Am I Being Taken For A Ride?

My partner is Nigerian and such a lovely guy, he keeps telling me that there are a lot of Nigerian men and women who  are materialistic and given half the chance will take a lend of people.

It kind of scares me when he says this, I don't think he is just after my money, but how would I know ?

I'm not normally naive but maybe you guys could enlighten me here??

nosillA xx

I do trust him yes.

Maybe I am just being very paronoid, he is 8 years younger than me and I am financially very well off, although he is in a good financial situation himself.

He has also been married twice.

Its only when he says that his people can not be trusted, that I wonder about him.

nosillA xx

@Nosilla - From my personal experience people that talk like that are those that have been burn't in the past and can give personal accounts to back up their statements. Have you asked him why he would make such a statement about his own people and the reasons for the generalisation as he is also including himself in the pile.

As long as u say u are both comfortable financially and he's not asking u 4 money for this, that and their project, then i suppose there is nothing to be paranoid about, just don't go breaking his heart as he would also include the English in his chant!