, you don't know her. |
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cute-ass (f)
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@ 2dye4 The truth still remains that no matter how loving and caring a mum is, there are things she can't prevent. Thats just life Thats why we put kids in the hands of God for protection. |
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BabyCakes (f)
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seiously, in everyday life,a mother drops her kid from her arms mistakenly, but that doesn't make her a lousy mother. It takes a whole lot more  y ou obviously don't have kids cuteass, because u don't seem to see dropping a kid as a big deal?? in that environment, it was the mother's duty to protect the child! i'm sure when you first watched that video, you gasped! the child cannot reason like an adult and thats what a parent is there for. We know kids can be a handful, but when u know d type of kid u have, you will be more careful. i think 2dye4 is d only one who spoke wisely and cuteass, if u ever drop your kid, rush straight to d emergency room and have a good story ready for social services |
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cute-ass (f)
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ou obviously don't have kids cuteass, because u don't seem to see dropping a kid as a big deal?? in that environment, it was the mother's duty to protect the child! i'm sure when you first watched that video, you gasped! the child cannot reason like an adult and thats what a parent is there for. We know kids can be a handful, but when u know d type of kid u have, you will be more careful. i think 2dye4 is d only one who spoke wisely and cuteass, if u ever drop your kid, rush straight to d emergency room and have a good story ready for social services
Thanks for the lecture ma'am, I'll remember that in future But one thing though, I never knew mothers' middle name was now God/perfect  @cute-ass & sussy 1:
yeah, don't let us crucify the mother too much, but like u guys said, kids do the darnest things atimes, you can't blame it on their age, iq or attention span,thats why they are kids. But knowing this about kids, the mother ought to be a little bit more careful, i for one would av my kid clutched to me like a briefcase or probably would have carried him in that kind of environment. That clip was quite graphic, hope the cutie wasnt badly hurt though, stuff happens!
I wasn't blaming their age nor iq, point of correction. And i do agree to the fact of "being careful", but no mum is all-knowing, I'm sure if she had the slightest idea that the kid would do what he did, she would have glued him to herself but there are times when your mind doesn't go that far, that's why she's human Even at home, no matter how careful a mum is, the kid still gets hurt, There are situations we just can't help nor predict, and yea shit happens!! I still stand though, it takes more than that to call her a "bad mother", it does. |
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tollu (f)
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I totally agree with cute ass, sum kids could be hyperactive and it takes a super human mum to keep up with them. But that kid must be havn the greatest pains at the moment. ouch! here's an example of a crazy mum and the question shld be directed at her: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UHxjbWEDWWk |
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Tornadoz (m)
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Didn't the mother know the kind of hyperactive child she had?
Imagine if the kid was crippled or was blinded by that kick.
What explanation would the mum had given him if he had lost his sight? Would she had said she
was busy discussing the latest hip-hop moves when the accident occurred?
Only a babysitter behaves like she did.
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BabyCakes (f)
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@cuteass, i didnt call her a bad mother or say anyone has to be perfect! I just said she was fucking stupid! and so is the mother in the roller coaster clip, with her fat obokun child! Since you are female, i wont crucify you further, if you were a man, i would have gone on and on! I will just let u wait till the day you go through13 hours of labor pain (which is the average time) and give birth to your own child. Then you will see how fragile and dependable children are and why its your duty to protect them,and realise how annoying that video clip is. I have said my peace! |
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fekuti
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it's just an accident, however the mom should be scolded for such. bad mommy bad.
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cute-ass (f)
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@ BabycakesYou don't have to go ballistic, i wasn't out to get you mad ooh, i was just saying what i felt. Maybe you're right about my having a kid nd finding out, maybe not, time will tell sha. So i gather you have kids, how are they?? They're lucky to have a devoted mother like yourself, keep it up  Guess life is meant to be that way, in times like this, some to criticize, so the person doesnt repeat the act and wake up, and some to feel for the victim, so they don't die of guilt. @ TornadozYea, i pray to God too that nothing happens to that little heart-breaker cutey, but if something should happen, it would be one of those things she would never be able to forgive herself for. I can only give her half of the blame, and like Babycakes said, after the long-labour, I'm sure thats the last thing she wished for. I'D rather call her . . a little bit stupid, carefree and careless but bad, or lousy?? not sure
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teddyface (m)
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@ 2dye4 The truth still remains that no matter how loving and caring a mum is, there are things she can't prevent. Thats just life Thats why we put kids in the hands of God for protection. true talk |
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Rottweiler (m)
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Please note that not all ladies/women should be called MOTHERS!
A mother takes care of her child(ren) all the time.
A mother anticipates danger.
Some can not even take care of themselves, talk more of a chicken. There are precautionary actions to be taken whenever we have kids around. Nobody should give me that bullsh*t that NO MOTHER WOULD WANT HER CHILD KILL. Do not expose your kids/wards to danger. Safety should be the watchword!
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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stuff happens, might not be her fault. |
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