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ijeoma obi
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hi,igbo guys are quite hard to predict.am an igbo girl,i never went out with one. he might want to marry u to show off (they love that).am sure for him to stick with u,this long,he is serious.igbos are naturally rude by nature.so being submissive is out of the question.(the girls i mean) so start planning ur move to canada.next time look for a yoruba guy ,they are the best of the nigerians.if the guy wants u ,he should come looking for u. HOW DID U GET THIS WEBSITE?I don't BELIEVE U ARE WHITE. GOODLUCK SHA    |
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Jesqueen (f)
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hi,igbo guys are quite hard to predict.am an igbo girl,i never went out with one. he might want to marry u to show off (they love that).am sure for him to stick with u,this long,he is serious.igbos are naturally rude by nature.so being submissive is out of the question.(the girls i mean) so start planning your move to canada.next time look for a yoruba guy ,they are the best of the nigerians.if the guy wants u ,he should come looking for u. HOW DID U GET THIS WEBSITE?I don't BELIEVE U ARE WHITE. GOODLUCK SHA hey thax sis~ I'm not white,but yellow haha,u can check out my page: http://www.myspace.com/jesqueen |
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romeo (m)
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hi,igbo guys are quite hard to predict.am an igbo girl,i never went out with one. he might want to marry u to show off (they love that).am sure for him to stick with u,this long,he is serious.igbos are naturally rude by nature.so being submissive is out of the question.(the girls i mean) so start planning your move to canada.next time look for a yoruba guy ,they are the best of the nigerians.if the guy wants u ,he should come looking for u. HOW DID U GET THIS WEBSITE?I don't BELIEVE U ARE WHITE. GOODLUCK SHA nnukwu ewu, onukwu!!! igbo girl my ass |
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ijogbon (m)
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nnukwu ewu, onukwu!!! igbo girl my ass
@Romeo What can I say? You make my point (and ijeoma's) quite succinctly. hi,igbo guys are quite hard to predict.am an igbo girl,i never went out with one. he might want to marry u to show off (they love that).am sure for him to stick with u,this long,he is serious.igbos are naturally rude by nature.so being submissive is out of the question.(the girls i mean) so start planning your move to canada. next time look for a yoruba guy ,they are the best of the nigerians.if the guy wants u ,he should come looking for u. HOW DID U GET THIS WEBSITE?I don't BELIEVE U ARE WHITE. GOODLUCK SHA @ijeoma_obi I am flattered, being a yoruba boy who has had to compete for (and WIN) the love of many Igbo girls with Igbo men.  It's all about subtlety and many Igbo men don't have the patience to learn that. lol Now thats the last time I am going to allow myself drift into the murky waters of tribal profiling iizhssh it had a good feeling too eww  @jesqueen I sincerely apologise for not taking a lady's word as her bond. I thought you were some sort of imposter. I looked up your myspace and you two do look good together. Best of luck girl. |
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arizona (m)
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@ijeoma
i hope you are either married to a Yoruba man or ready to marry one. don't use your bad experience with your IBO boy friend and generalize that Ibo men are unpredictable. I don't know what kind of IBO girl you are? check yourself first!
@jesqueen,
Everything depends on what you want.
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nuzo (m)
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@ijeoma obi
You seem to be a kind of confused or maybe just frustriated that an igbo guy has not asked you out, because you know they are hot and will always remain HOT.
Most igbo men stand out wherever they go to. Or do you think the girl in question doesn't know why she is insisting on the Igbo guy?
Igbo guys are gold rush here, and i have never seen any chinese girl that dated an igbo guy and has thought of dating anyother foreigner, not to talk of dating a chinese man again.
I have two friends who their girlfriend nearly committed siucide because the guys said they needed time to concentrate on their studies and biz respectivelly.
Most times igbo mans boldness is mistaken for rudeness.
@topic
NIHAU! 2 years is not 2 months.
I have some igbo friends who are happilly married to chinese girls with kids. Even my cousin is planning to marry one.
But sure, you have to be extremely careful. Just be careful if you are saying the truth.
