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mamaput (f)
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Thats not it you know each child inside out.I am talking about Emotionally strong.Emotionally strong enough to say No to what you do not want to do. Smoke, drink ,sex, going to a party you do not want to attend. Not to talk of the breaking up. The day she has the courage to challange me she is ready.
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ell77 (f)
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This Cabali and Reverend self, you too dey give people jokes!  Thats not it you know each child inside out.I am talking about Emotionally strong.Emotionally strong enough to say No to what you do not want to do. Smoke, drink ,sex, going to a party you do not want to attend. Not to talk of the breaking up. The day she has the courage to challange me she is ready.
Wow. I think parenthood is too scary, how do you have time to know ur child inside out when you have so many other things you have to get through day to day i.e. your own parents, or finances. I know as much as my parents try, they cannot understand me fully (I could easily have been a bad child behind their back I just chose not to - I guess that was partly due to upbringing though) although I guess not all people are not the same, some people know every pimple their child has. My question is my parents were good parents I am just naturally a bit of an intovert. So how as a parent do u overcome this??! HEADACHE IS TOO MUCH OH! Oh I must make some apologies, I have totally sidetracked the topic of this thread, they call it idleness! lol 
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mamaput (f)
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you have your child the day its born,You know when its hungery,tired,sick. And as it grows you know more. you have tolet go at the right time overlook many things and learn to let it trust you. Your kid will test you. EG mummy timmy smokes" then you may answer "I do not want you to talkto him again or playwith him" or you may answer"oh my god well as long as you do not start" or "O my good smokning is bad for the health. or even bring the phone i have to tell his mum.# Now think what answer you mum would give if it wereyou telling her about Timmy. and what you will do after that. Stop telling her things?  ?? or go ahead
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ell77 (f)
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You make alot of sense, infact you make it sound simple. Ok I no go fear again! Thanx mamput! 
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cabali (m)
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So u will know when the chil0d losses its virginity as well??? 
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mamaput (f)
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Do you think my kid comes and tells me "Hi ma am on my way out to Fu**" Am very obsavant. If you are the signs are there you will know when it is about to happen and when it has happened.
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cabali (m)
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Whoa!!!!
thats impressive!
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mamaput (f)
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Thats body language. And when they start to whisper on the phone. And when they stop bringing boys home. It is important to me to avoid std or pregnancy than lie to myself. I do not want anybody to hid the pills and condom that way you become careless. My daughter like every other girl was denying. But i insisted she goes to a gynecologist and gave her the address with an appointment. After all her sakara she took the paper out of my hand. Because i made it clear to her there is no shakara in things like that. The Dr i sent her to is very strict and every 6 months she most go for a check up . If not the DR will tell her off. It was After sometime that she started to talk about it. And i could give her advise on things. That way i have a control over her. I have made it clear its not every boy i will aprove of i cannot make dating impossible for her but difficult. This way she will only date a boy that she can bring home, A Boy from a good home. Bad manners tell
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soldierboy
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as for me the rigth age for sex is above 18years of age old?
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cabali (m)
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Well, I guess if u can think of sex, u can go ahead and do it!
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marlet01 (m)
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Well, I guess if u can think of sex, u can go ahead and do it!
Na wa oh he never said he wanted to have it oh.
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cabali (m)
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I wasnt refering to him but @ the thread
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mekoyo (m)
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Daing girl! Your mama should leave the hell alone out of you. You are old enough. You should actually be th eone to decide for yourself when you want to have sex. If you find someone you love, HAVE SEX. Your mama is just blabbing. What an advice! Someone's mother blabbing? I wonder if she said that about your mother. Ha na wa for this nairaland girls. Hey, If you think its time for you then get married to the love of your life. I congratulate you for keeping your virginity for 23 years. What a great story to tell your hubby. Take care
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xDeStInYx (f)
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i enjoyed it my dear. My dear ones you should not have sex before marriage oh. Why rush? Do not give your body to any man because one day you would regret it. As for you olufumnmi you should be ashamed of your self for having sex at the age of 15 you even have the odasity of saying 'you enjoyed it'.
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dietolive (m)
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When you d!ck can rise, fight and ***** 
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teddyface (m)
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when you are old enoght to be a father or a mummy
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chaz (m)
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Girl, don't mind ur mama, shes just keeping d good stuffs from u! I'm 18 n iv had sex 4 like twice already, so u can weneva u feel like!!!
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nich (m)
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I'd say, "When you're married, not out of wedlock and definitely with your spouse ALONE." There's more to having sex than the pleasure. 
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Reverend (m)
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When you feel like it, 
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adeobo (m)
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Hmmm, Omo any how jwo! Sha play safe nd use condom
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temit (m)
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what a girl, i mean its very difficult to find a girl who's above eighteen and is not a virgin, you've done well girl, keep it till you find a perfect man
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Saipro (m)
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To be that old and still be untouched? Hmmm? Your mama might be right - but have you had the guts to ask her what age SHE started having sex. It might unlock several doors - more than even you might bargain for. On second thoughts, junk that question. Virginity at that age is becoming a rarity. Not that you're an anachronism or queer; it simply make you . . . . . . special . . . . . .
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luxiry (m)
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TO MY SUGGESTION I THINK SEX SHOULD START WHEN EVER U KNOW U privates IS ABLE TO privates OUT KITTY
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moji8888
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it is not a big deal for you to wait. as for me am 25 and a medical doctor and am waiting till my wedding night it is a better gift to give him on your wedding day
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moji8888
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it is not a big deal for you to wait. as for me am 25 and a medical doctor and am waiting till my wedding night it is a better gift to give him on your wedding day
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ibkaye (f)
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the age at which you are married
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slimes (m)
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Age does count and marriage is best.
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