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cute-ass (f)
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my question to you guys now is this: WE ALL KNOW RELIGIOUSLY / MORALLY abortion is wrong. CAN YOU FIND ANY OTHER REASON (other than those 2) TO JUSTIFY KEEPING A PREGNANCY, YOU COULDN'T HANDLY OR LIVE WITH?
@ twinsySo we're now doing the part 2 of the thread, shey?  Well if you ask me, it could only be one more THE FEARS AND DANGERS OF AN ABORTION I know like you and haywhy said, it isn't that risky but lets take it to the African standard. For some reasons unknown to me (maybe because in Nigeria f.ex. it easn't legal to abort), the girs and their boyfriends choose to go to a quack . . now we all know it takes an extra miracle for a girl who has been to the quack's to come out whole. Some end up dead, while most of the rest end up wombless or organly difigured  Most girls after witnessing or hearing such stories, would run for their dear lives, forgetting the chances of a successful abortion if done at a reputable hospital, the fears beaten into these girl make those aware of the possible success as scared as the rest, hence they'll rather bear the kid and put it up for adoption. Coming to europe on the other hand, where morals and religion aren't really the order of the day, and they take doing abortion as light as going to get an injection, the girls carry out abortions on daily basis. Esp. if they don't want the pregnancy, without blinking twice, the pregnancy is already gotten rid of  So i really do think that the talk of "abortion" being such an important topic lies in the four corners of Africa 
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luxoire (f)
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@Twinsyyes ohh, really party II in typical home-video style  (no mind me jarre) I think you are right! in Europe it is less of an issue than it is in africa. Because of the education / awareness and the 'affordable' and 'better' health services available. and i think u meant, they'd rather bear the kind and put it up for ADOPTION right? i do think that is is WRONG for girls to use abortion as contraception, or to be careless and thoughtless when having sex, just because they know that they can get rid of it! @haywhywow, what do u know ehh?, we learn something new everyday!!, what u just said is that a proven scientific fact?, or just a baseless myth? 
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marlet01 (m)
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@ Haywhy You no serious. Lol 
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RuuDie (m)
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@ Luxoire, hi there longest time --- hope u don't think i ran away from ur question because i didn't, just had to go away for awhile ! @ Topic,Why keep a child that u can barely take care of  that is SIN in itself; do away with it --- abortion is one way of disposing of that child; albeit not the best but is pretty handy when done early!
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luxoire (f)
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@RuuDie glat u missed me, though i'm not sure, how much  , what made u HAVE TO gi away (plz feel free to not answer if u feel i'm being nosy, say so) with regards to the topic, you're one of the few guys that have come in here and said that. and i agree with you. Having a baby u can't look after, is not ideal for me,
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RuuDie (m)
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@RuuDie glat u missed me, though i'm not sure, how much  , what made u HAVE TO gi away (plz feel free to not answer if u feel i'm being nosy, say so) U're not going to believe this but i actually missed u like u was someone i've known 4 ages, who is physically present --- long hols here in Lag over the weekend, so took a trip out of town to neighbouring Sagamu 2 see some pals & u can get nosy all u want, i'm kind of' likin' it !  with regards to the topic, you're one of the few guys that have come in here and said that. and i agree with you. Having a baby u can't look after, is not ideal for me,
As per abortion, i don't really dig it at all due to all the risks & complications but if its a last resort, then why not? ain't talked any females into abortions yet & hopefully, i never will in my lifetime!
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luxoire (f)
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@RuuDiehahahah, ur liking that i'm getting nosy?, thats not the usual reaction that sort of behaviour attracts!, so i'm kind of wondering why  and i am topuched and flattered that u missed !!, (although i am kind of sceptical with u-and thinking, u might be telling me what u think i want to hear!) so you've not talked any girls into abortion yet?, so have u talked them into not having one, and making u a daddy? 
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RuuDie (m)
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@RuuDiehahahah, your liking that i'm getting nosy?, thats not the usual reaction that sort of behaviour attracts!, so i'm kind of wondering why  I'm not particularly what u'd call a L adies L ove C ool R uuDie --- so u can bet i don't get a whole lotta attention from d females; not that i mind anyway --- i'm pretty sure Mr. F. Einstein or Mr. I. Newton got much either !  what would be your reaction 2 "nosy" ? and i am topuched and flattered that u missed !!, (although i am kind of sceptical with u-and thinking, u might be telling me what u think i want to hear!) Nah, not my style to flatter --- i only say it when i really mean it & sometimes, i might mean it but just won't say it --- be rest assured that it was/is in all sincerity! so you've not talked any girls into abortion yet?, so have u talked them into not having one, and making u a daddy?  Well, no but i do know when i become a dad, it ain't going to be by "accident" & there'll be abzalutely no need 2 talk anybody in2 anything!