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dejia (m)
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Jasqueen, its seems some of us don't beleive u are chinese. i have checked ur website, i have been going to china for 2yrs .infact i have stayed for upto 3months
i havent seen a chinese type this good. i have checked through all ur post, i look through all ur abbreviations, i am sorry i don't beleive you.
If u have truly dated this guy for 2yrs. then what else do u need to know about him? There are alot of Igbo guys in China especially in Shengzhen ( ur location),Guangzhou & Beijing, u should know them by now.
I might not be wrong but, I am sorry ur ur english doesnt sound "chinese", if u understand what i mean by that.
please. don't take offense,
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Vieira (m)
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By her second post I did not believe she was chinese. Her phrasing is like a poorly educated nigerian.
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OgaMadam (f)
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Vieira "poorly educated nigerian" NICE. anyways. jesqueen you said Hell yea,i do have frnds like that as u said. Besides,don't tell me that people in your country never divorce____________________________________________________________ _____ Close your little eyes. and breath deeply. then read my post CAREFULLY. EVEN people in china divorce honey. what we are trying to say is that, nigerian dudes have a special track record. i am african and i still gotta watch my back. all I'm sayin is, if yous that interested, test and weigh him to make sure. AND I MUST SAY YOUR QUITE AGGRESSIVE FOR A CHINESE. YOU HOLD YOUR GROUND QUITE WELL. TOO WELL. 
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Jesqueen (f)
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@jesqueen
I sincerely apologise for not taking a lady's word as her bond. I thought you were some sort of imposter.
I looked up your myspace and you two do look good together. Best of luck girl.
Apology accepted and thax4ur blessing |
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Jesqueen (f)
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Her phrasing is like a poorly educated nigerian.
Whatz that supposed to mean? u'd better mind ur words. thanks |
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Jesqueen (f)
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Jasqueen, its seems some of us don't beleive u are chinese. i have checked your website, i have been going to china for 2yrs .infact i have stayed for upto 3months
i havent seen a chinese type this good. i have checked through all your post, i look through all your abbreviations, i am sorry i don't beleive you.
If u have truly dated this guy for 2yrs. then what else do u need to know about him? There are alot of Igbo guys in China especially in Shengzhen ( your location),Guangzhou & Beijing, u should know them by now.
I might not be wrong but, I am sorry your your english doesnt sound "chinese", if u understand what i mean by that.
Please. don't take offense,
1.did u expect to meet all the chinese ladies here within 2yrs?cmon, 2.well it's true that there is ton of nigerians resist in those cities which u just mentioned,but the thing is,my boyfriend keeps me away from those nigerians,except his frnds i kn,he doesnt even want me to get close to the others. P.S Black people in sz are not that much as in gz. 3."i havent seen a chinese type this good" -----i take that as a compliment, thax |
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Kaliyat (f)
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jesqueen sorry to say this but i think you are claiming to be a chinese girl and by all standards i will say you are not. I have not seen a chinese girl that has not been to Nigeria and is speaking "ah ah" which is typical of people from the western part of the country. If you don't have anything to write about, why not just relax rather than looking for attention.
I don't mean to be acusing but that is just how i feel.
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dakmanzero (m)
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@kaliyat, she linked to her myspace page.
Her myspace id is the same as her nairaland id.
She DOES type like a chinese. I interact with quite a few on gaming forums- they sound like that.
She is most likely chinese.
@jessqueen
You are correct in your observation: majority of the females here will not approve of your relationship. You'll get many negative comments from them, and bad looks fro them when you visit here. However think nothing of it, once they accept you as one of them, the looks will vanish (but theyll still look at OTHERS that way. Its just the way they are.)
So is it true that igbo guys use and dump non-igbo girls? I'm sure many of the igbo ladies here would like to think so, as well as the non-igbo ladies that got dumped by their igbo boyfriends. The truth is that you can't generalise. I have a lot of biracial (Nigeria language: halfcaste) friends, and an overwhelming majority of them have igbo surnames. That doesnt indicate an unwillingness to marry outside the tribe.
