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solidicon (m)
My Girlfriend Says "we Need A Break" Is It Risky?
« on: May 27, 2007, 07:02 PM »

People, my girlfriend called me and said "we need a break". Don't you guys think she wants a stop. Please I need advice from you guys.
Thanks.
runsaway
Re: My Girlfriend Says "we Need A Break" Is It Risky?
« #1 on: May 27, 2007, 09:52 PM »

yes she wants to break it off. maybe she is afraid to tell u or she doesn't want to hurt your feelings, but sooner or later its going to come to 'the breakup'
obo_nyunmi (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Says "we Need A Break" Is It Risky?
« #2 on: May 27, 2007, 09:56 PM »

text u? waste their credit? why will they text u when they can leave u a message in here?

i think if i am u, i will take that time to run my escapades until my boyfriend says otherwise.
puker (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Says "we Need A Break" Is It Risky?
« #3 on: May 28, 2007, 05:52 PM »

Kill ya self, no problem.
iice (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Says "we Need A Break" Is It Risky?
« #4 on: June 02, 2007, 08:00 PM »

incomplete info! It could mean a clean break, it could mean a temporary break, it could be a cry for help (as in dude things aren't going well, do you think we can work it out or else we walk our separate ways?)
holythug (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Says "we Need A Break" Is It Risky?
« #5 on: February 25, 2008, 06:32 PM »

"that is 1/4 to its over"
NaJa HaJe (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Says "we Need A Break" Is It Risky?
« #6 on: February 26, 2008, 02:04 AM »

from Ross and Rachel in Friends. . . . . . .  its licence to temporarily sow ya wild oats  Grin

Before you say yes ask her why she wants a break. . . . is it something that can be resolved with a 'break'

Quote from: holythug on February 25, 2008, 06:32 PM
"that is 1/4 to its over"

fantastic. . . . . Grin Grin Grin
TOYOSI20 (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Says "we Need A Break" Is It Risky?
« #7 on: February 26, 2008, 02:06 AM »

"A Break", is a fancy word for,,  . . . . . . .  . . . .  GOOD-BYE Undecided
NaJa HaJe (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Says "we Need A Break" Is It Risky?
« #8 on: February 26, 2008, 02:07 AM »

on second Thoughts . . . . . .  this was all the way in may 2007. I wonder what happened
Easybaby (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Says "we Need A Break" Is It Risky?
« #9 on: February 26, 2008, 08:22 AM »

Quote
Don't you guys think she wants a stop

I don't think so . . .give her a break please Cheesy
holythug (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Says "we Need A Break" Is It Risky?
« #10 on: February 26, 2008, 01:49 PM »

so if u av a fragile heart, sorry its about to break
Ujujoan (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Says "we Need A Break" Is It Risky?
« #11 on: February 26, 2008, 03:20 PM »

I don't think its that risky,  maybe she just wants some time alone. Maybe u r choking her, give her space so that she  can realiase what she really wants. They say if u love a bird, let it fly, if it loves u, u'll come back to it.

I needed a little space from mr ex he tot i wanted to this him and held on for soo long, I just lost it. The way I see it, if I had gotten the space I needed, I'd have had the time to really make up my mind on what I actually wanted.

To tell u the truth, when a girl says that, its either she's found someone else, or u r choking her. So poster, give her the space she wants, if she's found someone els, then u r better off without her, if not,  the she REALLY does need the space to clear her head. She's not leaving u.
deola1 (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Says "we Need A Break" Is It Risky?
« #12 on: February 26, 2008, 05:15 PM »

oh my guy just wait till she's ready, maybe in 20 years time  Grin
Encomium (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Says "we Need A Break" Is It Risky?
« #13 on: February 26, 2008, 05:33 PM »

Bros, its a pity that you can't read the handwriting on the wall. It simply means that she has gotten another man and it is all over between you and her.
slavia (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Says "we Need A Break" Is It Risky?
« #14 on: February 26, 2008, 05:46 PM »

please listen not to all this Nairalanders (especially ujujoan)
what in the world does she mean, how can she say something that sensitive on the phone (its not even call self na text)
or is it that she has been watching too many american films and wants to try something new?
abeg bro, if u really want to be a gentleman arrange a meeting and speak to her face to face, find out the problem.
i strong believe she has found somebody else either richer, finer/sexier or better in bed, TRUST ME!!
Rebellious (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Says "we Need A Break" Is It Risky?
« #15 on: February 26, 2008, 06:03 PM »

Quote from: solidicon on May 27, 2007, 07:02 PM
People, my girlfriend [u]called[/ub] me and said "we need a break". Don't you guys think she wants a stop. Please I need advice from you guys.
Thanks.


Quote from: slavia on February 26, 2008, 05:46 PM
please listen not to all this Nairalanders (especially ujujoan)
what in the world does she mean, how can she say something that sensitive on the phone (its not even call self na text)
or is it that she has been watching too many american films and wants to try something new?
abeg bro, if u really want to be a gentleman arrange a meeting and speak to her face to face, find out the problem.
i strong believe she has found somebody else either richer, finer/sexier or better in bed, TRUST ME!!

Where do y'all get your stories from? She's called him and said she wanted a break.

@poster, She probably just wants you to get off her back for a while. I still have reason to doubt she cheating on you. But then, it depends her tone when she said it.
tommyex (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Says "we Need A Break" Is It Risky?
« #16 on: February 26, 2008, 06:09 PM »

old thread
Busta (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Says "we Need A Break" Is It Risky?
« #17 on: February 26, 2008, 06:12 PM »

Quote from: tommyex on February 26, 2008, 06:09 PM
old thread

some jobless fellow keeps digging em out.
tommyex (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Says "we Need A Break" Is It Risky?
« #18 on: February 26, 2008, 06:20 PM »

lol

how u doing?been quiet some time.
I am trying,kind of happy with life Cheesy
adeboo (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Says "we Need A Break" Is It Risky?
« #19 on: February 26, 2008, 06:20 PM »

Oga o.
All i can say is that thats what happened when Ross and Rachel from 'Friends' 'were taking a break'. There was too much stress around it - if she aint saying she is breaking up. Then u need to know what exactly she wants.

For ur sake and hers - cause u need to know about boundaries etc - like what u could do when u are on the break, if u are still able to see other people etc.
choco4life (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Says "we Need A Break" Is It Risky?
« #20 on: February 26, 2008, 06:21 PM »

@ post
Just a sign, i bet u she wants to call it off because the break cud be forever.
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