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hot-angel (f)
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you can read right?
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DASKACE (m)
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Yeah I can. Carry go jare!
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jogego (m)
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I am a 23 year old girl, and my mother is still telling me that am not old enough to have sex.
Emm, did I read that right? ALl I can say is that any man that marries this lady better be ready to marry her mother as well. Seems to me that a 23 year old that cannot have a mind of her own, will surely be having her mother determine what goes on in her marital home.
SHEEEEESSSSHHHHHHHHHHHHH
God save us from momma's pets oh!!!! Abeg for your future happiness, just let any bobo that is interested know that he has to marry your mother as well.
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dejumotalks (m)
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now what has masturbation got to do with he topic at hand eh.. abeg contribute positively
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gina34 (f)
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vizion, thank you o jare na your own i won hear,
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gina34 (f)
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jogego, whats your own what has marriage got to do with it, i think you are against virginity that is badooooooooooo.
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gina34 (f)
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jogego, please keep my mother out of this.plsoooooooooo
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jogego (m)
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What has marraige not got to do with it? You think you can change from being a mummy's girl before getting married? I sorry for you. The average guy no go take that kain nonsense and you will be digging a deep hole for yourself.
I don't have anything agains virgins. Its a personal choice. Key word being personal. But in your case, its not your personal choice, rather your mother's choice.
I don't think I have said anything disrespectuful if you feel so though accept my apologies.
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solo2 (m)
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You are due to have sex. otherwise you find it had to get in the future. so get married and start having sex girl.
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gina34 (f)
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Am not mummy,s girl do you get it.the fact that i listen to my mum does not mean am her pet. the fact that am a virgin is also my choice,and i love it. Don,t worry i will let u know when the right man comes my way maybe you will tell him what you think of me.besides u don,t know me enough to call me names.
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bijorium (m)
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Hello everyone, it seems tempers are flaring . I believe we can disagree on issues without being disagreeable. That's a little maturity I believe we can all handle. We all possess the free will to hold on to what we think based on experiences amongst other things  @gina 34, I don't know why you have waited this long, but i admire your courage to break the status quo. There are people like you. And don't think it strange. and as for your mom, I think its ok to tell your mom things . And you reserve the exclusive right to tell her what you will. In conclusion , don't be swayed by popular opinion. | Even God is not popular everywhere | 
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Z4M4eva (f)
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When you feel you are ready, Gina girl,you go for it!!!, it depends on you really, if you want to wait till marriage,then wait, if you feel you are ready, then go for it, but I know I would never be ready till marriage.That's ME O!!!!please people, it's my opinion and my life, no one should oppose my decision of MY LIFE AND HOW "I" WANNA LIVE IT!!!
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Z4M4eva (f)
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Go Gina, tell them ABOUT IT!!!
Honestly, I just do not get it, when people call virgins names and all that, like they are some kind of aliens, or some species that evolved out of no where, from outer space, or cyberland, cyberspace, somewhere,it's just RIDICULOUS.
I mean, being a virgin or not, is one's own decision, whenever a girl wants to lose her virginity, then she would, if she doesn't want to, or feels she ain't ready, then she won't , it's her problem ,and her life. I mean, why call a girl names just because she is a virgin?, It's her life, and she would do what she wants to do with it,na your business?it baffles me when people think they know what is right for other people, when they themselves,their life get corner, corner!!! people should learn to face up to some facts of life.
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michelin89 (f)
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there's no right age for sex. everything depends on the maturity of the person to live sex with all its beautiful pleasures and pains. but i can say averagely we can start at the age of 16 for the girls and 18 for the guys.
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Z4M4eva (f)
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hmmm... 
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gina34 (f)
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but i can say averagely we can start at the age of 16 for the girls and 18 for the guys. I bow for youooooooooo 
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Z4M4eva (f)
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Xactly what I was thinking, Gina *SHOCKING*
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michelin89 (f)
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oh gals don't act dumb. it's the reality of fact! i can bet that if it hadn't been for the respect gina has for her mom she would have gone for it since. She is fu*king 23!