What you SHOULD be careful about is the reaction of his extended family. If they accept you, then you are good to go 100%- ignore what all the haters say. If they reject you, then down the line they may pressure him into taking another wife.
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Jesqueen (f)
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jesqueen sorry to say this but i think you are claiming to be a chinese girl and by all standards i will say you are not. I have not seen a chinese girl that has not been to Nigeria and is speaking "ah ah" which is typical of people from the western part of the country. If you don't have anything to write about, why not just relax rather than looking for attention.
I don't mean to be acusing but that is just how i feel.
I'm not trying to be impolite here,but some of u r really pissed me off. 1. " i think you are claiming to be a chinese girl and by all standards i will say you are not" What standards make u think that I'm not a chinese?did u ever deal with defferent types of chinese people before?if u didnt,plz be quiet. 2."I have not seen a chinese girl that has not been to Nigeria and is speaking "ah ah" which is typical of people from the western part of the country" Is it only nigerian people that speak"ah ah"?plz don't make me laugh. 3. "If you don't have anything to write about, why not just relax rather than looking for attention. " Sister plz,do i really have to do sth then i can get the attention from people?cmon.be reasonable |
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Jesqueen (f)
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@dakmanzero Thax for ur advice,i appreciate that! |
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Jesqueen (f)
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I MUST SAY YOUR QUITE AGGRESSIVE FOR A CHINESE. YOU HOLD YOUR GROUND QUITE WELL. TOO WELL. Why did u say that? |
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raphy (m)
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hi jesqueen, how are u doin, am readin ur post today just feel like replyin. so u date a nigerian guy, it doest matter u need to study him that well. because nigerian guys are not that bad as some people may say. if he tells u that he is goin bck home tell him wether u should come wit him, just try n know if he is hidin somtin from u k good lock girl |
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WesleyanA (f)
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if you've been dating him for two years, that's a long time to know what his plans are or at least have a clue. are you sure he's going back to naija? if he's staying in China then i guess he's might probably be staying with you. i don't know are you afraid to ask him these questions? we don't know him personally so we really can't guess what he's thinking. just because we're all nigerians doesn't mean we share the same brain. everyone is different. you can't get a correct answer here on nairaland. You'll have to ask your boyfriend or one of his friends that knows all his plans to find out the answer. |
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Jesqueen (f)
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hi jesqueen, how are u doin, am readin your post today just feel like replyin. so u date a nigerian guy, it doest matter u need to study him that well. because nigerian guys are not that bad as some people may say. if he tells u that he is goin bck home tell him wether u should come wit him, just try n know if he is hidin somtin from u k good lock girl Hey I'm doing great.thax, hope u r doing well~ the fact is he never asked me whther i should go with him or not, besides i don't even know when will he go back if you've been dating him for two years, that's a long time to know what his plans are or at least have a clue. are you sure he's going back to naija? if he's staying in China then i guess he's might probably be staying with you. i don't know are you afraid to ask him these questions? we don't know him personally so we really can't guess what he's thinking. just because we're all nigerians doesn't mean we share the same brain. everyone is different. you can't get a correct answer here on nairaland. You'll have to ask your boyfriend or one of his friends that knows all his plans to find out the answer. I'm not sure whether he will go back or not,we never talk about this,everytime i start this topic,he said that i should do my own thing first,and then when time comes,he will let me know.but the thing is.when will that be?! |
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WesleyanA (f)
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that probably means he doesn't know if he's going back or when he's going back (this is if he's being honest with you).
when he's made up his mind whether he'll go back or not, i'm sure he'll tell you. lol
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Vieira (m)
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Whatz that supposed to mean?
u'd better mind your words.
thanks
It is not an insult if you are actually chinese but if you are nigerian then it is an insult. I just find it perplexing that your phrasing of english sounds exactly like what I would expect of certain nigerians. Even the your reply and the use of "better mind your words" is so typically nigerian. BUT if I am wrong I will hold up my hands and apologise!! I am currently trying to learn Chinese and hence have a layman's idea of how Chinese is structured grammatically and coupled with the few chinese I know has led me to doubt your id. I have been to your myspace and it seems genuine. Do you speak English yourself or does someone write it on your behalf? I will be in Hong Kong and Shanghai in September maybe we can hook and you can point me in the right directions for the great sights. Any tips for my visit, like places to go or see? |
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dakmanzero (m)
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I MUST SAY YOUR QUITE AGGRESSIVE FOR A CHINESE. YOU HOLD YOUR GROUND QUITE WELL. TOO WELL.
