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4real (m)
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Wait who said that we men want to get married to virgins, as for me hell no, i love sex and a woman who is not good in bed (blood of Jesus) i don't have time to be teaching her the ropes, but Gina look if you are ready to give it to me then the appointed time is now NOW , If not then keep your thing till you meet your husband
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cabali (m)
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Look! let me tell u all, we like virgins for only one reason, we get to be the one to hit the skins fresh and by that we expect she will stick to us hopefully not knowing any better
W e will marry a virgin for loyalty sakes but a guy will always cheat on the virgin wife because he willneed a taste of the experienced from time to time so gina u may keep it for ur husband but don't expect him to be faithfull. a guy will more likely be faithful to a girl who is a freak in bed and a lady outdoors!
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cabali (m)
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for a guy immediately u can get ur privates hard it is tuime to go and for a girl immediately u can get wet do it!!!! or u owill miss out on experience
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Hotstepper (f)
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excatly@ gina, keep yourself and make ur choice, no peer pressure which have affected sum. I know people who laugh at others because they listen 2 their parents but they tend 2 find out that those people come out good, am also in ur shoes and loving it
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cabali (m)
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If gina is already 23 there is a problem, I just hope her mom will be able to teach her the rudiments of making love so she doesnt loose her husband to a sexy pro that is also material
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slazzy (m)
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My advice is this "wait till u get married" since u've waited this long. I pray u find a nice guy like me as ur life partner lol.I wish u all the best. cheers
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cabali (m)
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i can't assure u about that though! u gats ta get busy about that pussy and in time too
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sirakan
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gina if your mother tells you to hold on, you better do, its just for your good, because she has passed thro' such and I believe she's giving you the best she can. the right age is just at the corner just hold on. sirakan  |
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cabali (m)
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i repeat don't hold on, get on with it now! u wont regret it. but be safe though!
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sweetrhyme (f)
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WELL girl IT ALL DEPEND IF YOU GOT A MAN THAT TREAT YOU RIGHT OR NOT.YOU CAN'T GIVE SEX A AGE BECAUSE EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT BUT AS YOU R 23 DO IT IF YOU WANNER AND YOU R SURE IS WOT U WANT N YOUR MUM WILL ALWAYS SAY THAT EVEN IF YOU R 30 YEARS OLD AS SHE IS YOUR MOTHER NO MONTHER WANT TO KNOW THEIR CHILD IS HAVING SEX come ON NOW.  
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quadriyomi
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Hello
my name is quadri am from lagos and i will like to know more about
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naija4life (f)
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You see, first i don't believe ur a still a virgin BUT just in case miraculously u are, then:
GET OUT THERE AND GET ROMPING REAL HARD but play safe though
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olutomiwa (m)
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75years,that time you are old enof to go to where many have gone and never return.
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rawlings (m)
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Well for a girl i think is 18 but lets face the fact >Blessed is a virgine but is just fucking bkos of the pressure we have with our mates thats why u feel inferior without sex.but just be wise if u ok with ur virgine just keep it up.Be wise and don't make a mistake many will come and take that glory off you but will run away like an evening sun.
Just be nice and wisae girlfreind
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naija4life (f)
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many will come and take that glory off you but will run away like an evening sun.
Just be nice and wisae girlfreind
@ Rawlings, i like that last part, as in hitting and running, ouch, brings back very old memories, lol  |
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cabali (m)
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whatever u do start early; get all the experience u can
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naija4life (f)
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LMAO at cabali 'evil man on da prowl' as in start young abi
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cabali (m)
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fo so!!!! |
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chistiana (f)
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ur Mum is just been protective of u, and she;s really doin the realbest as a mother, cause she wants the best for u. still a virgin @ 23 is not bad, just a piece of advice don't give that thing to just any one, and besides u can still wait till u get married cause i think that wil be better.
and am sure u husbyyy will enjoy u.
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boladonas (m)
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the right age for sex is marry age (marriage)
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cabali (m)
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how can u say that sort of rubbish??!!!
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Reverend (m)
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Have sex when you feel ready for it, not when you are told to do it or under pressure from your friends! Virginity does not equal dignity or is it scared. Virginity it lack of opportunity and a temporary state. When your time comes it will disapear in a few seconds of frantic thrusting, Then, virgin no more,  There is no right age for sex. Governments can make all the rules and regulations they want. Our bodies and minds tell us the right time and that will be different for each and every one of us! |
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cabali (m)
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whats with all this talk?
the best time for sex is now!!!
u need the experience to keep ur marriage alive
don't get married a novice in practical sex trust me!
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omo (f)
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zm4eva, from all ur posts, its like I'm d one talkin! yea I'm a virgin nd hopin to keep it till that fateful night of marraige. i really don't care if wont be maryring a virgin. if he is, great although akward for d both, dependin on how ethusiastic he/i would be at the moment. if he isnt, its also fine.as ive said timeless times, bein a vrigin till marraige is a personal thing. its between u nd God because He said, "u guys should keep urselves o"! its a personal choice to have.
ok at topic, i think the right age is whateva age on your weddin day. i watched this video on youtube of a white guy who was gettin married as a virgin at the age of 34. he was sooo cute n i was like damnn! how did this guy do it?! he advised people though to date less, just find a right person and stick with him/her so u don't get pressured by different partners, e.t.c.
so my dear Gina, keep yourself o, its worth it. i'm 19, i have 2 sisters who r in their early 20s and we 3 are virgins but its not like we have it written on our foreheads. keep yourself and u'l not regret it.
as for d guy that tried to disvirgin his wife but ended up in d hospital, dere's a slimchance of it happening in every marraige where d wife is a virgin at her 20s. So that shouldnt even discourage you one bit.
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cabali (m)
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No sense at all.
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vizion (m)
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i watched this video on youtube of a white guy who was gettin married as a virgin at the age of 34. he was sooo cute n i was like damnn! how did this guy do it?! he advised people though to date less, just find a right person and stick with him/her so u don't get pressured by different partners, e.t.c. how are u sure u have found the right person if u date less |
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omo (f)
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No sense at all.
em oga sorry if i don't make sense to u but it actually is my own opinion thank you. *sighs* how are u sure u have found the right person if u date less
how r u sure uve found d right person if u date more? its not like I'm sayin its d best option or aything! its an advise from a guy whom it worked for. take it or leave it, no be by force. |
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cabali (m)
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so whats the conclusion?
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segedoo (m)
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@ omo waoh!!! i'm encouraged girls like you still exist and you're so gorgeous too i'm so proud of you and your sisters. i hold similar views but a lot of times i wonder if it's worth it when i hear all the crap so many folks do u know. Believe me the pressures are huge quite a number of gals have challenged my manhood especially when they see my body because i work out in a rather public gym. Now i believe an older friend that told me there lotsa virtous gals out there more than i can imagine. i think we should form a network to share our challenges and encourage ourselves. i know there are so many people out there that are under similar sexual pressures. omo beatiful, i think you should talk it over with your sisters and get back to me. my email is segedoo@yahoo.com |
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cabali (m)
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I wish your 'group' well!!!
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