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marlet01 (m)
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@ topic
Abortion like i said earlier is risky for. For a woman to want to abort a baby, she goes through alot of pains during the process.
And the question is "why is it that most girls still do it"?
God-forbiddes that i should Impregnant a girl before marriage, but should i, I would never advice her to go for it "Abortion"
Thanks.
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luxoire (f)
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@marlett- NO PAIN NO GAIN!!, if tehy want to be rid of it, pain seems a small price to pay for a lifetime of regret! @RuuDie, rofl, shey ur now comparing ur self to Newton and einstein, na u biko!!  , sense de com kill u abi? my reaction to ' 'nosy'', especially if it is uncalled for or from an unfamiliar source, would be 'and why does it concern u so much''?, more out of habit than anything else really!! i'm glad u don't flatter, hoesty is the bets policy, (but ur a guy sha,, so anything is possible)  and on the topic i trust u will become a 'good' daddy when u CHOOSE to be. let's just pray jarre, that the child doesn't take after some of ur habits, e.g ur rather sharp-tongue 
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RuuDie (m)
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@RuuDie, rofl, shey your now comparing your self to Newton and einstein, na u biko!!  , sense de com kill u abi? Nah, how could I ever compare myself 2 such legends  --- evrybody in my 'hood & just about evrywhere i go, just don't seem 2 see b'yond my medicated glasses; so they just take it that i'm the nerdish type --- though, i can't deny that i've got a little' bit of it in me ! my reaction to ''nosy'', especially if it is uncalled for or from an unfamiliar source, would be 'and why does it concern u so much''?, more out of habit than anything else really!! Would it be nosy of me if i asked where u're from --- i mean yoruba, igbo stuff like that ? i'm glad u don't flatter, hoesty is the bets policy, (but your a guy sha,, so anything is possible) Bet its going to take me a pretty long while 2 win a bit of ur trust --- well, its all good; can't just get it on a platter of gold ! and on the topic i trust u will become a 'good' daddy when u CHOOSE to be. let's just pray jarre, that the child doesn't take after some of your habits, e.g your rather sharp-tongue  u seriously think i've got a sharp tongue  believe or not, it ain't so if i'm talkin 1-on-1; guess the anonymity of the WEB gives us license 2 be whatever we want 
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luxoire (f)
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@RuuDieawwwwww, well if it's any consoaltion, i don't really discount people from my list just because they wear glasses, and usually if i find i am able to have good conversations with them, that is usually the primary motivation to start a friendship, so if u got a little bit of it in u, its all good lol, would u be surprised if i told u i am not from any one of those tribes? {about u winning my trust}, takes time, and if ur honest, u'll know u didn't exactly start if off making it easy for me to trust u right?, and u actually seem pretty smooth so ur trying to tell me, one-on-one, ur actually a different person?  , it is possible jarre, because i must admit i havent noticed very many annoying little statements from u, since u started being 'nice' to me 
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sillyboy (m)
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@lovemoney. How could you describe such an interesting gymnastic nasty! If it's a joke you better stop it right now! That thing is very SWEET. @topic. Please don't say Silly boy is here again ooo. I think I would support an abortion for anything! You never can tell, the child could be as silly as possible! Infact, my church mind tells me that the an unwanted child will be and should be Silly(don't even think about me being an unwanted child!  ).Back to the topic, If the parents could be sill not to use protection and decided to behave like he and she-goats on hoy heat, then, don't you think sperm, will be a hot silly one? Just asking
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Roadblock
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A question just came to my mind now, I earlier said abortion was wrong . I still believe it is and nothing can change that. In fact any man that will suggest an abortion to a friend is wicked and evil. Because everyone knows that the risk of loosing the girl is high but the guy only wants to remove his own neck. For the girl It is folly.
