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Jesqueen (f)
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@Ogamadam
"Girl if You's really chinese, your future is bright - infact its orange"
why do u say that?
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OgaMadam (f)
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First things first. This is a pidgin website so that him no go yap you small small abi? http://www.ngex.com/personalities/babawilly/dictionary/pidginb.htmehenh. My daughter when i said "your future is bright and its even orange" i was worried. You know in naija custom when a woman thinx she is going to receive bad news, she has to tie a cloth around her chest. So if people tell her "mama, we have news for you" she will ask "O, should i tie a cloth around my chest"? Jesqueen, tie a cloth around your chest. are you ready? Nne, have you met his family. And also, if its truely yours, you don't have to fight for it. relax and live your life your own way. and when a relationship is for you, you don't have to put too much effort. i would say cool off him a little enh? and do your thing, if he is your man, you wont need to be worried about anything abi? |
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Jesqueen (f)
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First things first. This is a pidgin website so that him no go yap you small small abi? http://www.ngex.com/personalities/babawilly/dictionary/pidginb.htmehenh. My daughter when i said "your future is bright and its even orange" i was worried. You know in naija custom when a woman thinx she is going to receive bad news, she has to tie a cloth around her chest. So if people tell her "mama, we have news for you" she will ask "O, should i tie a cloth around my chest"? Jesqueen, tie a cloth around your chest. are you ready? Nne, have you met his family. And also, if its truely yours, you don't have to fight for it. relax and live your life your own way. and when a relationship is for you, you don't have to put too much effort. i would say cool off him a little enh? and do your thing, if he is your man, you wont need to be worried about anything abi? people say that if i love someone,i should not doubt at him,because love is everythin what do u think of it? |
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OgaMadam (f)
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Love is not everything.
You are better off in a secure relationship, where you are both balanced, and then from there love can grow.
But when you start off too lovey dovey, i think it makes you blind in areas that are VERY important.
use your head. think.
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Jesqueen (f)
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@OgaMadam
Sometimes i just suspect him about sth,how am i suppose to find out the truth?
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OgaMadam (f)
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Is it about cheating on you?
If thats the case i am 99percent sure that he could actually be cheating on you. Ok maybe 98.99%.
Nigerian guys take long to settle down, and before they do, everybody else is just for "experience". They usually have that one person who has stolen their heart or is their strongest love. And at the end of the day when they have been about they go to that person. But to find out abuot that person is next to impossible.
You have to make sure a lot is ok before you can trust him.
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salsera (f)
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@ogamadam best advice this girl has gotten thus far Jesqueen I say the same , don't get your hopes up Cool off him a bit If he keeps avoiding topics that you want to pursue and worse off you don't know his family he is giving you boundaries he doesn't want you to cross. U be fine chic!! don't take peanuts u know be monkey( i hope u've updated ur pidgin english) you have a LIFE with or without him  |
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Jesqueen (f)
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@salsera
Yea i understand your words.thax 4ur advice
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Cyclone5 (m)
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Please beware of haridans bearing 'good' advice.
Just talk to your guy, if he has done anything that has made you uncomfortable. Its natural to be suspicious but that doesnt mean anything is going on. Just be upfront and keep the communication channels open.
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OgaMadam (f)
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salsera, word.
cyclone not all men are transparent, hence we have the right to follow our suspicions.
jesqueen you said
but how am i supposed to know whether the family accept me or not?i don't even have the chance to get close to them
girl this is serious.
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BlkDiamond (f)
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i think he is going to dump u for telling u not to push him, hes only using u to while away time I'm sry gurl but dump him before he dumps u.1
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Jesqueen (f)
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Ah ah,thatz not funny! ! for what u said that? |
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VIC4U
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just watch ur steps and use ur brain.
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deor03 (m)
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@ Jesqueen werin dey. why you kon dey play play odede wey dey here say you be chinco. i fit trace ur IP address to make you sabi say i sabi the lungu wey you dey write from anyway sha i hail you because you don create thread of about 4 pages of reply. take am easy oh later,  |
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Jesqueen (f)
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@ Jesqueen werin dey. why you kon dey play play odede wey dey here say you be chinco. i fit trace your IP address to make you sabi say i sabi the lungu wey you dey write from anyway sha i hail you because you don create thread of about 4 pages of reply. take am easy oh later, if i understand it right,do u mean that u don't think that I'm a chinese according to my IP address? i don't know whether u wrote it in this way on purpose or what. |
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ccaramel (f)
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you really don't sound chinese??
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ccaramel (f)
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you really don't sound chinese. .
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Jesqueen (f)
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@ ccaramel
hey girl,is that ur pic in ur profile?i mean,u r HOT lol
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ccaramel (f)
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checked you out on myspace,
Nice profile, I think you are so into this Nigerian guy. lol
You have Nigerian songs on you music player, cute
I hope the relationship works out because you guys look tite together,
Anyway what part of Canada are you coming to? I'm in toronto
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Jesqueen (f)
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@ccaramel THAX lol I'm going to Toronto oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, ~~~~~  |
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edatika (m)
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i've enjoyed the thread so far,
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Jesqueen (f)
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i've enjoyed the thread so far,
All i have to do now is to wait n see n do my own thing,cool off him a little bit |
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