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chillin (f)
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guys guys guyzzzz!! watz all this about??? d girl is simply askin what age!!! sum people juss don't get it!! as 4 me thooo i think d best age is at one-thousand one-hundred and onety one! that e-z!! at that age u'll surelyy enjoy it!! na lie i talk??  but 4 real gina!! @23!! u holdin it good!!
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Z4M4eva (f)
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@Chillin, she is, and I respect her for that,not many girls can wait that long.
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mamba (m)
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@gina, you better loose the thing before it becomes detrimental to you.. my friend once tried to disvirgin his 24yr old newly wedded wife and she landed in hospital almost bleeding to death because i guess something went wrong as a result of her keeping virginity till old age.. her hymen got too mature, causing it to become more difficult to penetrate, thereby causing excessive bleeding..
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Z4M4eva (f)
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urggh  , God, I feel sick!!! @ Mamba, Don't DISCOURAGE Gina, If I were Gina, I wouldn't listen, but I am not Gina, so I would do what "I" would do, I would keep my virginity till marriage 
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mamba (m)
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i'm not trying to discourage her but i'm only trying to let y'all know that i don't want to marry and have my new wife crying on our honeymoon bed, it's a night i expect to be perfect and not bloody or messy..
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Z4M4eva (f)
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Oh right, I see, but still it can't be that painful 
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singer
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Please , this is the most precious wedding gift you can give your husband. if you go ahead and give it to just anybody, what is left to explore? sex is very pleasurable but people won't tell you how they worry about STD's , how they got addicted once they tried it , how they feel used and dumped. many folks who regret loosing their precious gift want to pressure others to have sex tooo. please think about the future consequences, remember the Bible says "our body is the temple of the Holyspirit". Please reverence your body, how would you feel if another woman is sleeping with your future husband, how would your future husband feel if he knows someone else is sleeping with you. my dear value your worth , keep yourself. I wish everyone kept themselves , there would be less prevelance of AIDs, STDs, unwanted pregnancies, abortions , marital unfaithfulness. yes sex contributes to marital unfaithfulness, the spouse has tasted other folks and has certain expectations , which if unmet , she/he may start looking outside. imagine if Mary in the Bible was'nt a virgin, would she have been chosen to bear the Messiah. all said and done Please keep yourself and you would never regret it . My pastor always boast of being a virgin in marriage. he has a great marriage. yes marriage involves other things but you stand a better chance of being trusted by your spouse if you are a virgin when you marry. you don't want men to see you as a whore" if she does it with me, then she can do it with other men" , the same goes to women. you stand a better chance of marrying a faithful man, if you are faithful before marriage. God bless you. I wish you the best
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Z4M4eva (f)
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@ Singer, na truth you talk o !!, I wish some people can begin to understand... 
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chillin (f)
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@Chillin, she is, and I respect her for that,not many girls can wait that long.
yeahh girl @ 23 shez doin good!! i respect her 4 that 2 lol lol
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michelin89 (f)
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so...tell me ladies! Do you agree that you have to keep yourself for a man that has disvirgined so many other women in his life? i think for him it won't be anything special. in fact it will rather be like another conquest! c'mon. OK let's take you'll give him your virginity as the most precious gift you have. but what does he have to offer you? can't you see the high content of sexism in what you're saying? you ladies and men are saying that it's more important for the woman to be the virgin, while the man can be an expert or whatever. if you are a virgin man you are free to opt for either a non or a virgin, but when you're not, you're very hypocrite to start seeking for a virgin as a spouse when you have disvirgined many.
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Z4M4eva (f)
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I think guys that have slept with other girls shouldn't expect to get married to a virgin.
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Rhodalyn (f)
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i think a girl can have sex once she feels she's ready and has met the right guy
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lunafish (f)
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There is no right age. Besides being legal. It's about it being the right time for you. If you're with someone and you feel that it's the right time to have sex and they have a condom, then have sex. Have courage in your own convictions as your mum or anyone else can't know how you feel.
Respect yourself and protect yourself.
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