But in a case where medically it was proven that the mother will have to choose between her life and the baby's life it might be a difficult situation to handle with right or wrong perspective. also in a case where a hoodlum had raped a lady(someones girl friend, wife , or even mama) then in that case It will take only God to discourage the option of abortion. that one pass me. May that king of faith test never come my way because I have made up my mind to fail it already. I don't know who can stand that.
I think you are right , with the eyes of faith nothing is difficult, but in reality some things are too difficult to handle. In the last too cases i earlier mentioned, I will consider abortion humanly.
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Roadblock
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@lovemoney. How could you describe such an interesting gymnastic nasty! If it's a joke you better stop it right now! That thing is very SWEET. @topic. Please don't say Silly boy is here again ooo. I think I would support an abortion for anything! You never can tell, the child could be as silly as possible! Infact, my church mind tells me that the an unwanted child will be and should be Silly(don't even think about me being an unwanted child!  ).Back to the topic, If the parents could be sill not to use protection and decided to behave like he and she-goats on hoy heat, then, don't you think sperm, will be a hot silly one? Just asking You are a very sillyboy
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marlet01 (m)
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You are a very sillyboy
Hmmmm!!
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Roadblock
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Hmmmm!!
But marlet, is that not his name? I just called his name that is all 
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RuuDie (m)
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@RuuDie lol, would u be surprised if i told u i am not from any one of those tribes?
So which is it ? and u actually seem pretty smooth How so if i may ask ? so your trying to tell me, one-on-one, your actually a different person?  , it is possible jarre, because i must admit i havent noticed very many annoying little statements from u, since u started being 'nice' to me  was there any point in our brief yarns that i'd made any particularly snide remarks @ u specifiically 
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viee (f)
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@ruddie & luxoire love nwantiti 
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luxoire (f)
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@RuuDiewell well, its for me to know and for u to wonder, if it helps, think of it thus: maybe i aint even nigerian?!!, hows that? @Vieehahahaha, no be ur fault @Roadblockohh so now, u think there might be instances where it is difficult to not have an abortion. Well, now i believe you are human. because depite the fact we all know it is wrong by religion, we might sometimes find ourselves in situations where we have NO other opiton, and bringing the baby into the world, would only make us depsise it
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luxoire (f)
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@silly hahahahah eyahhh sorry u hear!!
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marlet01 (m)
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@ Luxoire
You're right kindof, because i see most religions if not "all" dislike it, but when you are in that kind of situation, it will be really difficult for you having said all this.
I don't know why most people see this as ok, but me i see it differently.
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salsera (f)
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@luxoire
if you want people to give you their honest OPINIONS, then comments about their opinions taking the 'moral high horse' route are uncalled for
you state your answer to the poser, let everyone else state theirs
Else you're doing the same thing , judging their opinions
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haywhy (m)
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@ luxoire: What I said is true ooo
@ marlet: Of course I'm not serious now! Do i look dead or like someone in an hospital?
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marlet01 (m)
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@ Haywhy Reverend Father  You no well.
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haywhy (m)
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We go meet for 9jas in London picnic! You go see wetin I go do you! & if them beg me I no go gree
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PHEESAYOUR (m)
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 when you are doing the d that thing, you forgot to use C-ceptives, and your man forgot to use condom and you are not ready to have baby, abortion is Ungodly, also it is dangerous. You have no choice than to have the baby. I think that makes the love grows stronger but Chei! I pity the UNWANTED baby making his way to the world, that is another problem to Nigerian government. O mase o.
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RuuDie (m)
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@RuuDiewell well, its for me to know and for u to wonder, if it helps, think of it thus: maybe i aint even nigerian?!!, hows that?  Okay --- i can be very patient when i have 2 but i know 1 thing 4 sure; u're Nigerian --- it oozes from ur every sinew ! 
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Roadblock
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 what a dress on a poor little baby, Pheesayor where did you get that picture from? Some parents are very sick.
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Roadblock
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[quote author=luxoire @Roadblock ohh so now, u think there might be instances where it is difficult to not have an abortion. Well, now i believe you are human. because depite the fact we all know it is wrong by religion, we might sometimes find ourselves in situations where we have NO other opiton, and bringing the baby into the world, would only make us depsise it
Yes you are right that there might be instances where humans regardless of how spiritually mature they are will consider abortion but that still does not make it right. In some cases you don't even know what is right and what is wrong but those cases are rare. Like I said if I find my self in cases like that(God forbid) I will be sure to know what is saying concerning it before acting. Interesting topic Lux.
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