Why did u say that?
She's probably saying that because in the past japanese/english/other non-African ladies have come on here asking for opinions about their Nigerian boyfriends, and were easily convinced that their boyfriends were lying cheating two-timing b@st@rds that would dump them and head for nigeria to marry a nice local woman (read: themselves) any moment REAL SOON NOW but you seem to be agressively defending your boo and unwilling to be cowed into submission. lololol! Hope the guy is worth it. A friend of mine is an English teacher in Japan and has a japanese girlfriend he's thinking of marrying. You should see what he has to go through, with all the advice he gets (he cut-and-pastes during our yahoo chat sessions). However his family is not only in support of him, they are encouraging him to do so quickly because he's the only guy in the family that seems ready to settle down, lololololol! (They are also not based in Nigeria. Whole family lives in the UK while he is in Japan) Bottom line- treat him like you would any other guy, but get to know his family and what they think of you for real. They are the only people besides him that matter. |
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Vieira (m)
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dakmanzero, thumbs up.
I like your style.
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Jesqueen (f)
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It is not an insult if you are actually chinese but if you are nigerian then it is an insult.
I just find it perplexing that your phrasing of english sounds exactly like what I would expect of certain nigerians.
Even the your reply and the use of "better mind your words" is so typically nigerian.
BUT if I am wrong I will hold up my hands and apologise!!
I am currently trying to learn Chinese and hence have a layman's idea of how Chinese is structured grammatically and coupled with the few chinese I know has led me to doubt your id.
I have been to your myspace and it seems genuine.
Do you speak English yourself or does someone write it on your behalf?
I will be in Hong Kong and Shanghai in September maybe we can hook and you can point me in the right directions for the great sights.
Any tips for my visit, like places to go or see?
Apology accepted. but i still don't like the phrase " poorly educated",no matter I'm a chinese or a nigerian. of course i speak english myself,who do u expect to represent me? well,u should goto BeiJing,ShangHai,and ShenZhen to visit |
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Jesqueen (f)
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Bottom line- treat him like you would any other guy, but get to know his family and what they think of you for real. They are the only people besides him that matter.
congrats to ur frnd! but how am i supposed to know whether the family accept me or not?i don't even have the chance to get close to them |
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OgaMadam (f)
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dakmanzero, word.
veira you said to jesqueen
It is not an insult if you are actually chinese but if you are nigerian then it is an insult.
I just find it perplexing that your phrasing of english sounds exactly like what I would expect of certain nigerians.
It is possible she is chinese you know. its not only nigerians that talk that way. maybe she been around the guy for long, now she picked up his habits - namely language.
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OgaMadam (f)
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What Jesqueen have you picked up other habits?
don't hate ok, I'm just trying to help you.
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Jesqueen (f)
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What Jesqueen have you picked up other habits?
don't hate ok, I'm just trying to help you.
hey sista relax,i didnt say that i hate it |
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OgaMadam (f)
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Ok Jess, we cool. Gurl if U's really chinese, your future is bright - infact its orange. Soon you will be going to the market, cleaning your compound, and cooking pounded yam with egusi soup for your husband. You go gurl Its bright. |
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Jesqueen (f)
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Ok Jess, we cool. Girl if You's really chinese, your future is bright - infact its orange. Soon you will be going to the market, cleaning your compound, and cooking pounded yam with egusi soup for your husband. You go girl Its bright. Thax 4supporting me ooooooooo lolololololo hey do u know any website to learn how to cool african food??i love those food u kn, |
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